My wife absolutely loves it when i play with her anus, rubbing, rimming, etc... but whenever i insert anything, lubed or not, she doesn't seem to enjoy it as much or at all. Is this common? Suggestions or preferences are welcome.
I love getting anal sex, what an incredible feeling, even with my toys
When I am in the mood I love anal and and assplay
I often prefer anal sex over vaginal, for me it's so much more intense and I get off harder
I agree, nothing is at intense nor as sensual as anal. I love it!
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
I love to be fingered in my ass while I am getting oral sex. I do enjoy anal every once in awhile. But love rimming and fingering. I get very excited.
There is nothing that drives me wilder than a dildo or butt plug being worked into my ass, nice and slow, until it's finally rooted in place. After that, just about anything involving my mouth, pussy, or nipples (just for starters!) drives me crazy.
Strangely, though, I'm not a fan of fast, hard fucking in my ass. I prefer it well-lubricated and slow... unlike my pussy, which enjoys a thorough pounding from time to time.
I love anal sex and once you get me started, be careful I could just go crazy!
But lots of woman only want anal on occasion and most want it not at all.
I am probably ahe exception.
Well, you said that she seems to lose interest, so my first suggestion would be to ask her. Assuming you've done that and she's not really sure why it is, maybe just press at her or play with her the way she likes, unless it's really important to you that you can do that, i.e. fucking her ass. There are lots of things to do. Sometimes insertion by somebody else is difficult, so she can insert and have you manipulate the toy while you get the hang of it. Hope that helps.
Is it possible she isn't relaxed enough for actual penetration? There is a big difference between having your ass licked/rubbed and having it penetrated. It is also possible she just doesn't enjoy her ass, being actually filled by something! Your best bet is to ask her.
I had asked her before I posted, she say's it's ok just doesn't feel as good as non penetrative attention, she gets bored with it and would rather vaginal penetration. I was just wondering if other women had this attitude or if she wasn't coming out with something. I prefer a good blow job to fucking her ass so that's not really an important reason for asking either lol, I just want to make sure she isn't missing out on anything I can give her.
do you still enjoy getting your anus played with then? Or is that just a no go area. (if you don't mind sharing)
See that's why I was curious in the first place. Everyone I know is either all in or no go period
Start slow then build up to pounding me hard, deep and intense and my knees will go x
Everyone is an individual. Listen to her desires and needs. If she's tried it with a few times and doesn't enjoy it, either try it a different way or leave it be. Doing the same things she doesn't care for again and again while expecting different results is just crazy.
For myself, I've had anal that was good, and a lot that was not. I'm on the fence with it. I can enjoy it if it's done properly and I'm in the mood for it, if not just don't.
A stiff hard cock is the best thing to shove in there. It's always been my preference, although a few hundred dollar bills feel nice too
