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justalilfun
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 44
Australia
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I like older music more than the new stuff. At the time I picked it out, I was really into Floyd. I also like bodypainting and love the effort that the artists had gone to in painting the ladies. I guess the two go hand-in-hand and the picture to me was cool.
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No. I might not say hey Mum, Dad my new girl used to....
However, with me there is only 1 deal breaker, and there is never going to be a second chance.
Do anything behind my back and you know where the door is, don't let it smack your arse on the way out.
Our past is in our past. We can never undo it. If we are all honest with ourselves we have all done something friends and family would not like - well I have anyway.
If the person was open and told you, they trust you. Respect that trust and if you have any insecurities with something from their past, or if you found out some other way. I suggest you discuss it with them straight away before it gets a chance to gnaw at your inner self.
However, with me there is only 1 deal breaker, and there is never going to be a second chance.
Do anything behind my back and you know where the door is, don't let it smack your arse on the way out.
Our past is in our past. We can never undo it. If we are all honest with ourselves we have all done something friends and family would not like - well I have anyway.
If the person was open and told you, they trust you. Respect that trust and if you have any insecurities with something from their past, or if you found out some other way. I suggest you discuss it with them straight away before it gets a chance to gnaw at your inner self.
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The only trouble I find with my 'sexual to do' or bucket list is... Well I cross something off and there is a spot to write something new.
I wouldn't mind making a sex tape though - young people, video recorders used to record on a video tape
I mean I have done the pics and short movies while having sex before, but not the whole start to finish with a friend/stranger filming - yet. That would be hot.
I wouldn't mind making a sex tape though - young people, video recorders used to record on a video tape
I mean I have done the pics and short movies while having sex before, but not the whole start to finish with a friend/stranger filming - yet. That would be hot.
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23c Humidity 77%. Trying to rain, only light showers though. 11.40 am Wednesday.
Wish it was fine though, been nightshift for the last 7 weeks and need to catch up on a lot of work.
Wish it was fine though, been nightshift for the last 7 weeks and need to catch up on a lot of work.
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For me it is hot. Esp if it happens during sex, I would get a headswell at being able to make you cum so hard you squirted all over me like that.
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You may not like my advice, but here it is.
Get him alone, in a car/room etc where he cannot be distracted from you.
Tell him how you feel, explain to him things are as you have told us. You can give him examples if you like.
Make sure he cannot feel you are entering into an argument as you explain yourself - you don't need that.
Let him have time to think about what you have to say, we men don't like to be rushed.
If he does not reciprocate your love, your heart will be broken. But you will know for sure how he feels towards you.
If he does not reciprocate your love, then he is a fool and not worthy of your love.
Do not go looking for a rebound relationship. You will only be hurt more in the long run.
Hope it all goes well for you.
Get him alone, in a car/room etc where he cannot be distracted from you.
Tell him how you feel, explain to him things are as you have told us. You can give him examples if you like.
Make sure he cannot feel you are entering into an argument as you explain yourself - you don't need that.
Let him have time to think about what you have to say, we men don't like to be rushed.
If he does not reciprocate your love, your heart will be broken. But you will know for sure how he feels towards you.
If he does not reciprocate your love, then he is a fool and not worthy of your love.
Do not go looking for a rebound relationship. You will only be hurt more in the long run.
Hope it all goes well for you.
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Sure I mean why not?
The situation of why we are meeting up here is an open ended question.
Do you mean, are we meeting up because we have a few things in common and we are turning our friendship from a purely on line to 'normal' too?
Or do you mean would I meet up for sexual reasons?
The situation of why we are meeting up here is an open ended question.
Do you mean, are we meeting up because we have a few things in common and we are turning our friendship from a purely on line to 'normal' too?
Or do you mean would I meet up for sexual reasons?
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I have never been to a strip club. I have seen a few performances though.
For me, I have mixed reactions though.
On the one hand the girls put on a great show - some are just slutty, some are sensual about their routine. As it is just entertainment and not a prelude to sex... You get all revved up, with no place to go - if you get my drift.
I would much rather spend time and money with someone where the result can be different, if I impress her.
If I was going to spend money on a stripper? No offence, but it is cheaper to pay for sex than it is to pay for a tease.
If I want a tease I can look at porn, it has the same outcome. You get revved up and you don't get the sensual touch of the lovely lady involved.
Just my take on it.
For me, I have mixed reactions though.
On the one hand the girls put on a great show - some are just slutty, some are sensual about their routine. As it is just entertainment and not a prelude to sex... You get all revved up, with no place to go - if you get my drift.
I would much rather spend time and money with someone where the result can be different, if I impress her.
If I was going to spend money on a stripper? No offence, but it is cheaper to pay for sex than it is to pay for a tease.
If I want a tease I can look at porn, it has the same outcome. You get revved up and you don't get the sensual touch of the lovely lady involved.
Just my take on it.
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Have done it. Great to have the sun shining on your lover, just watch for sunburn. Will do it again every time the occasion arises.
