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How do I got about experimenting with other women.
Wild at Heart
Um... I've only experimented with women and there is one universal norm... I don't care if its lesbian sex or not. Women aren't like men. You have to listen, be attractive, make them feel comfortable, make them feel beautiful, make them feel safe... MOST of them anyway, the good ones. But yeah, you have to do ALL of that shit. It can be a bitch...
I am sexually experience and I can tell about a man in a flash. Especially if he is still breathing.
But I am still uncertain with a woman. Some obviously are ready and willing for an expermentation with another woman and some would be so discussed that they would never speak to you again.
Today a relationship between woman is not as unacceptable as it once was. Nevertheless don't rush things, make her comfortable and let her know you find her beautiful and attractive, but don't force the issue faster than she is ready to move along. If you are friends tell that from time to time you are attracted to another girl as well as you are to men. If that is the case.
You maybe pleasantly surprised where the slow and easy will take you
But I am still uncertain with a woman. Some obviously are ready and willing for an expermentation with another woman and some would be so discussed that they would never speak to you again.
Today a relationship between woman is not as unacceptable as it once was. Nevertheless don't rush things, make her comfortable and let her know you find her beautiful and attractive, but don't force the issue faster than she is ready to move along. If you are friends tell that from time to time you are attracted to another girl as well as you are to men. If that is the case.
You maybe pleasantly surprised where the slow and easy will take you
Active Ink Slinger
If the woman you are intereted in trying it with is already a friend, feel her out. Bring up women being with women, like that it seems to be more accepted in today's society, how several hollywood celebs have said they are Bi (Lindsay Lohan, Megan Fox, etc) or something like that to get an idea of her thoughts on the subject. Just as part of normal chatting, not coming on the her. Maybe you can use Lindsay's recent Playboy pics as a start of the talk, you say something like can you believe she did that or something, then ask her if she would ever do something like that, you get the idea. Make sure you are being general in your talk and not like you are trying to seduce her or anything. If she seems that she is OK with it, then maybe bring up how you find some women attractive and get her reaction to that. Continue to take the conversation a little deeper depending on her reactions. Now this may take several talks or maybe she opens up to you very fast. Or maybe she is repulsed by the whole idea of two women together and then you will have focus your attempts elsewhere.
You will be surprised how many women are like you and are at least curious about being with another woman. You should be able to find a willing partner pretty easily. Pay attention to how women look at you, are they checking you out? Especially when you are dressed kind of sexy. Over time you will be able to distinguish between a woman just checking you out as us women always seem to do and checking you out because she is attracted to you. Or you could always check out a lesbian bar if there any near where you live.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!!
You will be surprised how many women are like you and are at least curious about being with another woman. You should be able to find a willing partner pretty easily. Pay attention to how women look at you, are they checking you out? Especially when you are dressed kind of sexy. Over time you will be able to distinguish between a woman just checking you out as us women always seem to do and checking you out because she is attracted to you. Or you could always check out a lesbian bar if there any near where you live.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!!
Well depends on your age I guess a bit. If you don't have a man around the house then if you're friends invite her over for a sleep over and be playful. Have fun, get a little drunk, maybe watch a movie that has some girl/girl action in it, but isn't porn....like Wild Things or something like that. Probe and see if she's receptive and see if she'll play act the scene with you. Say it like a joke so she can back out if she wants. See if you can play a game that is a bit sexy, tickle her, have fun......we girls like fun. Lots of times you need to get them a bit drunk the first time.....so many girls are in denial...the "not me" syndrome.....but once you get them going...WOW! I've only seduced three girls so far and it took quite a while each time because they were so reluctant, but in the end it's worth it. For me my first time was when I was younger and an older girl seduced me when I was drunk and I just really liked it and let her do it a few more times, but each time I pretended to be drunk so I had an "excuse" in case other girls found out.
I’ve never set out to seduce another women, I’ve only ever been seduced which is incredibly erotic when another girl comes on to you. As for advice, god knows, get a few glasses of wine or champagne in side her, talk about sex and find out what she finds intriguing when looking at other women. Don’t wait for her to come on to you, just go for it and if she rejects you blame it on the drink.
Lots of girls will give in to you if your advances are confident and dominating.
Lots of girls will give in to you if your advances are confident and dominating.
Active Ink Slinger
Just bring it up. I did at a sleepover years ago. We were talking about sex and I was getting horny and started playing with myself down their. I didn't really know what to do and I was wearing a very short night gown one of the girls noticed my hand down their and asked how to make herself orgasm. I said I didn't know and another of her friends said she would show us. She brought us bought to orgasm and it advanced from their. In college I just walk around naked and girls come on to me.