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I think you should ask your wife how she feels about it. Honestly, you cannot help who you are sexually attracted to but you can control whether or not you act on that attraction. If your wife is pretty adventurous sexually she might be open to including your fantacies during sex. If you do decide to act on your attraction you better make sure the pay off is going to be worth the consequences of getting caught. That's my two cents.
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I think you should ask your wife how she feels about it. Honestly, you cannot help who you are sexually attracted to but you can control whether or not you act on that attraction. If your wife is pretty adventurous sexually she might be open to including your fantacies during sex. If you do decide to act on your attraction you better make sure the pay off is going to be worth the consequences of getting caught. That's my two cents.
I agree with SmartPanties (nice av!) (PoizenIvy) ... very well stated.
well, your wife is very conservative as you have stated .... but you know that your sister-in-law and your mom-in-law are not.
and you know that thought is gonna plague you .... until you do something ....
You'll be thinking of ... why not ? Just a little taste ....
if you really love your wife, if you are really IN LOVE with your wife, you may want to convince yourself any talk/thought of sex regarding your sister-in-law and mother-in-law are OFF limits. Otherwise, how can a sexually conservative spouse say to you, "ah, hun, it's ok to taste my sister/mother" ... can't see that happening ... but who knows??
Let us know how it works out!
and you know that thought is gonna plague you .... until you do something ....
You'll be thinking of ... why not ? Just a little taste ....
if you really love your wife, if you are really IN LOVE with your wife, you may want to convince yourself any talk/thought of sex regarding your sister-in-law and mother-in-law are OFF limits. Otherwise, how can a sexually conservative spouse say to you, "ah, hun, it's ok to taste my sister/mother" ... can't see that happening ... but who knows??
Let us know how it works out!
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Well you cant control who you are attracted too. But you are playing with fire. You say your wife is prudish, but you have nude pics of her posted on Flickr. Does she know about them? If she does she cant be that prudish. And if she doesnt know, well what does that say about you? And the pics of your in-laws, do they know you have posted them? Did they pose for you or did you aquire them in another way?
I am really not sure what you are expecting to hear from us. If you love your wife and she would be upset if you pursued your in-laws, then drop it. If you dont love your wife or if your wife wouldnt mind, then go for it. You need to decide what it is you really want, but be prepared to deal with the consequences.
I am really not sure what you are expecting to hear from us. If you love your wife and she would be upset if you pursued your in-laws, then drop it. If you dont love your wife or if your wife wouldnt mind, then go for it. You need to decide what it is you really want, but be prepared to deal with the consequences.
Wise Ass
Quote by averageguy
I fantasize about them and flirt with them all the time. Their pictures are on my profile.
Their pictures are on your profile eh? Hmmm methinks I smell a fibber....Why in the hell would they give you nude / semi-nude pics of themselves?
If they indeed shared them with you, I think it is a little bit of a green light. Just be forewarned you are going to create one hell of a mess! Alimony is very costly be prepared to lose half (or more) of everything you have earned. PLUS here's the bonus!! You may have to give her a monthly cheque to help support her....seeing as you "fucked" with her mom and sis.
Good luck buddy!
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The picture of my wife is from before we were married. She wasn't nearly as prudish before we were married. My attraction as grown for my in laws over time. Yes they do know I have the pictures of them and that I post them. My wife doesn't talk to me or do anything exciting with me. But I talk about many things with my mil and Sil.
Wise Ass
Quote by averageguy
The picture of my wife is from before we were married. She wasn't nearly as prudish before we were married. My attraction as grown for my in laws over time. Yes they do know I have the pictures of them and that I post them. My wife doesn't talk to me or do anything exciting with me. But I talk about many things with my mil and Sil.
So they just sent you semi-nude pics one day? I guess one could consider that as a sign. Effed up, but a sign.
As for you wife not talking to you or doing anything sexy, I would suggest you take a look in the mirror on this one. Maybe you don't excite her enough to want to engage in sexual activity? Maybe she needs more from you, why not take a look at some sites that help make you a better lover?
Or perhaps it's a hormonal imbalance, or medical condition (depression) and she should see a doctor.
All in all, it seems like the Mother-in-law and Sister-in-law want to persue something with you if they are sending you seductive pictures. Just sayin'
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So it doesnt bother your Sil and Mil that they gave nude and semi nude photos of themselves to you behind your wife's, their sister and daughter, back? Well it sounds like they really do not care if your wife is happy or not, then again it seems like you dont either. If you really rather be with your in laws, fine. But you should either get divorced or at the least talk to your wife and try to get an understanding of why she doesnt want sex anymore. I am assuming she did at one time.
The big question here is do you love your wife? If you do, then I think you should know what you have to do.
I am a firm believer that anything between consenting adults is OK, whether I agree with it or not. But as much as I love sex, the happiness and respect of my family always comes first. I would never hurt or betray a family member for any reason!!
The big question here is do you love your wife? If you do, then I think you should know what you have to do.
I am a firm believer that anything between consenting adults is OK, whether I agree with it or not. But as much as I love sex, the happiness and respect of my family always comes first. I would never hurt or betray a family member for any reason!!
