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Sexual Communication in a Non Sexual Relationship

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Any women here had a male acquaintance whom they were not engaged in a sexual relationship, but were able to talk about and share their sexuality and experience openly without holding much back?

Last year a woman I'd worked with off & on for fourteen years outtted herself to me & I confessed quite a bit to her. since then we've had frequent conversations about our experiences, questions, ect... Its been interesting, fun, & educational and added a lot of depth to the decade and a half friendship. Anyone else had a guy pal they shared their deep secrets with?
Yes and it's not just limited to men, I have female friends too, and we talk openly about sex.

That said I have also had men share things with me on here that I certainly didn't ask, want or need to know. Same can't be said so far for my female friends.
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I had a friend like this in the past, a long time ago and we were the best of friends and used to share a lot about our sexual experiences. Unfortunately our friendship dissolved when I ended things with my then boyfriend, my ex-boyfriend essentially got him in the divorce. I no longer have this type of friendship with anyone although I have slowly become more open about sharing things with some of my Lush friends.
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That said I have also had men share things with me on here that I certainly didn't ask, want or need to know. Same can't be said so far for my female friends.


I was definitely asking about live ftf friends vs cyber unknowns. Chatting here can be fun & informative, but is not remotely like conversations with eye contact & years of business together.

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... Unfortunately our friendship dissolved when I ended things with my then boyfriend, my ex-boyfriend essentially got him in the divorce. ...


ROFLMAO Break ups can have so many odd nuances. I think thats why a former gf & I still associate, do business, and socialize. We don't have sex anymore or live together. But after sixty years we learned that a complete break off is best avoided & done carefully if necessary. Just to many entanglements, connections, shared baggage, after 16 years. 'Who gets which friend?' Not a question I care to contemplate. We share joint custody of the dog. I usually have her on weekends as she is a working dog most weekdays.
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ROFLMAO Break ups can have so many odd nuances. I think thats why a former gf & I still associate, do business, and socialize. We don't have sex anymore or live together. But after sixty years we learned that a complete break off is best avoided & done carefully if necessary. Just to many entanglements, connections, shared baggage, after 16 years. 'Who gets which friend?' Not a question I care to contemplate. We share joint custody of the dog. I usually have her on weekends as she is a working dog most weekdays.




In my defence, I had just woken up lol

I don't think I have. Pretty sure anytime it's been platonic on my part they haven't felt the same. Female friends yes, male no.
The Duchess of Tart

Please check out my new story, co-written with the amazing Wilful.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx

And my latest poem, The Temptation.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-temptation.aspx
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In my defence, I had just woken up lol

I don't think I have. Pretty sure anytime it's been platonic on my part they haven't felt the same. Female friends yes, male no.


you want me. you know you do.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

About 10 yrs back, I had a great guy friend that I worked with for years and we could tell each other ANYTHING!!! He was the coolest guy, never had sex but we had joked about what it would be like. I changed jobs, we tried to keep our friendship but life pulled us in separate directions. Just Facebook friends now sad
I have a feeling that if Sprite & I met not much would be held back....
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I have a feeling that if Sprite & I met not much would be held back....


lol - i have no censor chip when it comes to talking sex. should hear the conversations i have with Lizzy's mum. Liz has pretty much banned me from visiting. ;)

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

No male friends like that in real life, but a few online.