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I am no guru on the matter, however my one experience was fantastic.
I had a friend I met online, we were both curious to try it and I trusted her to be in control.
She tied me down to the bed and we both just went with it.
She teased me. Giving me some pleasure, but denied me orgasm, my friend also denied me her body at times as I yearned to suck her nipples, kiss her, etc.
This went on until I was begging her to let me have her, and to orgasm.
It was awesome.... Something I definitely want to do again.
I had a friend I met online, we were both curious to try it and I trusted her to be in control.
She tied me down to the bed and we both just went with it.
She teased me. Giving me some pleasure, but denied me orgasm, my friend also denied me her body at times as I yearned to suck her nipples, kiss her, etc.
This went on until I was begging her to let me have her, and to orgasm.
It was awesome.... Something I definitely want to do again.
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Definitely hers first.
The orgasm race is the one race in which every man should come second.
The orgasm race is the one race in which every man should come second.
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Hey Gals,
Just not sure what the hubby and I should do to start this sexual adventure. Thank you for all the help, I know I'll get.
I know you posted this in the ask the gals section, I hope you don't mind me adding my two cents.
1st - Establish what you are and are not happy to do with another man/woman/couple that you meet.
2nd - Set the ground rules with the lucky people who you meet.
3rd - Meet them somewhere away from your home first preferably public like a coffee shop or cafe. You may move to a nearby park etc etc to discuss the bedroom stuff, you need to see that the potential bed buddy is sane etc and that they are what they say they are wherever you meet them.
Some people have had bad experiences from internet meets where the first meet is at home.
Then there are the extra things.
4th - Once all of your boxes have been ticked - Enjoy yourself, pleasure your partner in the meet and see how your wife/husband reacts with each position, each touch of the other person.
5th - Write a story and post it to lush lol
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If you are looking for a site? I visit adult friendfinder, there are loads of webcams going on there with lots of people viewing.
If you are looking for a little advice on the matter?
Think about the possibilities BEFORE you show the world your inner moist sluttyness (pun intended)
What would you do if you boss, neighbour, son/daughter or any family member was also on the site you chose and saw you?
I have done a live cam show for a friend, but if I were to do something for a large world wide audience, I would do a lot of things to keep my identity anonymous.
Try caming for a friend or two to see if you really want to go big on the audience size.
If you are looking for a little advice on the matter?
Think about the possibilities BEFORE you show the world your inner moist sluttyness (pun intended)
What would you do if you boss, neighbour, son/daughter or any family member was also on the site you chose and saw you?
I have done a live cam show for a friend, but if I were to do something for a large world wide audience, I would do a lot of things to keep my identity anonymous.
Try caming for a friend or two to see if you really want to go big on the audience size.
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I am more interested in how a lady acts than just her figure.
It is what is on the inside that counts, and if my personality shines through as someone she is interested in.. Then I may be on the inside.
I have met some women who are what mainstream media etc tell us is sexy, only to be turned well away by their personality.
I have met a couple of men who were as big a dick as their appendages too, maybe it works both ways?
It is what is on the inside that counts, and if my personality shines through as someone she is interested in.. Then I may be on the inside.
I have met some women who are what mainstream media etc tell us is sexy, only to be turned well away by their personality.
I have met a couple of men who were as big a dick as their appendages too, maybe it works both ways?
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I've just always wondered. I know I can just taste myself, but I'm kind of scared to try that.
Why be scared? Just lick a finger clean next time your masturbating. If you like a guy to taste you, why not taste yourself?
Every woman is different, though I have never found one I did not like.
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Wait... So older women have a stronger aroma?
Not what I meant.
I was alluding to the fact that in my experience, younger women seem to be more into quickly getting you off. Whereas mature women take things more slowly, enjoying the whole pleasurable experience rather than just trying to cum and go in a heated rush.
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Now there is a gentleman right there. My panties are off to you sir
Mmm pity you are on the other side of the world, rather than the other side of my bed. We could both put our money where our mouths are.
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Well if I am to answer honestly... Only on days ending in 'Y'
Especially if I am able to simultaneously return the favour.
To see her eyes as she is giving me oral is a turn on, to 69 is divine
Especially if I am able to simultaneously return the favour.
To see her eyes as she is giving me oral is a turn on, to 69 is divine
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It does with some, but not with me.
Age is merely a number. As long as both parties are of legal age - Who cares?
Age is merely a number. As long as both parties are of legal age - Who cares?
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I have no problems with it.
I always use protection, if it's not on, it's not on.
Although I have one exception to what others seem to have, I see no reason why a one night stand or FWB's cannot be sensual and have some feeling - without love.
I always use protection, if it's not on, it's not on.
Although I have one exception to what others seem to have, I see no reason why a one night stand or FWB's cannot be sensual and have some feeling - without love.
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I would like to add my two cents; I am only a man so forgive me if I am wrong. But some of the things we men and women get bombarded with in print and on the web are truly ridiculous. No wonder the shrinks do so well, I wonder just how much of it is put out there by the shrinks?
