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Girls: you care about your exes?
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Quote by "Lurker"
Mind you, we are talking about a guy YOU left, you treated him badly, you cheated on him etc
Okay, well, I can't speak from experience on this one. I've never cheated on someone, never treated someone with whom I was in a relationship "badly". So there's that. I can say that of the handful of exes I do have, we're still on cordial, and in some cases, friendly, terms. As far as becoming "jealous" or otherwise regretting the decision to end a relationship because months or years later his life (read: finances, since that seems to be the aim of your question) improved dramatically, that just wouldn't happen. I would be happy for him and whomever he was with at the time. No jealousy, or regret.
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When you end a relationship with some guy, it affects you to know how life treats this guy in the future?
Imagine you left him, he was just an average joe, but after a few months/years you happen to come across him and you find the guy is a millionaire, succesful family man, after you left him his life went all the way up.
How would you feel? Indiferent? Happy for him? Jelous? Would you rather not know?
Mind you, we are talking about a guy YOU left, you treated him badly, you cheated on him etc.
Would you have the same feelings had he been the one who left you and treated you badly?
This is rather an odd question but doesn't it tell us that the way we treat our former partner/spouse after it is over says something about the sort of people we are? When my ex-husband left me it was one of the most painful things I have ever endured. He left me for someone else, but also to change life and lifestyle. We have in the last year or so been able to begin treating one another civilly, and now realise we make better friends than spouses. My ex is being successful in the life chosen and I am pleased.
Quote by Guest
When you end a relationship with some guy, it affects you to know how life treats this guy in the future?
Imagine you left him, he was just an average joe, but after a few months/years you happen to come across him and you find the guy is a millionaire, succesful family man, after you left him his life went all the way up.
How would you feel? Indiferent? Happy for him? Jelous? Would you rather not know?
Mind you, we are talking about a guy YOU left, you treated him badly, you cheated on him etc.
Would you have the same feelings had he been the one who left you and treated you badly?
This is rather an odd question but doesn't it tell us that the way we treat our former partner/spouse after it is over says something about the sort of people we are? When my ex-husband left me it was one of the most painful things I have ever endured. He left me for someone else, but also to change life and lifestyle. We have in the last year or so been able to begin treating one another civilly, and now realise we make better friends than spouses. My ex is being successful in the life chosen and I am pleased.
Quote by Guest
When you end a relationship with some guy, it affects you to know how life treats this guy in the future?
Imagine you left him, he was just an average joe, but after a few months/years you happen to come across him and you find the guy is a millionaire, succesful family man, after you left him his life went all the way up.
How would you feel? Indiferent? Happy for him? Jelous? Would you rather not know?
Mind you, we are talking about a guy YOU left, you treated him badly, you cheated on him etc.
Would you have the same feelings had he been the one who left you and treated you badly?
This is rather an odd question but doesn't it tell us that the way we treat our former partner/spouse after it is over says something about the sort of people we are? When my ex-husband left me it was one of the most painful things I have ever endured. He left me for someone else, but also to change life and lifestyle. We have in the last year or so been able to begin treating one another civilly, and now realise we make better friends than spouses. My ex is being successful in the life chosen and I am pleased.