Seeking help for a new story. I don't want to push the limits too far, but if you're willing to share...how far does your "forced" fantasy go? Thanks!
That only seems to happen in my dreams/nightmares, and it isn't pleasant. I never have those fantasies awake. Ask Hannah! She's the Princess of Reluctance around here.
i don't have a forced fantasy. lived through the real thing more than once. def not a turn on. i'm with Beth.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
The cops know our safe word.
"Reluctance" is not the same as "taken" or "forced". I don't have fantasies revolving around any of those three words. Nightmares? Yes. Fantasies? No.
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My fantasies don't turn that way either.
Sir, there is so much assault on women in our society right now, it even pains me to see the question posted. Your timing right now is very bad.
Dance, after reading through hundreds of posts in these forums I saw many women that commented on that being a "fantasy" and that's why I asked. They gave good advice and I greatly appreciated it. Again, I asked to make sure I didn't go some weird abusive direction with it.
If my question caused you pain, then please stay away from most women's romance novels, they can be fairly rough there ripping open bodices and such. Don't even dare to watch a soap opera, it might leave you all messed up.
But thanks for assuming so much about me.
Thanks for the comment, Sprite. I've got what I needed for my story. This thread can be deleted. I hate it when things get all foofoo
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I agree. Reluctance is not the same as forced. When I lost my anal virginity, my lover knew that I was afraid and apprehensive. He also knew that I wanted it and just needed to get over my fears, nervousness and inhibitions. It happened at just the right time. Wasn't , but was definitely taken. If that makes sense. Bottom line is that I don't regret it and wouldn't change a thing if I had a choice.