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Quote by Benvolios_cousin
Does the thought of a man choosing you over his wife or girlfriend turn you on or disgust you?
In my view it depends on what kind of relationship i m in with that man. If it is purely physical then who cares.
I would feel disgusted if i m imotionally involved.
In any case i dont see any reason to be turned on.
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I think the guy is pretty sad to go cheating. Maybe the other lover involved gets a kick out of being with a taken guy but really who loses out of it all?
Interesting question... As for myself, I have mixed feelings and some of that is based on reality vs. Fantasy.
Here in the setting of lush, I have had a few friends say how I would be better than their wives, either at certain things or in general and that can be a turn on - make you feel very desired.
Offline it's a little different, more guilt would surface and there would be a level of "that guy is a jerk". Maybe it's the difference between thinking and actually doing that makes the difference?
Here in the setting of lush, I have had a few friends say how I would be better than their wives, either at certain things or in general and that can be a turn on - make you feel very desired.
Offline it's a little different, more guilt would surface and there would be a level of "that guy is a jerk". Maybe it's the difference between thinking and actually doing that makes the difference?
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Quote by Benvolios_cousin
Does the thought of a man choosing you over his wife or girlfriend turn you on or disgust you?
It really elicits no emotion at all, probably because there is absolutely no way that I would ever knowingly be in any kind of relationship with a married man or a man in a dedicated relationship. Just not my thing.
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As an Escort just about all the men I meet are either married or have been. Just think they are willing to pay me and yet they choose me over their Wife or Girlfriend
When I am out socially and meet a man, he is almost always in a relationship. I guess that a wedding ring does not bother me and somehow I must send out a signal to state that fact.
If he is your man and you can not keep him from woman like me, who is at fault?.
Yes, it is great for Ego
When I am out socially and meet a man, he is almost always in a relationship. I guess that a wedding ring does not bother me and somehow I must send out a signal to state that fact.
If he is your man and you can not keep him from woman like me, who is at fault?.
Yes, it is great for Ego
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Quote by FirstBlush
No, because if he chooses someone over her, he'll choose someone over you.
....and we should never, as men or women forget that lesson love.
Cheating begets more cheating begets more cheating, almost like an addiction....{}
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In my past I have not knowingly had sex with a married man. I used to check his ring finger for an indentation if I had doubts.
A guy with a girlfriend,providing he didn't want to swap me for her I probably did.
A guy with a girlfriend,providing he didn't want to swap me for her I probably did.
It's not really a turn on. It is flattering.
Yeah, what she said.
Quote by YoungWidow
"As an Escort just about all the men I meet are either married or have been. Just think they are willing to pay me and yet they choose me over their Wife or Girlfriend.
If he is your man and you can not keep him from woman like me, who is at fault?
Yes, it is great for Ego"
Yeah, what she said.
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The thought of a man choosing me over his wife doesn't turn me on in and of itself. The man or the scenario may turn me on. But not just that I'm not his wife... I've always been very anti-cheating and unable to understand how anyone could be happy in anything other than a monogamous relationship. Recent events have changed my outlook and I have found myself very attracted to a married man. I am also married. But my mind and body want what they want, and right now, that's not my husband, but this other man.
I now see the lure of an open relationship and understand how affairs happen, as naive as that sounds. It's flattering to be wanted by a married man, yes, but sometimes it's so much more. When you want them back in the same way it's exciting, terrifying and daunting.
I now see the lure of an open relationship and understand how affairs happen, as naive as that sounds. It's flattering to be wanted by a married man, yes, but sometimes it's so much more. When you want them back in the same way it's exciting, terrifying and daunting.
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Quote by kinky_girl
The thought of a man choosing me over his wife doesn't turn me on in and of itself. The man or the scenario may turn me on. But not just that I'm not his wife... I've always been very anti-cheating and unable to understand how anyone could be happy in anything other than a monogamous relationship. Recent events have changed my outlook and I have found myself very attracted to a married man. I am also married. But my mind and body want what they want, and right now, that's not my husband, but this other man.
I now see the lure of an open relationship and understand how affairs happen, as naive as that sounds. It's flattering to be wanted by a married man, yes, but sometimes it's so much more. When you want them back in the same way it's exciting, terrifying and daunting.
You've hit the nail on the head - exciting, terrifying and daunting
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I have cheated most of my life. I find it a thrill that a guy who has a wife at home would choose me, even if it is just for the afternoon or an evening.
Of course he will be with someone else next time and so will I.
If everything at home was right he would not be where I could get my hooks into him.
Of course he will be with someone else next time and so will I.
If everything at home was right he would not be where I could get my hooks into him.
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You feel things even with married men, but never 'Oh he's chosen me over the Mrs.' That's cold.