Ladies, I saw an article today on the "7 biggest lies wives tell their husbands" (link below).
Lie 2 is "You have the biggest penis I've ever seen"... I am curious if this is a lie you've told?
Also - I'm curious if you've ever been honest on this subject lol... "No honey, I've had much, much bigger but yours is just fine" lol...
https://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/7-lies-wives-tell-husbands-140900180.html
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Ladies, have you ever told this lie?
I am honest, without being hurtful. No one is perfect, myself included, and I would not say such things unless perhaps my arm was twisted and he REALLY REALLY wanted to know something. Not too many people "like" to feel like they are being compared, or it is a sensitive subject in past cavorts and relationships.
I try to be complimentary and not negative, but I do not dole out flattery loosely or like to stroke egos for no reason, so if I say something it is because I mean it, and if I do something - it is because I want to.
I read the article.... That is not at all the way I have ever been. My long-term bf on here could vouch for that. The way the article speaks is as if an absolute and a single 'type' that placates or is fake. That is my opinion. I would not be dishonest about those things like the article because I say what I feel and fo not have to be rude or fake.
I try to be complimentary and not negative, but I do not dole out flattery loosely or like to stroke egos for no reason, so if I say something it is because I mean it, and if I do something - it is because I want to.
I read the article.... That is not at all the way I have ever been. My long-term bf on here could vouch for that. The way the article speaks is as if an absolute and a single 'type' that placates or is fake. That is my opinion. I would not be dishonest about those things like the article because I say what I feel and fo not have to be rude or fake.
Brown Sugar
Concerning this lie, "You have the biggest penis I've ever seen!"
I am happily divorced. But no, that's not something I would express to any man. It's an unnecessary lie.
Concerning this lie, "No honey, I've had much, much bigger but yours is just fine" And this lie...this is just hurtful and wrong. No, I wouldn't say that either. That's not encouraging at all. I wonder kind of performance a woman thinks she will get with that lie.
As long as the man is working what he's got, I'm good. Now, I do qualify that size before the actual act. There is a certain length that's necessary for me, and what I won't do is lie to myself.
To thine own self be true...and then one won't have to lie to the man.
I am happily divorced. But no, that's not something I would express to any man. It's an unnecessary lie.
Concerning this lie, "No honey, I've had much, much bigger but yours is just fine" And this lie...this is just hurtful and wrong. No, I wouldn't say that either. That's not encouraging at all. I wonder kind of performance a woman thinks she will get with that lie.
As long as the man is working what he's got, I'm good. Now, I do qualify that size before the actual act. There is a certain length that's necessary for me, and what I won't do is lie to myself.
To thine own self be true...and then one won't have to lie to the man.
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I am honest, without being hurtful. No one is perfect, myself included, and I would not say such things unless perhaps my arm was twisted and he REALLY REALLY wanted to know something. Not too many people "like" to feel like they are being compared, or it is a sensitive subject in past cavorts and relationships.
I try to be complimentary and not negative, but I do not dole out flattery loosely or like to stroke egos for no reason, so if I say something it is because I mean it, and if I do something - it is because I want to.
I read the article.... That is not at all the way I have ever been. My long-term bf on here could vouch for that. The way the article speaks is as if an absolute and a single 'type' that placates or is fake. That is my opinion. I would not be dishonest about those things like the article because I say what I feel and fo not have to be rude or fake.
Thanks for sharing - and it's funny, I just don't see it actually be said much - was surprised it was on the list.
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Concerning this lie, "You have the biggest penis I've ever seen!"
I am happily divorced. But no, that's not something I would express to any man. It's an unnecessary lie.
Concerning this lie, "No honey, I've had much, much bigger but yours is just fine" And this lie...this is just hurtful and wrong. No, I wouldn't say that either. That's not encouraging at all. I wonder kind of performance a woman thinks she will get with that lie.
As long as the man is working what he's got, I'm good. Now, I do qualify that size before the actual act. There is a certain length that's necessary for me, and what I won't do is lie to myself.
To thine own self be true...and then one won't have to lie to the man.
Thanks for sharing. My "no honey" one was a poor attempt at being funny. I am curious, what is your necessary length? And when you qualify and find out it's not for you, do you tell him or just don't let it proceed?
Brown Sugar
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Thanks for sharing. My "no honey" one was a poor attempt at being funny. I am curious, what is your necessary length? And when you qualify and find out it's not for you, do you tell him or just don't let it proceed?
Now chatnstroke...Cute question, but I can't tell you my necessary length. Why not? Lol...because it's mine. Ha!
