Yes during a BDSM scene or we are engaged in rough sex. As long as they don't try to pull it out.
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Do you like having your hair pulled during sex?
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Within reason
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I agree with ladyblue69:
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No, not at all! fingers stroking my hair or running thru it is fine, but no, do not pull.
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Not really a fan of it, nope.
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depends on my mood, sometimes want it slow and loving, other times want it, hard, fast spank me, pull my hair, just fuck the shit out of me...
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like it very very much. 
Want him to pull my hairs, twist my tits and spank me. Do I need beg him to push his whole shaft into my juicy cunt?
Want him to pull my hairs, twist my tits and spank me. Do I need beg him to push his whole shaft into my juicy cunt? 
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Well, as you can see just like with everything else with sex it is very subjective. This thread has run the spectrum from an adamant No, Not at all to a very exuberant HELL YES!!!!!!! Not every woman likes everything we see in porn or even TV and movies. The ones that do, don't want it all the time, it is a desire thing, what is needed at that moment. You either have to learn to expect and figure out what she needs or you have to communicate and make her understand you WANT her to tell you what she really wants.
I totally agree, stop worrying about what to do and just do what you know, get good at that.
I think the problem is that they themselves do not understand the need or craving to have hair pulled or a spanking or so many other things that don't happen every time so they do not know how to find out if that is what their partners want and they just say what the hell and try. Damage done. Communicate, it solves almost everything.
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No ,, most of this is acting out phony intent…. Sex isn't a movie you are starring in ... I find much more passion when my partner wants to please me with what he or she is naturally.
I totally agree, stop worrying about what to do and just do what you know, get good at that.
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It requires lots of sensitivity and some guys never handle it. Have to stop 2 of 3 at first, cause it hurts too much. Got a shorter haircut lately to belittle their urge.
I think the problem is that they themselves do not understand the need or craving to have hair pulled or a spanking or so many other things that don't happen every time so they do not know how to find out if that is what their partners want and they just say what the hell and try. Damage done. Communicate, it solves almost everything.
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A firm grip and slow pull is rather erotic. A grab and yank can just hurt and distracts from the other experiences.
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Frisky if I pull yours you can pull mine. Lol
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When you get to my vintage, you wish you had some to be pulled.
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I don't mind it if done gently, but it doesn't do anything for me either
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During fucking I do, not oral.
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I love it ... I have long hair and it gets me hot having it pulled ..
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Definitely, just not too hard, lol
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Yes love hair being pulled when being fucked, niot during bj
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Oh yes... During oral, thrusting into me from behind, and when pinned to the wall (face forward)
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Yep. A lot. Whomever is doing the pulling needs to know how to do it well, or it will hurt in an unsexy way. It hurts in a sexy way if grasped at the base, with a firm claw. Then again, I also like to be bitten to the point of bruising, so my answer may not be representative of a general sample.
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