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Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?
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Definitely
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I need a strong guy who likes to be a bit rough
Advanced Wordsmith
YES.
Not always. I sometimes have a problem taking orders or being submissive. Once I tried the total submissive thing...HATED IT! LOL I DO enjoy taking turns taking the initiative, just not one person being forceful all the time. I especially love it when I'm gobblin' cock, and he's telling me to stop, he has to be inside me. I like to give a sexy, wicked laugh n keep on suckin', looking up at him like "It'll happen when I'M ready!" Usually he doesn't object, lol. A fantabulous fucking session usually happens after all that build up! Now don't get me wrong...I love a man who can shred some pussy, but a man sometimes being told "NO!" can be a mutually delicious thing.
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I guess it could be hot
Yup!
But there has to be a lot of trust too, otherwise it all gets a bit scary. I don't like not being in control, but I need it sometimes, so if I really really can't do it then he knows to stop and we'll go back to plain old vanilla.
It's hot when we're both rough as well, kinda turns into a bit of a fight-y-type angry sex thing.
Which is hot. Especially when there are bruises in the morning (I'm a masochist).
But there has to be a lot of trust too, otherwise it all gets a bit scary. I don't like not being in control, but I need it sometimes, so if I really really can't do it then he knows to stop and we'll go back to plain old vanilla.
It's hot when we're both rough as well, kinda turns into a bit of a fight-y-type angry sex thing.
Which is hot. Especially when there are bruises in the morning (I'm a masochist). Active Ink Slinger
Dominance is my ultimate turn on from him. But tone of voice matters very much...I don't like harsh/cold tones. Anyway, a true Dom can dominate without that BS. (I don't mean to say it's BS perse, only if a guy thinks that's the only way he can be dominant...and if the girl likes it, go right ahead).
But yes, I very much like when he does things like tie me up, spank me, position me how he wants, tugs my hair, gives me orders, etc.
But yes, I very much like when he does things like tie me up, spank me, position me how he wants, tugs my hair, gives me orders, etc.
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Active Ink Slinger
It depends if both parties acknowledge the forcefulness in the bedroom. If it is done by one party without the other party not consenting its a huge turn off.
Been there done that .
Been there done that .
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Really depends on who the guy is... and how it is done. Forceful in the sense of the level of intensity and being passionate... as opposed to a dom/sub situation.
Better if its what both parties want... gotta have mutual respect and know the limits of each other.
So, if both were in the mood for some forceful roughness.... sure, of course it would be a turn on!
Better if its what both parties want... gotta have mutual respect and know the limits of each other.
So, if both were in the mood for some forceful roughness.... sure, of course it would be a turn on!
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Yes 
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Yes, yes, yes
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Yes I love when a man takes control and is a bit forceful. But I also like it loving and gentle too.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Are you talking about more 'in the moment', or even beforehand - like in a general sense when you're talking about what you're into sexually.
I can see it being off putting to set limits and levels once you're already into things. I've always talked about my idea of rough/dominant sex way beforehand - like as part of general sexual-conversation.
I've found that guys wouldn't think of pushing into rough-sex terrain (outside maybe a little hair-pulling, ass-slapping) unless they knew the girl wanted it - I think they're aware that it could really freak a girl out that wasn't into that kind of thing.
I agree with this completely.
Rookie Scribe
I do. A little force turns sex a little hot. ;)
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when a man is rough in bed, it drives me wild! i like it just the way you describe it, not too rough but just enough to show he is in charge!
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Totally agree! Love the take charge, aggressiveness in the bedroom.
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I agree love a man to take charge!!
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It definitely turns me on when he's being forceful by pulling my hair and spanking me as he mounts me from behind deeply and completely. When he forces me against the wall and holds my hands above my head with one hand and plunges his cock deep inside me. It turns me on when he forcefully bends me over the sink and has his way with me, or he gently places the side of my face and my naked body against my cold stainless steel fridge and forces my thighs apart while he stoops down and pleasures me with his tongue and thumbs. Turns me on when he pulls me down on his lap and impales me on his stiff cock. It turns me on for him to stand behind me while I'm standing outside on the deck, and he forcefully bends me over the railing, lift my dress and enter me swiftly and deeply. Guess it really does turn me on for a man to be forceful not only in the bedroom but outside the bedroom too!!!
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Yes! Definitely like some dominance