Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
chick magnet?
Alpha Blonde
Confidence. (ie. not admitting that you're a chronic failure with women).
Fake it until you feel it... that's my advice.
Fake it until you feel it... that's my advice.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Confidence. (ie. not admitting that you're a chronic failure with women).
Fake it until you feel it... that's my advice.
probably a retarded question but how do you fake confidence? I'm 22 and never been kissed plus I have one of those faces that cant hide disappointment so when a woman says no it really shows
Wild at Heart
I know im not a gal but you cant fake confidence man. What you have to realize is that not every woman will want you. Dont let that affect you or your confidence around ALL women. Enter a room like you know that those girls standing right over there want you to come over to them and chat them up. Then do just that. If they don't like your wrap, who cares? You probably wont see them again anyway. Most women will let you know if they are interested right away. But you have to approach them like you heard her thoughts and she was thinking "man I wish that guy that just walked in would come over here and talk to me." Speak clearly and loud enough for her to here. dont make her ask you what? Or to repeat yourself and you should be fine. Go forth and fish out your own siren.
The Linebacker
I tried selling "Chick Magnets" at $29.99 each. Told the guys to keep them in their left front pocket.
Constant Gardener
Quote by studintraining
whats the most attractive thing about a man? I'm a chronic failure with women and really need some help to improve my chances
Grow a pair, for fuck's sakes.
You are how old and never been kissed? Who are ya, Quasimodo? Or are ya just pulling our legs.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Purveyor of Poetry & Porn
Maybe you just need a "Chick Magnet" T-shirt to give your confidence a little boost...
Seems to have done wonders for this dude...
Seems to have done wonders for this dude...
You know you want it, you know you need it bad...get it now on Amazon.com...
Lush Erotica, an Anthology of Award Winning Sex Stories
Grow a pair, for fuck's sakes.
You are how old and never been kissed? Who are ya, Quasimodo? Or are ya just pulling our legs.
I genuinely have never been kissed and I kinda feel like quasimodo or frankenstein's monster or something coz very rarely do I get passed hello before a woman shuts me down. I've been told countless times to lower my standards which I've done to the point where I've even approached a blind girl and been rejected
I dont want sympathy I just want a chance, something alot of you take for granted
You are how old and never been kissed? Who are ya, Quasimodo? Or are ya just pulling our legs.
I genuinely have never been kissed and I kinda feel like quasimodo or frankenstein's monster or something coz very rarely do I get passed hello before a woman shuts me down. I've been told countless times to lower my standards which I've done to the point where I've even approached a blind girl and been rejected
I dont want sympathy I just want a chance, something alot of you take for granted
The Linebacker
You are just going to have to throw yourself out there. Get the courage up and start asking some women out. Even if it is just a friend at work for coffee or an after work drink. Until you start taking chances nothing will happen. And be realistic. If your looks aren't great don't ask out a goddess! But until you get off you ass and start some moves nothing will happen. So what if you get shot down. Ask someone else. You can't tearn without making mistakes, without some pain. It's called 'growing pain.'
The Linebacker
You are just going to have to throw yourself out there. Get the courage up and start asking some women out. Even if it is just a friend at work for coffee or an after work drink. Until you start taking chances nothing will happen. And be realistic. If your looks aren't great don't ask out a goddess! But until you get off you ass and start some moves nothing will happen. So what if you get shot down. Ask someone else. You can't tearn without making mistakes, without some pain. It's called 'growing pain.'
Purveyor of Poetry & Porn
Quote by studintraining
I've been told countless times to lower my standards which I've done to the point where I've even approached a blind girl and been rejected
I'm sorry to hear that...I was tempted to make a joke there, but that sounds very serious...
Btw, I went out on a blind date once...it was terrible, her seeing-eye dog kept trying to hump my leg...
But seriously...like everyone said, you have to put yourself out there...everyone gets rejected...believe it or not, and I know this is hard for some here to comprehend, but believe it or not...I've even been rejected...
Yeah, yeah...I know it's hard to believe, but it happens to the best of us...
You know you want it, you know you need it bad...get it now on Amazon.com...
Lush Erotica, an Anthology of Award Winning Sex Stories
Quote by studintraining
whats the most attractive thing about a man? I'm a chronic failure with women and really need some help to improve my chances
You could use EFT to work on your confidence - I use it with patients quite a lot and it's a very effective tool - It might seem a bit daft, but suspend your disbelief and try it...
