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i am 61 yrs old and cannot get an erection that's usable anymore.
what i'm wondering is why it's so hard to find a woman that just wants
to receive oral pleasure?
I can't speak for 61 year old women. Is that who you're approaching? ...or women my age? Might have something to do with your problem.
In my experience, girls kiss kitty way better than guys.
Don't tell anyone I snuck in to put in my .

First off, even though you can't get fully erect, it doesn't mean you are limited to kissing kitty. Don't take that wrong, it is a LOVELY way to spend a afternoon and but there are toys, your fingers, food, vacuum cleaner attachments, well, you get the idea and it is only limited by your imagination ( and how well you can clean them). Not knowing the reason for your issues, so many of them can be corrected. If all else fails they can put in a penile pump to manually get you hard. But loss of an erection doesn't mean a loss of intimacy, you only need to get a little creative. Using toys (and other things) can also be much more intimate. You are right there watching the action as well. Learn what really turns women on with your fingers, tongue and toys. I suggest talking to some of the lovely lesbians of Lush and just ask? In my experience they enjoy helping someone that wants to learn.

ALSO, talk about it, tell her the issues you have and you might find that most are very willing to work around those issues, especially if there is a connection and not just to fuck. I wish you the best of luck.

Lori ...... I would in principle have to agree and bow to a Master but some of us 'penis packers' have taken the time to learn and understand. Also, we do not have a practice pussy like you ladies do to at least play with. LoL I suggest you find a few NEW male friends..... send me a message, let's talk ....


Ciao
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i am 61 yrs old and cannot get an erection that's usable anymore.
what i'm wondering is why it's so hard to find a woman that just wants
to receive oral pleasure?


My husband and I have gone through random times where he can't get hard or achieve an orgasm . . . and in these times, for whatever reason, he feels that 'giving' to me is his 'duty' and wants to do it even if he can't enjoy it fully.

And it's only made me feel like a horrid person when I found out that this was the case sometimes. If I realize it's not going happen for him during sex, sex suddenly becomes a major turn-off. Quick, like flipping a light switch.

I don't want sexual relations of any type if it's guaranteed to be one-sided. That's a trashy, selfish thing to do. If i ever feel like my libido is a 'task' to be taken care of I can handle it on my own without the complication of someone else getting involved.