Now maybe this is the wrong place to post this bit I figured I might as well go to the cause of it. I'm terribly shy when it comes to approaching women that I'm attracted to. I'm not entirely sure why because around people I'm acquainted with I'm very confident. I've even been called cocky. But when it comes to approaching a stranger I'm terrified. Any helpful suggestions?
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Wild at Heart
I know you're asking the gals but they don't know shit about guys shyness. But seriously dude, imagine a pretty girl walks into the room and you're attracted to her. You want her to say something to you and notice you right? So like when she does there isn't much she could say that will make you find her less attractive or like make you turn the other way and ignore her right? You have mostly already made up your mind before she opens her mouth wether you're gonna give her the time of day or not. So if you don't like her and she says hi and you just say hi back and that's that then she gets it that you weren't digging her. You don't sit there thinking "oh what a dumb bitch, she can't get this." You just forget about it in 2 seconds and move on. Women, for the most part, are similar too. You have nothing to fear. So some chicks will respond positively and some wont. No need to be scared. It's like saying "I dont like to cast my line in the water cause most time I won't catch a fish." Doesn't make much sense does it?
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I know you're asking the gals but they don't know shit about guys shyness. But seriously dude, imagine a pretty girl walks into the room and you're attracted to her. You want her to say something to you and notice you right? So like when she does there isn't much she could say that will make you find her less attractive or like make you turn the other way and ignore her right? You have mostly already made up your mind before she opens her mouth wether you're gonna give her the time of day or not. So if you don't like her and she says hi and you just say hi back and that's that then she gets it that you weren't digging her. You don't sit there thinking "oh what a dumb bitch, she can't get this." You just forget about it in 2 seconds and move on. Women, for the most part, are similar too. You have nothing to fear. So some chicks will respond positively and some wont. No need to be scared. It's like saying "I dont like to cast my line in the water cause most time I won't catch a fish." Doesn't make much sense does it?
Ok but in a real world what girl initiates conversation. That's my issue is that I can't bring myself to throw the first punch.
Wild at Heart
Quote by Langston7145Quote by Magical_felix
I know you're asking the gals but they don't know shit about guys shyness. But seriously dude, imagine a pretty girl walks into the room and you're attracted to her. You want her to say something to you and notice you right? So like when she does there isn't much she could say that will make you find her less attractive or like make you turn the other way and ignore her right? You have mostly already made up your mind before she opens her mouth wether you're gonna give her the time of day or not. So if you don't like her and she says hi and you just say hi back and that's that then she gets it that you weren't digging her. You don't sit there thinking "oh what a dumb bitch, she can't get this." You just forget about it in 2 seconds and move on. Women, for the most part, are similar too. You have nothing to fear. So some chicks will respond positively and some wont. No need to be scared. It's like saying "I dont like to cast my line in the water cause most time I won't catch a fish." Doesn't make much sense does it?
Ok but in a real world what girl initiates conversation. That's my issue is that I can't bring myself to throw the first punch.
Seriously? Women will spark up a conversation. You just have to look up and smile. But what I meant by my post was that think about when a woman talks to you. You probably aren't judging her on every little thing she says. What I was trying to illustrate is that there is no reason to be scared to talk to them. They mostly think like you do. Most of them want you to talk to them if they are just sitting there at the bar or a party or class etc. Just do it. Just do it like if you were fishing. You're not scared to throw your bait in the water are you? Same shit when talking to women. Worst case scenario is that she won't dig you. Who cares? So there's a moment of embarrassment or awkwardness. That will pass and on to the next. The more you do it the ballsier you will get and the better your game will be. Just go talk to those bitches!
Wild at Heart
Quote by LittleMissBitchQuote by Magical_felix
Seriously? Women will spark up a conversation. You just have to look up and smile
ding ding ding!! and so is the rest of the shit he said but his heads to big already to quote it all.... ;)
Damn girl, I told you how big Jack jr's head was in private! ;)
Quote by Magical_felixQuote by LittleMissBitchQuote by Magical_felix
Seriously? Women will spark up a conversation. You just have to look up and smile
ding ding ding!! and so is the rest of the shit he said but his heads to big already to quote it all.... ;)
Damn girl, I told you how big Jack jr's head was in private! ;)
not big enough for this Bitch
sorry! really sorry, couldnt help it!
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yep, go over, banter with her like mad and see what happens, if no sparks then move on buddy
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