And no, I do not tell them. I just gracefully bow out of the situation. I might say something like, "Listen, I think you're a wonderful person, and I think you're a great friend. I really don't want to take this relationship any further."
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Now chatnstroke...Cute question, but I can't tell you my necessary length. Why not? Lol...because it's mine. Ha!
And no, I do not tell them. I just gracefully bow out of the situation. I might say something like, "Listen, I think you're a wonderful person, and I think you're a great friend. I really don't want to take this relationship any further."
Ahhh... fair enough lol - I did not mean to pry - and it is good to keep some things to yourself
Thanks for the insight on how you bow out - but I am curious - does he get a handjob or BJ as a parting gift? Or do you bow out as soon as you see him nude? Or... do you have ways to find out before that moment happens?
Brown Sugar
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Ahhh... fair enough lol - I did not mean to pry - and it is good to keep some things to yourself
Thanks for the insight on how you bow out - but I am curious - does he get a handjob or BJ as a parting gift? Or do you bow out as soon as you see him nude? Or... do you have ways to find out before that moment happens?
Oh, you're funny today. See, a real lady does her homework way before nudity...Don't ask. I'll break the "code" if I tell you. So, that you'll have to figure out on your own.
Cocolicious
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See, a real lady does her homework way before nudity...
True, so very true.
Active Ink Slinger
Honestly, the only guy who has ever asked me if I have ever been with a guy with a bigger cock was the guy with biggest I was ever with. And I would have loved to have said NO, he was so arrogant and an awful lover.
But I would never say a guy was the biggest if it wasn't true, I wouldn't say anything about his size because it really isn't that important to me. But if he asked I would just say something like his was perfect as it is.
But I would never say a guy was the biggest if it wasn't true, I wouldn't say anything about his size because it really isn't that important to me. But if he asked I would just say something like his was perfect as it is.
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Oh, you're funny today. See, a real lady does her homework way before nudity...Don't ask. I'll break the "code" if I tell you. So, that you'll have to figure out on your own.
lol... fair enough then... thanks for the playful reply... i know i wouldn't pass your standard (but no worries lol) so i made doing homework easy with a profile pic lol... i am secretly bi so i get previews at local gym showers and changing area... guess that could be a source of homework but i'll leave it to my imagination lol... have fun
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Nope. It's not really necessary to tell a guy his penis is the biggest I've ever had...and if it is, that's kinda sad.
Although I will tell him how big or thick it is sans the comparison as well as how good it feels and tastes.
Although I will tell him how big or thick it is sans the comparison as well as how good it feels and tastes.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
Active Ink Slinger
No have never done nor ever will do! Anyway it is not how big it is it is how they use it and I will always praise if they use it well 
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Nope. It's not really necessary to tell a guy his penis is the biggest I've ever had...and if it is, that's kinda sad.
Although I will tell him how big or thick it is sans the comparison as well as how good it feels and tastes.
Yes I agree about the "kinda sad" part. When I saw the article I didn't believe it was something that is actually said often - and surprised me it was stated as a popular lie.
I think the replies to this posting have proven my suspicion - and I certainly view the views of the fine ladies of Lush (such as yourself) at a much higher level than a survey mentioned in an article
Advanced Wordsmith
no, i wouldnt comment on their size in comparison to others
i wouldnt like them comparing my boobs/legs /bum etc to someone else/ If im in a relationship with them then its because i like them. thats all that matters as far as Im concerned
i wouldnt like them comparing my boobs/legs /bum etc to someone else/ If im in a relationship with them then its because i like them. thats all that matters as far as Im concerned
Active Ink Slinger
Well no I don't think it's good to lie. Plus in my experience a guy with a six-inch cock has never asked me if he's "my biggest ever" haha. He already knows he isn't, right? I mean that would be lame if guys were like that. Look guys should focus on giving us MANY huge orgasms and making us feel amazing and special. Make your GF feel beautiful and special. If the guy does that then his cock will be just fine. In fact we'll lie to our GF's and give him the benefit of an inch or two in our stories about how amazing he is in bed haha. Just saying?
Active Ink Slinger
First, it's a bad ideal to lie to your partner. Second, my bf would never ask me because he's average size. He knows full well I've been with others who have had larger cocks. Too many guys have it in their head that women rate them based on cock size when in fact the largest sex organ is the brain. If you love your partner and he's a good lover, then that's all that matters.
Love Bug
I consider myself a very honest lover. I am not going to falsely tell someone that they are the largest when that is so unimportant. It is the lover that matters. I have really owned my sexual being lately and have learned so much. With honesty and loss of our fears, sex can be mind blowing. With honest feedback the sex should be better each time you have it.