Hello ladies,
If a man who isn't your husband/boyfriend (or who you aren't actively pursuing) tells you he had a dream about you, do you generally consider this creepy or intriguing? Are you curious to hear details or would you rather not know? If the details turn out to be sexual, are you flattered or skeeved out?
I know there's a big "it depends" factor here, but assume it's someone you know, are fairly neutral about, and isn't otherwise gross.
Thanks!
I know personally I have some crazy ass dreams, ones that leave me like WTF when I wake up (and my sexual ones sometimes aren't even people I really would have sex with, but they sure get me off in my dreams). Funny but true, I have sex dreams a lot, but never had one of my husband that I have been with a very long time (of course he didn't find this fact so amusing).
Most times when I see the person (if we are on cool terms) I will say I had a dream about you (sexual or otherwise). I would love to know if someone had a dream about me ( sexual or otherwise). I have a good sense of humor, am a big perv and too curious not to wanna know. As for being flattered, it depends on the person and his reaction to the dream...skeeved out, most likely not.
Before bed/sleep, take some Melatonin or Ambien, you'll have some crazy dreams and a great night's sleep
The answer would vary so much.
Could be that new guy the company just hired and you do not really know him at all. Damn, it would freak me out.
It could be that guy who you have know forever. You are good friends but that is all and it will never be more than that. Oh I would be interested because i know it will not be sexual, probably something he found to be funny and knows I will also.
Then there is the guy you see every week at Church and every time he shakes your hand an electric shock runs directly to your Clitoris. You are almost sure he is feeling the same thing.
It is not a question of if. It is only a question of when. Of course I would want to hear his dream about me.
Do you think is dreams are just as kinky as mine are?
Whenever a woman tells me they had a dream about me I always always always assume it was sexual or at least that there was desire involved on some level. If it was a bad dream that would be their subconscious telling them to stay away so they probably wouldn't be telling me. So when I am told I was dreamt about I always see it as some kind of invitation or admission of attraction and I have always been right about it.
I imagine woman see it in the same way. Of course it will be unsettling if she isn't into the dude. Especially since a dream means that you have to be on the person's mind a lot. If some new girl I have only known for a few days tells me she has had a dream about me I think "damn, this girls want to fuck right now" and I would probably be right.
