I sometimes wish I had kept a score card when I started dating and playing with guys - but maybe that number would be intimidating to a guy I end up really liking. I always acknowledge that I, and presumably he, had a past and that it involved some number of experiences with a number of different people. I usually leave it there, and most guys are perfectly fine with not knowing my body count, although I'm sure they're curious... I went to my college reunion with a guy I was dating, and over the course of the weekend parties and dinner and other activities, I introduced him to a good number of guys and girls, and told him what I might have done with them. I was surprised - he got a kick out of meeting about 15 guys that I'd "been with" and a few girls, too - and he heard about the several threesomes and participants .... So my number is "up there" but not for casual reveal. If I end up staying with this guy, we'll probably bump into several more ex's. I'm hoping that he's open with me and inttroduces me to ex gfs at his reunion.
Active Ink Slinger
