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dutyunfolded1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 36
United States

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My opinion....he has his mind on someone else. I don't mean to throw another thought into your head, but I've been with someone in the past and lived with them and found myself in an emotional relationship with another person..which drove my desire for the person I was with way down.
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yes I've had my heart torn out very recently actually, and I think about her and her son constantly. I'd take her back in a heartbeat but im still unsure why she took off in the first place. I think it hurts more with her than with any other girl because I had gotten very attached to her son as well...we had talked about marriage and I was really looking forward to having a family with her.
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Put it towards one of my vehicle projects probably either my rock crawler or the rigid frame bobber that im building. My garage is full of projects haha
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well ill second the part about the wetter she is, the more it drives me crazy. I've found that women that are a little bit curvy have the tightest, and wettest vaginas. There are also some women that ive been with that were a little more loose than others, and while they don't get as wet...there is something about the way their vagina feels while going in and out of them without (for lack of a better word) "clamping" down on your penis.
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Agree. Trust in relationships are a key component.

the world would be a better place if everyone surfed more
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'79 f100 that started out stock and ended with a mildly built 460, 13inches of lift on 44's. Used to love trying to get that thing stuck in the deepest mud holes I could find. Like an idiot I traded it for a '71 torino on mag wheels with a stock 302 and some glasspacks. Blew up the stock 302 after continuously floating the valves from over revving it. Built another 302, blew that doing the same thing. Pop ended up taking it from me and selling it.
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I grew up on a farm that bred horses and used to show horses western class convinced that when I was 10 that I looked like a mini Garth brooks
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Sex without love like a one night stand is good but when it's all said and done you have that awkwardness between getting dressed and "ok nice to meet ya.....see you around." When it's sex with someone you love you don't have that, its just the glow you get to share together after both of you are satisfied and laying together.

If that makes any sense to anyone other than me haha
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I've mostly kept things from my ex's except for a few items. The items I did get rid of, my gf at the time would ask me "where did you get this from?" once the story was unfolded about the item, and the disapproval from the new gf because i kept it......it would get tossed. I tend to be like the above posts and like to hold onto things to remind you of the good times you had.
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If im somewhere where I dont want the attention, ill push it to the side and hold it against my leg with my hand in my pocket.....usually the left leg. If its somewhere I dont care about, I just let it go where it wants to
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'79 F100 with mildly built 460 on 44's- traded it on torino
'71 Ford Torino. Bondo car from hell, blew up 2 302's in that thing- pop took it and sold it
'94 Ford Thunderbird with 351M on nitrous swapped in - slid into the back of a camry totalled it
'96 Ford Mustang built 4.6 twin turbo'd - wrapped around electric pole totalled
'95 Chevy Camaro V6 that was pro charged- sold to a friend
'92 Nissan 300zx - stock - sold
'87 Ford Bronco- Stock got t-boned by a guy running a redlight
'99 Dodge Ram 1500 cammed 318 on nitrous, 1ton axles, on 38s -sold after having tons of elec. issues
'83 Jeep Grand Wagoneer stock- sold
'07 VW gti stock- sold too many elec. problems
'07 Scion Tc stock- sold to buy my D350
'03 Dodge Ram 1500 cammed 4.7, port polished heads - in the driveway
'93 Dodge D350 Diesel Stock- in the driveway
'93 Jeep Wrangler 1 tons, 37s- in the garage

so 14 thus far
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I tried match.com for awhile at one point...i met up with one person off of it and we didnt really click. Any other girl I tried to message and get to know..i never got any responses. So I gave up.
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I found the perfect person for me, but we had a complicated relationship...and she jumped ship. I'm still trying to get her back.
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As far as all the property goes, it was all forfeited to them on Monday. I've contacted a lawyer and given copies of the contracts to him..and he is going to get back to me on if there is anything I can do about that.

I'm not much concerned with any of the property, as I am about the girl. I have tried everything I can think of to try and talk to her but she doesn't want to. Says I should just respect that she doesn't want to talk about the situation and that I need to just move on. I'm pretty sure shes moving on, my issue is that I want more than anything in the world to be with her and her son and its killing me not to be able to or to even have contact with them.
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Well I've been looking around on here for awhile, and now feel compelled to share my stupidity and ask for some advice as well.

I was in a 3 year relationship until very recently, which i was stuck in. Long story short on that...her family personally financed the purchase of land and construction of a shop for me to start a business in. Basically my dream shop. In return they put liens on my truck, house, and a piece of property that I had back home where I grew up. At the time of this "business decision" I didnt see an issue with it because there were plans in the works to marry their daughter. As the building progressed, our relationship started going down hill and I was forced to stay with her because of threats to have her family take everything I have..and me not knowing much about the laws concerning it all...i basically did what she wanted.

In the middle of all this mess, I met an amazing woman that has a son. We started out as just friends..someone to talk to late at night and vent about the days frustrations...and it ended up with us being together undercover. I'm madly in love with this woman, and her son...and we had planned on spending the rest of our lives together because I really felt that she is the one. She was always supportive and said that no matter how long we had to wait to truely be together that she would.

Then one day out of the blue she said that she couldn't do it anymore and that I needed to just walk away from everything and we would figure it out from there. So I made the arrangements to forfeit all of my property, bought another vehicle....and signed it all over. I called her right after to tell her that it was done and that we could start our life together finally, and she said that it was too late. She shouldn't have had to tell me to do it, that she just wants to move on and sorry it didnt work out.

I can't get her to talk to me, she won't let me see her or her son...and im completely devastated. I'm pretty sure I've lost her and her son for forever...is there anything I can do?