I digress; here are my thoughts on the three topical problems and solutions for a woman to achieve the perfect pussy.
Problem 1: Your Vagina Tastes Bad
Solution: Vagina Mints.
I think it should be a shower for two. Why not wash each other and enjoy a little clean foreplay, before hot dirty sex?
Soap and water is a great remedy for all over body hygiene, is your pussy any different?
Problem 2: Your Vagina Is the Wrong Color
Solution: Vaginal Bleaching and Dying
There is a right color? Who says it is right or wrong?
Kojic acid, the same ingredient that keeps salmon meat pink. Salmon? I thought we were eating pussy? Something fishy there. Or sodium hydroxide, which can also be found in drain decloggers and septic tank cleansers.
Uh Uh, I am not going to eat anything that has been dipped in, or had septic tank cleaner splashed all over it.
Problem 3: Your Vagina Is Too Loose
Solution: Vaginal Rejuvenation
Honestly? Honey, leave it just the way it is. If you want it tighter, isn’t that what doing your kegels is for?
I do accept that some women have inner labia that hang down and cause discomfort. I agree with her having labioplasty performed in these instances, but not purely to aesthetically please a lover. If he, or she doesn't like the taste, look or feel of you, move on and find yourself someone who does.
To me the perfect pussy is the one I get to eat and is attached to a woman who has a great personality, to make me want to come back for more...
Just my two cents ladies.
I digress; here are my thoughts on the three topical problems and solutions for a woman to achieve the perfect pussy.
Problem 1: Your Vagina Tastes Bad
Solution: Vagina Mints.
I think it should be a shower for two. Why not wash each other and enjoy a little clean foreplay, before hot dirty sex?
Soap and water is a great remedy for all over body hygiene, is your pussy any different?
Problem 2: Your Vagina Is the Wrong Color
Solution: Vaginal Bleaching and Dying
There is a right color? Who says it is right or wrong?
Kojic acid, the same ingredient that keeps salmon meat pink. Salmon? I thought we were eating pussy? Something fishy there. Or sodium hydroxide, which can also be found in drain decloggers and septic tank cleansers.
Uh Uh, I am not going to eat anything that has been dipped in, or had septic tank cleaner splashed all over it.
Problem 3: Your Vagina Is Too Loose
Solution: Vaginal Rejuvenation
Honestly? Honey, leave it just the way it is. If you want it tighter, isn’t that what doing your kegels is for?
I do accept that some women have inner labia that hang down and cause discomfort. I agree with her having labioplasty performed in these instances, but not purely to aesthetically please a lover. If he, or she doesn't like the taste, look or feel of you, move on and find yourself someone who does.
To me the perfect pussy is the one I get to eat and is attached to a woman who has a great personality, to make me want to come back for more...
Just my two cents ladies.
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Hello ladies, I would like to know what reactions you have when you have a younger man hit on you. If you were to consider accepting his advances.
Would (or do) you consider his age?
Or is your decision based more so on the other things that would attract you to any other man?
Do these change if you are married or out of town for some reason?
Just curious...
Would (or do) you consider his age?
Or is your decision based more so on the other things that would attract you to any other man?
Do these change if you are married or out of town for some reason?
Just curious...
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I don't really know for sure what actually attracts me more. BUT....
Women are like scotch.
A young scotch (or your favorite type of drink) will get you to your destination pretty quick.
A mature scotch, (again,your favorite type of drink) I find just as much pleasure to enjoy the taste and aroma, as it is the destination.
Women are like scotch.
A young scotch (or your favorite type of drink) will get you to your destination pretty quick.
A mature scotch, (again,your favorite type of drink) I find just as much pleasure to enjoy the taste and aroma, as it is the destination.
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Not after masturbating, no.
I have kissed a lover when she had not quite swallowed all of my cum though.
I have kissed a lover when she had not quite swallowed all of my cum though.
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I think the question should maybe read, 'When was the last time you fell for someone you could not have?'
Everyone does at some point in their life.
Everyone does at some point in their life.
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It is a great part of foreplay. To be able to pleasure your lover as she, or he gives you pleasure is fantastic.
But sometimes you just want to see her facial expressions as you bring her to a blissful climax.
One benefit is that as she orgasms, I can suck her pussy into my mouth to drink her juices AND keep her going by working her clit with my tongue....
But sometimes you just want to see her facial expressions as you bring her to a blissful climax.
One benefit is that as she orgasms, I can suck her pussy into my mouth to drink her juices AND keep her going by working her clit with my tongue....
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With a lady police officer on the bonnet of her patrol car. Women in uniform are sooo sexy.
The beach is also right up there on my list.
The beach is also right up there on my list.
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No this has not happened to me. It is not your fault - never let anyone try to make you think it is. Just another reason to be glad I live in the country, but creeps are everywhere...
I wish you, and all ladies good luck in your healthy pursuits.
I wish you, and all ladies good luck in your healthy pursuits.