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When you give a blow job, hetero or for a strap-on, while kneeling do you find it arousing, humiliating, degrading, demeaning, empowering, or anything else?
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I have given very many blow jobs but never to a strap on. I have felt all of the listed emotions depending on the scene. In the case of making love to Hubbie or Steven, (The only 2 men I make love to. The rest I fuck.) it is very arousing and empowering. In the case of BDSM where I'm usually being called a cock sucking slut or whore, white trash, bitch, sex slave, etc, etc, it is humiliating, degrading, and demeaning. Which is what it is supposed to be. Which for me is very arousing and empowering, and a big turn on. In either case I have very good to extremely good mind blowing orgasms when he cums in my mouth and I feel his cum hit the back of my throat. These orgasms are different than the ones I have when getting fucked in my cunt or ass. They occur even when there is not any further stimulation to any other part of my body.

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Haven't felt any of those specific things in particular. All sex is arousing to me, so I would say that kneeling isn't more or less arousing. Definitely never felt degraded or humiliated. Not really empowered either! I just love to have fun and everything works (for the most part) and I don't think I have felt more or less for any particular action. But, that's just me. I like it all!
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Can't say I have ever given it much thought.... I certainly wouldn't let a man humiliate, degrade or demean me ever again so I can rule those out 100%

Perhaps it is a little empowering for me because it's pleasuring him so much which arouses me in turn, but I don't have to be on my knees for that to happen there is more than one way/position to suck a cock.
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Can't say I have ever given it much thought.... I certainly wouldn't let a man humiliate, degrade or demean me ever again so I can rule those out 100%

Perhaps it is a little empowering for me because it's pleasuring him so much which arouses me in turn, but I don't have to be on my knees for that to happen there is more than one way/position to suck a cock.


Suggest this post from you marks the end to the whole lesbian thing, huh? lol... smile
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I had to give it up, none of the girls would even kiss me



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When you give a blow job, hetero or for a strap-on, while kneeling do you find it arousing, humiliating, degrading, demeaning, empowering, or anything else?


The feeling of serving a male bending on my knees in front of him....... its a mixed feeling of being under his control, degraded and humiliated to some extent....
Never the less...... all the mixed feelings act as catalyst to my state of arousal
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It's not demeaning to be on my knees, but I'd rather be on a comfy bed, giving a bj.
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love being on my knees and it would definitely be a strap on attached to my lover. Mhmm Arousing for sure. Kisses.
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If I really do like the guy very much, it feels like I'm a goddess giving him the best pleasure that I can give...as much as I can give...

But if not, being as my dominant side is much greater than submissive... I feel it's like a responsibility and I have to finish it asap. lol
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I love being on my knees, laying on my back with my head hanging off the bed, and on my stomach when giving a bj
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It feels humiliating for me when he pulls out of my mouth and slaps his hard cock against my cheeks.
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I feel very submissive and aroused when I'm on my knees, especially when he takes control
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I don't feel humiliated or submissive, either one! The position is just convenient. I love sucking cock, and it's either on my knees or hunched over him, or lying on my tummy with my neck stretched up. On my knees is the least uncomfortable.
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I don't feel humiliated or submissive, either one! The position is just convenient. I love sucking cock, and it's either on my knees or hunched over him, or lying on my tummy with my neck stretched up. On my knees is the least uncomfortable.




P.S. If you could please... stick to more of what you are describing here vs. going after hot Brit birds trying (awfully so...) to be a lesbian lol...

P.P.S. Hope you are great smile
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hmm, interesting topic .... I do admit that sucking cock and tasting / swallowing the CUM is the ultimate goal... strap on, nah ... real squirting flesh, YES... "find it arousing, humiliating, degrading, demeaning, empowering, or anything else?" Certainly arousing ... maybe humiliating and empowering ... but that is the objective!! Remember, good girls do not spit, either... lol
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I have given very many blow jobs but never to a strap on. I have felt all of the listed emotions depending on the scene. In the case of making love to Hubbie or Steven, (The only 2 men I make love to. The rest I fuck.) it is very arousing and empowering. In the case of BDSM where I'm usually being called a cock sucking slut or whore, white trash, bitch, sex slave, etc, etc, it is humiliating, degrading, and demeaning. Which is what it is supposed to be. Which for me is very arousing and empowering, and a big turn on. In either case I have very good to extremely good mind blowing orgasms when he cums in my mouth and I feel his cum hit the back of my throat. These orgasms are different than the ones I have when getting fucked in my cunt or ass. They occur even when there is not any further stimulation to any other part of my body.

Brandie


Just exactly what Brandie said.
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I don't mind giving it on my knees, but I do like to be in control while I'm doing it. I don't mind if the man puts his hands behind my head or even gently pulls me into deep throat. What I don't like is being forced in the, I don't know exactly what to call it, brutish sort of way, maybe? I know its a big thing in porn for a guy to mouth fuck a woman really forcefully, but in real life, I don't like it.
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Arousing and very empowering! Someone once told me that the 2 times that a man is most vulnerable during sex is when he is in your mouth and between your legs! First one with teeth. Second with strong thighs...
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Thank you all for sharing. It seems that the feelings really do run the gamut of all the emotions that I listed. Again, thank you for responding.
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Claw I think I have felt nearly each one of those emotions. Never in one action though. Just depends I guess.
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When you give a blow job, hetero or for a strap-on, while kneeling do you find it arousing, humiliating, degrading, demeaning, empowering, or anything else?


An empowering, hot, arousing event for me (even though I tend to feel submissive while doing it - it's a strange blend of the two) - on my knees lets me play with his balls a bit more and I can get both my hands involved. I also like looking up - either to see his chest or his eyes. And then the only thing he can touch is my head and grab my hair - which is a fun thrill. It's hard for him, though, to stand while I nearly get him off. Usually he needs a wall to lean against.

Clearly, I have no humiliation qualms with any of it.