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a guy from lush want to give me a gift but i cant accept it help me!!!
Quote by Yahtzee
if it (the gift) or he makes you feel uncomfortable or badly .... thank him for the gesture, and decline the gift.
remember, if he continues to pester you .... the "block" feature is very useful.
good luck!
I totally agree with Yahtzee!!! Respectfully decline. There seem to be quite a few "gift givers" on Lush.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by CurlygirlyQuote by Yahtzee
if it (the gift) or he makes you feel uncomfortable or badly .... thank him for the gesture, and decline the gift.
remember, if he continues to pester you .... the "block" feature is very useful.
good luck!
I totally agree with Yahtzee!!! Respectfully decline. There seem to be quite a few "gift givers" on Lush.
There are a lot of gift givers here. If I don't want the gift, I just pass it on to someone else. The set of steak knives hap gave me, I just gave to my friend for a wedding gift.
Constant Gardener
Quote by LusciousLolaQuote by CurlygirlyQuote by Yahtzee
if it (the gift) or he makes you feel uncomfortable or badly .... thank him for the gesture, and decline the gift.
remember, if he continues to pester you .... the "block" feature is very useful.
good luck!
I totally agree with Yahtzee!!! Respectfully decline. There seem to be quite a few "gift givers" on Lush.
There are a lot of gift givers here. If I don't want the gift, I just pass it on to someone else. The set of steak knives hap gave me, I just gave to my friend for a wedding gift.
And to think you were offended that I offered to take you trout fishing over a year ago, (you know, over there on the tame story side of the house)...instead of just preparing you a trout dinner!
Now I know the rest of that story!
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by LusciousLolaQuote by CurlygirlyQuote by Yahtzee
if it (the gift) or he makes you feel uncomfortable or badly .... thank him for the gesture, and decline the gift.
remember, if he continues to pester you .... the "block" feature is very useful.
good luck!
I totally agree with Yahtzee!!! Respectfully decline. There seem to be quite a few "gift givers" on Lush.
There are a lot of gift givers here. If I don't want the gift, I just pass it on to someone else. The set of steak knives hap gave me, I just gave to my friend for a wedding gift.
And to think you were offended that I offered to take you trout fishing over a year ago, (you know, over there on the tame story side of the house)...instead of just preparing you a trout dinner!
Now I know the rest of that story!
Now Jeff you didn't offer to take me trout fishing, you asked me to play with your "trout."
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You didn't really explain why you couldn't accept the gift, so I'll give you answers for a few different scenarios.
1. A Lush stalker says he wants to send you a present. You have no interest in this man but for some reason feel guilty about not accepting a gift offer.
In cases like this, please do not give your home address to men you aren't into. It usually leads to other things, like them showing up on your doorstep with a 'surprise, it's me!' greeting. Even if you just see him as a friend, if he's wanting to send you a gift in the mail, chances are he wants more from you. You have to be careful with these types... sometimes they are unstable and you might end up needing to change your name and move before gift #2 arrives.
2. You are having a secret online affair and can't accept a gift because you don't want it arrive at your house and inadvertently end up in the hands of your husband.
If this is the reason you can't accept the gift, you could try explaining this to him. If he doesn't know of your 'situation' yet, you could also get a separate mailbox (PO boxes only cost about $10/month). He can send it there and only you will have access to it. This also helps avoid giving away too much personal info like your real home address. Depending on your relationship with him, you may or may not want to divulge this.
*** To break the ice, you could also just direct him to this forum link. If you're not comfortable accepting a gift, then just say "No". It works every time!
1. A Lush stalker says he wants to send you a present. You have no interest in this man but for some reason feel guilty about not accepting a gift offer.
In cases like this, please do not give your home address to men you aren't into. It usually leads to other things, like them showing up on your doorstep with a 'surprise, it's me!' greeting. Even if you just see him as a friend, if he's wanting to send you a gift in the mail, chances are he wants more from you. You have to be careful with these types... sometimes they are unstable and you might end up needing to change your name and move before gift #2 arrives.
2. You are having a secret online affair and can't accept a gift because you don't want it arrive at your house and inadvertently end up in the hands of your husband.
If this is the reason you can't accept the gift, you could try explaining this to him. If he doesn't know of your 'situation' yet, you could also get a separate mailbox (PO boxes only cost about $10/month). He can send it there and only you will have access to it. This also helps avoid giving away too much personal info like your real home address. Depending on your relationship with him, you may or may not want to divulge this.
*** To break the ice, you could also just direct him to this forum link. If you're not comfortable accepting a gift, then just say "No". It works every time!
Just curious if this is the first he is seeing that you didn't want his gift? Nevermind...
Artistic Tart
LOL
Artistic Tart
Quote by gabby212Quote by fillmeupgood22co not worry about recieving the gift, u wont get it
idk what to do, it makes me feel so bad!
LOL
Constant Gardener
Quote by gabby212Quote by fillmeupgood22co not worry about recieving the gift, u wont get it
idk what to do, it makes me feel so bad!
You can send it to me, if you pay postage. I might re-gift it to someone else though, depending on how practical it is. If it's a locket of your pubic hair, I know an old hillbilly medicine woman who I can barter with, for instance.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Wild at Heart
Quote by gabby212Quote by fillmeupgood22co not worry about recieving the gift, u wont get it
idk what to do, it makes me feel so bad!
These ungrateful chicks, right man?
I offered to send LadyX an awesome gift but she told me to just send the gift's value in cash. Can you believe that shit!?
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felixQuote by gabby212Quote by fillmeupgood22co not worry about recieving the gift, u wont get it
idk what to do, it makes me feel so bad!
These ungrateful chicks, right man?
I offered to send LadyX an awesome gift but she told me to just send the gift's value in cash. Can you believe that shit!?
So.... where's my gift? LadyX gets one and i don't? guess you're off my Christmas list this year.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Wild at Heart
Quote by spriteQuote by Magical_felixQuote by gabby212Quote by fillmeupgood22co not worry about recieving the gift, u wont get it
idk what to do, it makes me feel so bad!
These ungrateful chicks, right man?
I offered to send LadyX an awesome gift but she told me to just send the gift's value in cash. Can you believe that shit!?
So.... where's my gift? LadyX gets one and i don't? guess you're off my Christmas list this year.
You like buttplugs too? I still have the one I was gonna send her... I sent her the $49.99 instead... Yeah, it was a whopper... I still have it "new in package" for the collector in you. Just send me the info, in private of course.
Artistic Tart
I'd rather have the locket of pubic hair, I think.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by LadyX
I'd rather have the locket of pubic hair, I think.
i've been saving my pubes for 6 years now, just in case i ever had a need for them. if you'd like, i'll send them your way... not really a lockets worth, more like a couple of grocery bags full...
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Wild at Heart
Quote by LadyX
I'd rather have the locket of pubic hair, I think.
I can do that, but it's more of a curly bunch than a locket. Signed and sealed baby. ;)
Internet Sensation
You should never feel bad about not wanting to receive a gift. You can call it pride, a man will hopefully understand that. You can also call it sanity, that you do no know him well enough for him to get your address. There are many things that can harm you even if they're sent by mail.
Me I'm an angel 
and somebody here will stick my ass on top of the tree.7khtkqq2GUKwRAUQ