You'll thank me later!!!
Let us know how you get on xxx
Advanced Wordsmith
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 26 so yeah, I'm in the same boat. As for the women, they have an uncanny ability to know when guys are faking it and with their x-ray vision they can see right through us. You are doing the right thing by getting yourself out there and sooner or later some woman will take pity on you and find the love of her life. For the others that won't take that opportunity, forget them. When they are 40 years old, single with no children, and all alone they will realize then that they should have at least given you a chance.
Good luck and happy hunting!
Good luck and happy hunting!
The decisions we make dictate the life we have.
Follow your dreams, for those that do not will only try to discourage others.
Follow your dreams, for those that do not will only try to discourage others.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Magical_felix
I know im not a gal but you cant fake confidence man. What you have to realize is that not every woman will want you. Dont let that affect you or your confidence around ALL women. Enter a room like you know that those girls standing right over there want you to come over to them and chat them up. Then do just that. If they don't like your wrap, who cares? You probably wont see them again anyway. Most women will let you know if they are interested right away. But you have to approach them like you heard her thoughts and she was thinking "man I wish that guy that just walked in would come over here and talk to me." Speak clearly and loud enough for her to here. dont make her ask you what? Or to repeat yourself and you should be fine. Go forth and fish out your own siren.
Right on Felix, as usual.
Never fake anything, not even orgasms.
Women can spot a fake from a mile away. That was one tough ass lesson I learned thank god.
Climb that confidence ladder, one step at a time.
Good luck luke,
scooter
Quote by scooterQuote by Magical_felix
I know im not a gal but you cant fake confidence man. What you have to realize is that not every woman will want you. Dont let that affect you or your confidence around ALL women. Enter a room like you know that those girls standing right over there want you to come over to them and chat them up. Then do just that. If they don't like your wrap, who cares? You probably wont see them again anyway. Most women will let you know if they are interested right away. But you have to approach them like you heard her thoughts and she was thinking "man I wish that guy that just walked in would come over here and talk to me." Speak clearly and loud enough for her to here. dont make her ask you what? Or to repeat yourself and you should be fine. Go forth and fish out your own siren.
Right on Felix, as usual.
Never fake anything, not even orgasms.
Women can spot a fake from a mile away. That was one tough ass lesson I learned thank god.
Climb that confidence ladder, one step at a time.
Good luck luke,
scooter
maybe women are better fakers then. it works for us.
Quote by scooterQuote by Magical_felix
I know im not a gal but you cant fake confidence man. What you have to realize is that not every woman will want you. Dont let that affect you or your confidence around ALL women. Enter a room like you know that those girls standing right over there want you to come over to them and chat them up. Then do just that. If they don't like your wrap, who cares? You probably wont see them again anyway. Most women will let you know if they are interested right away. But you have to approach them like you heard her thoughts and she was thinking "man I wish that guy that just walked in would come over here and talk to me." Speak clearly and loud enough for her to here. dont make her ask you what? Or to repeat yourself and you should be fine. Go forth and fish out your own siren.
Right on Felix, as usual.
Never fake anything, not even orgasms.
Women can spot a fake from a mile away. That was one tough ass lesson I learned thank god.
Climb that confidence ladder, one step at a time.
Good luck luke,
scooter
Bro,
These two spoke the truth!
What you need to discover is what you have that no other male out there has. This takes understanding of yourself first and foremost. Once you feel it - flow with it. This is the meaning of confidence - you cant fake that shit!
Your first step is to define who you are to yourself ake a piece of paper and list all your qualities - both pro´s and con´s then focus on the pros and find ways to let her know you have those. If its humor, or brains, or phisique, or intense knowledge on a subject.
Buz made a great comment also - dont hunt what you don´t have the tools to catch.
Quote by 1curiouscat
Your first step is to define who you are to yourself ake a piece of paper and list all your qualities - both pro´s and con´s then focus on the pros and find ways to let her know you have those. If its humor, or brains, or phisique, or intense knowledge on a subject.
this is the best advice so far. but i dont get it...ive faked confidence. so really? you guys cant fake that? or you just cant fake it with women? can you fake it on the job or in other areas?
im not being flip...im really curious about this.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by 1curiouscatQuote by scooterQuote by Magical_felix
I know im not a gal but you cant fake confidence man. What you have to realize is that not every woman will want you. Dont let that affect you or your confidence around ALL women. Enter a room like you know that those girls standing right over there want you to come over to them and chat them up. Then do just that. If they don't like your wrap, who cares? You probably wont see them again anyway. Most women will let you know if they are interested right away. But you have to approach them like you heard her thoughts and she was thinking "man I wish that guy that just walked in would come over here and talk to me." Speak clearly and loud enough for her to here. dont make her ask you what? Or to repeat yourself and you should be fine. Go forth and fish out your own siren.
