Do you think there's a difference between "making love" and sex?
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Sex and Making Love
Is there a difference between making love and sex?
Lollipop Girl
I think there is a difference between making love or just having sex. Just having sex is just that...like your fulfilling a craving and that's it, but making love is with feelings involved and you become one with that person... I don't know how else to describe it...
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Alpha Blonde
Absolutely there is a difference...
I think a lot of people use the word "love" or making "love" or being "in love" too easily. I have friends that sprinkle the word liberally throughout every relationship they have.
In the end, being in love is truly a rare thing, and it does give a certain depth of feeling and emotion and vulnerability to the sexual experience. There is a much deeper connection to the person. It's much more intense than having sex.
Having sex, is just fulfilling a physical need... and occasionally a passing psychological desire to be physical with another person. Its fun, but different from making love. One is based in the physical realm of tangible pleasure and the other is based on the emotional/physical realm of experiencing pleasure with a specific person.
The only thing I would say is that 'making love' doesn't have to be about candles, and bubble-baths, and romantic sex. It can also be dirty, rough, kinky, or some kind of alternative sexual experience. The difference is there is a depth of feeling/desire for the person, rather than just for the act itself.
I think a lot of people use the word "love" or making "love" or being "in love" too easily. I have friends that sprinkle the word liberally throughout every relationship they have.
In the end, being in love is truly a rare thing, and it does give a certain depth of feeling and emotion and vulnerability to the sexual experience. There is a much deeper connection to the person. It's much more intense than having sex.
Having sex, is just fulfilling a physical need... and occasionally a passing psychological desire to be physical with another person. Its fun, but different from making love. One is based in the physical realm of tangible pleasure and the other is based on the emotional/physical realm of experiencing pleasure with a specific person.
The only thing I would say is that 'making love' doesn't have to be about candles, and bubble-baths, and romantic sex. It can also be dirty, rough, kinky, or some kind of alternative sexual experience. The difference is there is a depth of feeling/desire for the person, rather than just for the act itself.
Internet Philosopher
Having sex scratches a physical and emotional itch. It can be satisfying and make you feel closer to the one you are having it with, but in the end it's just an activity you shared with another.
Making love means so much more. The entire act becomes more deeply felt. How does one describe the differance? I don't know, but when I've been there, I don't have to wonder if it is love. I just know
Making love means so much more. The entire act becomes more deeply felt. How does one describe the differance? I don't know, but when I've been there, I don't have to wonder if it is love. I just know
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Having sex is mainly a physical relation with someone. Making love is about an emotional attachment that just having sex lacks. Making love is the sweetest joy. I have plenty of sex these days. But it's not like when we used to make love all those years ago. Being truly in love with your sex partner is so much more fulfilling. I'd trade the sex I currently have for love making any day. Nothing compares.
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Having sex is mainly a physical relation with someone. Making love is about an emotional attachment that just having sex lacks. Making love is the sweetest joy. I have plenty of sex these days. But it's not like when we used to make love all those years ago. Being truly in love with your sex partner is so much more fulfilling. I'd trade the sex I currently have for love making any day. Nothing compares.
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I think there's a big difference between making love and having sex. To me, making love means allowing yourself to be vulnerable, letting another person in both physically and emotionally. There's a connection between the two of you that goes beyond the physical.
Having sex is being able to detatch yourself from the moment emotionally and just focus on satisfying a craving.
Having sex is being able to detatch yourself from the moment emotionally and just focus on satisfying a craving.
I agree with DD and Sassy: there is a huge difference. Sex is sex - it's physical and primal. I have had lots of it - some good and some bad - but it's something you can do with along time love or a stranger. Sometimes I will wake up on a Sunday morning and just want to fuck my hubby - period. But then there is making love, which is as emotional and spiritual as it is physical, when two souls come together in love. There are times I have cried when making love with hubby. It's very different.
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Dammit Rocco, you beat me to it. I was just about to post this same topic.
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On topic, I agree with most who've already posted. I find it hard to explain what love or being in love truly entails but it's a feeling that just elevates the entire thing called sex. When you meet someone and it just clicks and you can have a relationship where things just feel so natural and go so smoothly it's like a heavenly experience.
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Artistic Tart
I've never made love- but I have to say some of the things you girls and guys have to say make me realize that something more does exist. Like Damon, I enjoy having my pleasure buttons pushed, and I have loved one person. I don't know that the two came together for sex, but I guess you can say I'm open to whatever.
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I've never made love-
Then, count this as one of the many things left, which you have...to look forward to!
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Absolutely there is a difference...
I think a lot of people use the word "love" or making "love" or being "in love" too easily. I have friends that sprinkle the word liberally throughout every relationship they have.
In the end, being in love is truly a rare thing, and it does give a certain depth of feeling and emotion and vulnerability to the sexual experience. There is a much deeper connection to the person. It's much more intense than having sex.
Having sex, is just fulfilling a physical need... and occasionally a passing psychological desire to be physical with another person. Its fun, but different from making love. One is based in the physical realm of tangible pleasure and the other is based on the emotional/physical realm of experiencing pleasure with a specific person.
The only thing I would say is that 'making love' doesn't have to be about candles, and bubble-baths, and romantic sex. It can also be dirty, rough, kinky, or some kind of alternative sexual experience. The difference is there is a depth of feeling/desire for the person, rather than just for the act itself.
You said it brilliantly!
Then, count this as one of the many things left, which you have...to look forward to!
Until then LadyX enjoy all the button pushing you can!!!