I am just curious of how many people keep their Lush account a secret. I personally do, and almost been caught several times by my Girl Friend. It is dishonest... but kind of exiting.
Since I'm not in a relationship, I don't have to worry about a significant other finding out. Even if I did, I'd still come on here and they'd have to deal with it.
However, only one person in my life offline knows that I'm on here and I'd like to keep it that way.
To me, simply coming onto Lush to read stories is not cheating. However, you muddy the waters when you start talking to other women and have steamy chats. Just be honest with her. Who knows, maybe she would take a liking to the site and join you for some fun?