Her Royal Spriteness
ok, here we go. i'm married (not legally as some of you know - grumbles about the unfairness of it all) and i have had sex out side of the relationship. we have an open relationship to a degree. here's the thing. my wife is aware of it. i am aware of when she sleeps with someone else. we talk about it. it's one thing if it's sanctioned, but if you're going behind someone's back, then it's called cheating. i think, as Nikki said, the pertinent question is: do you love your wife? if the answer it yes, don't do it - this will hurt her. if the answer is no, then break up with her. then, if you want to, you can sleep with whoever you want - that said, if it's with her mom and sister, it's still going to hurt her.
oh, and if they are sending you naked pictures and suggesting you sleep with them, they're just as much to blame as you - doesn't seem like an act of a caring family. also, something to think about - ever ponder if your wife knows, if it's all a conspiracy to catch you with your pants down and divorce your ass and walk away with a smile, all three of them laughing at you as they spend 50% of your income? *evil grin*
oh, and if they are sending you naked pictures and suggesting you sleep with them, they're just as much to blame as you - doesn't seem like an act of a caring family. also, something to think about - ever ponder if your wife knows, if it's all a conspiracy to catch you with your pants down and divorce your ass and walk away with a smile, all three of them laughing at you as they spend 50% of your income? *evil grin*
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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oh, and if they are sending you naked pictures and suggesting you sleep with them, they're just as much to blame as you - doesn't seem like an act of a caring family. also, something to think about - ever ponder if your wife knows, if it's all a conspiracy to catch you with your pants down and divorce your ass and walk away with a smile, all three of them laughing at you as they spend 50% of your income? *evil grin*
Are you suggesting he buy a strap on as well...seeing as he is going to get fucked on this one?
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Her Royal Spriteness
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Are you suggesting he buy a strap on as well...seeing as he is going to get fucked on this one?
he can borrow mine, soon as you clean it off from your daily session. now bend over, Dude, i'm feeling kind of randy this morning *giggles*
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by averageguy
I do love my wife. I have tried to talk with her but she refuses to change. We have sex occasionally. Basic sex no excitement. My in laws excite me. Make life exciting. If I leave my wife I lose everything.
marriage counselling. seriously. no brainer. somethings gone wrong here.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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why refrain. say whats on your mind
What the hell is wrong with you people?
That is what's on my mind. You have erotic pictures of your SIL and MIL on Lush? WTF!!! Seriously, who the hell betrays their own daughter like that? Their sister? Their wife?
I understand we can't predict who we are attracted to, but you can keep yourself out of that situation. A few less intimate conversations with them might be in order. Sorry your sex life is crap, but if you honestly feel the need/desire to cheat I wouldn't suggest messing with these two.
Good luck with whatever.
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I do love my wife. I have tried to talk with her but she refuses to change. We have sex occasionally. Basic sex no excitement. My in laws excite me. Make life exciting. If I leave my wife I lose everything.
If you love your wife, then stopping having intimate conversations with with your in-laws. You say if you divorce your wife, you lose everything. Well what do you think will happen if you have sex with your in-laws and your wife finds out?
This whole situation is a little unbelievable and starting to get boring!! Assuming it is all real, Good Luck with it!
Dear Averageguy,
I see you are not listening to the suggestions and opinions of the Lushies you have seeked assistance from. I suggest, because you are of the opinion it's all ok, to go for it and see where the cum stains land.
If you lose everything, it's your fault. If you wife is accepting, you are fortunate.
*shaking my head* ... why ask for the opinion of others when you already have your "it's ok" formed.
Sincerely,
One of the Lush Crew
I see you are not listening to the suggestions and opinions of the Lushies you have seeked assistance from. I suggest, because you are of the opinion it's all ok, to go for it and see where the cum stains land.
If you lose everything, it's your fault. If you wife is accepting, you are fortunate.
*shaking my head* ... why ask for the opinion of others when you already have your "it's ok" formed.
Sincerely,
One of the Lush Crew
Cocolicious
Where do you live? Because I know several good divorce attorneys and you averageguy are definitely headed in that direction.
Good luck
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I am not so sure this question is on the up and up. Call it a bad vibe or just sounds suspicious and gets more suspicious as it grows.
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So they just sent you semi-nude pics one day? I guess one could consider that as a sign. Effed up, but a sign.
I don't think I've ever heard of a mother, or sister, in law sending seductive photos to the daughter's/sister's other half. I'm also confused as to whether it's the my-space-phone-taken-shots or whether it's the apparently professionally taken shots?
So full of confuseds.
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This whole thing just makes my stomach turns.8eCYkFQfEjEbdCsK
yes everyone can do whatever the hell they want with their lifes, BUT even if you are in an open relationship (wich you are not), and even if your wife is the most open minded person in the world (and for the things you said, im thinking she is not) didnt we just last month find out that we are 7 BILLION people in the world right now!! dont you think that out of this 7 BILLION people you can find 2 other girls that are NOT related to your wife to do whatever the hell you want!!!
Im not married but my sister is and though i love my brother in law, i love him like a brother thats it!! it would never cross my mind to send him any kind of provocative pictures to him, or talk to him in any provocative way, he is just my big bro, my sister´s husband and the father of my nephew, thats it!!
yes everyone can do whatever the hell they want with their lifes, BUT even if you are in an open relationship (wich you are not), and even if your wife is the most open minded person in the world (and for the things you said, im thinking she is not) didnt we just last month find out that we are 7 BILLION people in the world right now!! dont you think that out of this 7 BILLION people you can find 2 other girls that are NOT related to your wife to do whatever the hell you want!!!
Im not married but my sister is and though i love my brother in law, i love him like a brother thats it!! it would never cross my mind to send him any kind of provocative pictures to him, or talk to him in any provocative way, he is just my big bro, my sister´s husband and the father of my nephew, thats it!!