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If a boyfriend propose just a oral sex relationship do you accept?
Why?

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Honestly, that would be very hard for me, though I hate to admit it. I am sure I would enjoy and I would seek to give enjoyment in many ways. If I really loved him, I would love whatever affection and love he was able to give, no matter what that was. There are many ways to show love or to work with things. I would have to learn to be more flexible since I do not insert toys and anything except my bf and PENETRATIVE sex is my favourite. There is something about that~ and so if I was faced with that choice it would solely depend on the person. If it was my bf that I am with, hornyokami who is on Lush - I could probably be happy and do anything. If you asked me before I met him this question, in all honesty I would have to sadly say probably would not be for me.

If the person was in a wheelchair and could not do penetrative sex or something for that reason- I think that is different, but I have never dated anyone in a chair and I have never dated anyone with any real issue or problem in that aspect.

I had a friend who said he was 10 inches and thought that was normal. Here he was getting older and had a medical scare, and had an operation of some kind that left him in therapy and unable to perform like he once could with some sort of erectile problem. He asked me this question from a female's perspective. I told him that there is a lot more to offer and some women want cuddling and a companion and other things are just fine (like oral)... and all the while I encouraged him I felt like that would not be for me. I felt guilty, but I cannot help it. I would not be so keen. I like it and it is up there but I really love my penetrative sex. If I really love, then I suppose it would be different.
bf no, but there have been some guys that i will blow sometimes, but if your my bf then we will do everything, i couldn't survive on only oral lol
Giving a blow job or being made to as a one off sex act yes.

An only oral sex longer term relationship no. Unless there were physical restrictions making this the only or best way of pleasuring or being pleasured by someone then I'm sure it could work.
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If a boyfriend propose just a oral sex relationship do you accept?
Why?

Thank you in advance smile


No.
I need sex.

It just wouldn't work. I'd probably be willing to have a very close friendship that might blur the line between 'we're just friends' and 'partners' if he couldn't have sex for health reasons - but I couldn't commit myself to such a state. If it was religious I wouldn't even be involved with him to begin with.

The idea wouldn't bother me all the time, of course. I might even try it for a while. Sometimes it wouldn't phase me - but I'm certain other times it would feel like a prison. I'd question 'why' quite often and depending on how I felt about it and what I needed, I might not accept the answer to be a truth.

An ex boyfriend of mine was very sexually reserved - no touching, kissing, or even holding hands when in public. At first I didn't even notice his aversion to public contact, but after a while I began to take note of it - and after asking him about it and having received an answer of 'I just don't like PDA' I started to take it personally. What was wrong with me? Was I not pretty enough? Was he ashamed of me? Was I gross and actually a turn off?

And that wasn't even a sex-free relationship, just a public-contact free relationship. I hated it. When I pressed him about it again he insisted "It's not you - it's me" and I just said "Well I can't stop feeling that it's me." . . .and that was pretty much it.
ahhh I know I'm going to sound like a selfish biatch but not...no no no. I need the meat elsewhere after it's been in my mouth and made me desperately horny for more.
It has to be in me................so no. Not an oral-only.
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No. I would get bored. Fast.


Same tbh. Orals fun but I love sex, if I loved him I would possibly try if as stated there were special circumstances but I honestly couldn't see it lasting for any length of time. I personally find cumming on a cock to be a far more intense orgasm then an orally received one, I would be unsatisfied and that imo would make us both miserable.
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A boyfriend, no? He better have sex with me. But if it was only a friend, I'd start sucking immediately. Love giving oral
no. if a girl did however, yes.
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
My college roomie female too and I used to eat eachother before we got up for class. Both had high sex drive. We were straight. I just loved to suck on her hard clit until I had her crawling backwards moaning long n hard. I got turned on by that to the point she could eat my wet pussy and I'd cum for 10 minutes solid. Fun times
It would be alright for the first couple of days but then I can imagine it would get pretty boring...
I'm a very oral person. I love everything there is to oral. Biting, sucking, licking, teeth, tongue, lips, the whole nine yards. That is both giving and receiving, but no, I don't think I could ONLY have an oral relationship. Even if we were to use toys while having all this oral sex. You can't beat an actual cock, that is actually fucking you.
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I've never been a "fan" of receiving oral, sooo it would be other foreplay for me, and him receiving. I think I could handle it for a while, but not long term. I can respect that someone may want to "wait" or other reasons to not have intercourse. Eventually he would have to give it up...