Right on Felix, as usual.
Never fake anything, not even orgasms.
Women can spot a fake from a mile away. That was one tough ass lesson I learned thank god.
Climb that confidence ladder, one step at a time.
Good luck luke,
scooter
Bro,
These two spoke the truth!
What you need to discover is what you have that no other male out there has. This takes understanding of yourself first and foremost. Once you feel it - flow with it. This is the meaning of confidence - you cant fake that shit!
Your first step is to define who you are to yourself ake a piece of paper and list all your qualities - both pro´s and con´s then focus on the pros and find ways to let her know you have those. If its humor, or brains, or phisique, or intense knowledge on a subject.
Buz made a great comment also - dont hunt what you don´t have the tools to catch.
I agree with all these fine people here.
Little Miss as well,
But as a man, I just couldn't ever pull off faking anything.
I quit even trying years ago.
I think women can (at least some can), and I find it; kinda sexy!
Especially if she's doing it to capture my attention.
What works for me, may not work for others. Faking might get your foot in the door.
But what would you do as a man if you faked your way to a woman's heart.
Then later she realised you were a fake. Just not manly in my book.
Is it 5! o clock some wheres yet
Quote by studintraining
I genuinely have never been kissed and I kinda feel like quasimodo or frankenstein's monster or something coz very rarely do I get passed hello before a woman shuts me down.
you are not a frankenstein's monster. nobody is. you have been not kissed because right eyes have not looked at you yet. being kissed is not so important as long as hearts not kiss each other. you think you have serious problem because of not being kissed...watch a few Nick Vujicic videos (you can find on youtube)
Alpha Blonde
Quote by LittleMissBitchQuote by 1curiouscat
Your first step is to define who you are to yourself ake a piece of paper and list all your qualities - both pro´s and con´s then focus on the pros and find ways to let her know you have those. If its humor, or brains, or phisique, or intense knowledge on a subject.
this is the best advice so far. but i dont get it...ive faked confidence. so really? you guys cant fake that? or you just cant fake it with women? can you fake it on the job or in other areas?
im not being flip...im really curious about this.
I agree LMB... the point is to get his training wheels off. Faking confidence (haven't we all done this before when we had nerves or anxiety about something?) is meant to get him out there into the world of actual live experience with women. Faking confidence isn't about being fake... it's about rejecting the idea that you're going to give in to self-pity and social anxiety that let the woman you are asking out or dating become aware of this fact. It's not attractive... so why reveal it? Start small where you feel that you can have your nerves under control and go for it. With more experience, you will actually gain the confidence that you are lacking now. Confidence comes from actual experience. But you aren't going to get any experience if you indulge your lack of confidence by fading into the background and reinforcing negative thoughts in your mind about how no woman wants you. If you don't think and act like you are worth it, then no woman is going to think it either.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by LittleMissBitchQuote by 1curiouscat
Your first step is to define who you are to yourself ake a piece of paper and list all your qualities - both pro´s and con´s then focus on the pros and find ways to let her know you have those. If its humor, or brains, or phisique, or intense knowledge on a subject.
this is the best advice so far. but i dont get it...ive faked confidence. so really? you guys cant fake that? or you just cant fake it with women? can you fake it on the job or in other areas?
im not being flip...im really curious about this.
I agree LMB... the point is to get his training wheels off. Faking confidence (haven't we all done this before when we had nerves or anxiety about something?) is meant to get him out there into the world of actual live experience with women. Faking confidence isn't about being fake... it's about rejecting the idea that you're going to give in to self-pity and social anxiety that let the woman you are asking out or dating become aware of this fact. It's not attractive... so why reveal it? Start small where you feel that you can have your nerves under control and go for it. With more experience, you will actually gain the confidence that you are lacking now. Confidence comes from actual experience. But you aren't going to get any experience if you indulge your lack of confidence by fading into the background and reinforcing negative thoughts in your mind about how no woman wants you. If you don't think and act like you are worth it, then no woman is going to think it either.
Awesome point Dancing_Doll
For sure, as long as a person doesn't carry the facade too far.