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do you like cuddling after sex

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Sure! smile I LOVE to cuddle! (I did not like it before the man I am with now, though to be honest, I really didn't. I just wasn't into it. I'd spoon but it was not a big deal or needed. I felt like the were too clingy and I just wanted space, like I could not breathe. I did not like someone constantly touching me and maybe it seemed demanding and clingy, but I do not feel like that anymore and all I can say is I did, but it has to do with the person and he changed my perception.) NOW I love all types of affection~ hard and heated and snuggly.
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I love it! especialy after squitrting; it makes me all warm and snug.MsdP40ePp0RA6g4W
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Oh absolutely
allmystuff
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Before, during, after! Mandatory!
littlered1
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God yes! Sometimes it's as good as the sex. To be great sex I need to have some cuddling too.
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Cuddling cements the bond and makes the sex deep and meaningful...I love it...
hotliz
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Don't all women love a cuddle for me sex wouldn't be right without a cuddle after
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Yes, luv it, cuddling makes me feel loved and cherished.
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Yes I love to cuddle after having sex
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I am not really big on cuddling. I like to have sex and then go do whatever else I have to do. Every once in a while I will want to cuddle, but not often.
Leigh65
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Absolutely...cuddling, caressing and talking after sex is almost as intimate as the sex itself.
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Love to cuddle and talk after sex. Learn some very interesting things about your lover. Sometimes you get some loving touches in interesting places
scrappybrunette29
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I am so not a cuddler. I wish I was after reading all the post but no its not for me and I dont think I miss out on intimacy though!
GunGirlJess
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I like it ANY time, but my most favorite is after sex. There is something different to the whole thing when you've just been intimate.
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Yes I like to cuddle. I want and need that connection.
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Yes that's part of having sex being able to cuddle it shows how much you enjoyed it and had a wonderful time plus it just might and has lead to having sex again.
Kittypusscat
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Quote by simplyjohn


Ok I admit I love a damn good hug/cuddle but at anytime .. not just after sex .. for me if I only ever did it after sex I wouldnt get ... oh never mind lol


Oh SimplyJohn! How sad! Have just found this thread and your heartrending posting. i love giving cuddles before during and after sex or any time i thonk they are needed. If you are still in short supply, I'm your girl!xx
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i sure do like cuddling after sex
Strangepiece
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yes i do enjoy the afterglow with the one you are with
Beffer
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I love to cuddle afterwards! Especially with another girl! Guys aren't as into post-coital cuddling as much as girls are, but I just want to fall asleep in their arms!
Escape
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It feels good only when you are emotionally attached to the person, not after just fucking someones brains out
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I love to cuddle after sex. It can be quite as satisfying as the sex act itself.
anonymouslylush
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It depends on the day.
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Yes, I like cuddling after sex. I love laying in bed with my head on his chest listening to his heartbeat and just being together.
Dancewithme
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
I love to cuddle afterwards! Especially with another girl! Guys aren't as into post-coital cuddling as much as girls are, but I just want to fall asleep in their arms!


Are you sure a really sweet gent might not be almost as good?????
Dancewithme
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Quote by firefly9973
Yes, I like cuddling after sex. I love laying in bed with my head on his chest listening to his heartbeat and just being together.


Mmmmmmmm....I love to do that hon!
Dancewithme
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Quote by Meggsy
Of course - cuddling afterwards is a nice way to come down off the high I have just enjoyed.
Sex is an exercise in pleasure and like all physical exercise -you need to warm down afterwards - otherwise its just a fuck.
A nice sexy kiss and cuddle afterwards is the best way to encourage a repeat performance.


I really like what you say here Meggsy, "...otherwise its just a fuck."
...and some of us are not just into getting fucked but being loved and made love to.
So I not only love cuddling but then following that up with some playful re-affirmation of the intimacy you've just shared, like rolling a bit, rocking on a porch swing, wrapping her up in a blanket to break the chill, sitting her up in bed and serving her tea and short bread cookies, or even breakfast. Anything that helps the whole intimacy is a much bigger love that goes beyond mere fucking. Anyone can buy the latter.
The real deal is precious and is better when it is cherished and celebrated.
AudriNichols
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Usually, but it's not a requirement, especially in the summer when it's too hot to breathe already. Cuddling sucks when it's already hot as hell.