Okay, I actually had quite a few things in mind when creating this thread. I'd like to read women's opinions about this, but I'm also looking for a few specific advices for my own girlfriend.
First of all, a few general questions:
- What is your absolute favorite toy to achieve g-spot orgasms?
- Which form of stimulation works best for you? A small localized tip, or a large surface? Rubbing against your g-spot, or applying a firm pressure on it?
- Are vibrations really necessary for you, or simply a tiny advantage? Does thrusting in-and-out with a nicely shaped dildo actually works better for you?
I'm asking because my girlfriend isn't quite advantaged to reach g-spot orgasms; she can achieve it at times in the right mood and with enough persistence, but it can be a lot of work and not always worth the effort.
Lately I've been reading reviews about a toy that's considered the 'ultimate' g-spot stimulator, the Njoy Pure Wand:
It's made of pure steel and doesn't vibrate at all, but apparently the way it manages to find/stimulate the g-spot is spectacular; a lot of women mentioned that they could finally achieve squirting orgasms with this toy, with very little effort. I thus have been wondering if it would be worth it for my girlfriend; maybe reaching g-spot orgasms would still be a bit of a challenge for her, but it could render the task easier to achieve. It's rather expensive though (around $70-100), so I'm not sure if it would be worth investing into.
My girlfriend actually prefers a firm pressure applied on her g-spot with just a slight rocking movement, so I thought that the Njoy Pure Wand could be appropriate for her. Her current favorite vibrator is the Jopen Ceres G Massager, which she likes because the head is quite thick and finds her g-spot easily while applying a firm pressure:
She also likes the vibrations, apparently they're quite deep and propagate nicely all around her pelvic region. Usually she likes to alternate between internal and clitoral stimulation with it, she says that the texture is quite soft and perfect to rub all over her clit/labia. That or she'll keep this vibrator inside her pussy while stimulating her clit with either her fingers or a Pocket Rocket. She almost always orgasms from her clit however. She never got to enjoy those dual-action vibrators by the way, she even tried a high-end Jopen model from one of her best friends and didn't think it was worth it.
Funnily enough, Jopen also sells a wand that's a perfect hybrid between the Njoy Pure Wand and her own vibrator; it's available both with or without vibrations, and around the same price as the Njoy Pure Wand:
I've been wondering if the extra-pronounced curve would really make that big of a difference to help her achieve g-spot orgasms, as compared to her actual vibrator. If anyone has any experience with those 'curved wands', I'd really appreciate your feedback.
As mentioned above, you're also free to discuss about what works best for you to achieve g-spot orgasms. Thanks for sharing!
I find an ordinary dildo stimulates my g-spot sufficiently, its just about changing the angle of penetration rather than needing a toy with a particular curve, but we're all different!
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