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Was intercourse painful the first time ?

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CuriousMonkey80
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The question is obviously for woman. Was it painful the first time?

Also can it ever be painful the 'first few times' ?


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Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
Not really. My hymen was already gone by the time a guy's cock got in there. Dry fucks are about the only time it's ever painful.
Unknown User
A little bit. I gave myself to Ex and seeing as he was my first sexual partner it was a bit uncomfortable.
MeganC
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It wasn't painful but it was uncomfortable the first time.
Meggsy
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Not for me. I thoroughly enjoyed my first time(s).
I had been masturbating for a year or so and I believe my brush handle devoured my hymen.
My first cock felt amazing the first time and even better the second.
Meagananne1986
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Quote by Meggsy
I believe my brush handle devoured my hymen.


I like the word you choose - "Devoured."

Interesting choice. Normally, my pussy is the one doing the devouring.
Meagananne1986
Sexy Seductive Siren
Yes, it was quite painful for me, and for a few times afterward. I had an extraordinary thick hymen and it took a while before the hymen/hymenal ring was fully worn away.
angie30fAZmarried
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Just a little. More worried about getting caught. Parked boat clothes on was worst ever.
utterchaos
The Horrors Persist
I was actually unable to have sex when I attempted my first time Kinda embarrassing. Turned out my parents neglected to tell me that I actually had a septate hymen and I'd been too shy to look so I didn't know about it. Had a very awkward conversation with my mother. Thankfully my boyfriend at the time was very understanding although when we attempted again he had to be fairly rough so it hurt.
NaughtyKat
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It wasn't painful at all. The painful part was how he treated me after and then the following days.
Sexybutt
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I did feel a brief searing pain and then it was over. Sadly the pain was the best part.
Guest
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Not much in pussy but my 1st anal was bit painful.
annabelle61790
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No , I was young but very gently treated by someone who knew exactly what to do . Same for first anal , no regrets ever.
Meagananne1986
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Quote by Sexybutt
I did feel a brief searing pain and then it was over. Sadly the pain was the best part.


Strangely, I agree with you! For a LONG time, I have vivid dreams of reliving my first time. Still do although over time, much less frequent. But just a vivid when they do happen.
Meagananne1986
Sexy Seductive Siren
Quote by utterchaos
I was actually unable to have sex when I attempted my first time Kinda embarrassing. Turned out my parents neglected to tell me that I actually had a septate hymen and I'd been too shy to look so I didn't know about it. Had a very awkward conversation with my mother. Thankfully my boyfriend at the time was very understanding although when we attempted again he had to be fairly rough so it hurt.


Seems similar to my experience, although I knew from my first visit to the OB/GYN that I had an extraordinarily thick hymen and intercourse, at least at the beginning, was likely to be somewhat painful for me. She told my mom that she could surgically cut it to make it less painful for me, but (guided by her somewhat Puritan ideas of sex, even within marriage) wouldn't hear of it. So, like you, my first boyfriend had to rather rough deflowering me. No regrets though.
Meagananne1986
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Quote by DeeptiNaughty.....
My 1st anal was a bit painful.


I can relate to you on that, although, to be honest, I wanted it to hurt and he obliged me. But wouldn't change a thing if I could do it over.
Kee
Sensual Hobgoblin
Quote by Meggsy
Not for me. I thoroughly enjoyed my first time(s).
I had been masturbating for a year or so and I believe my brush handle devoured my hymen.
My first cock felt amazing the first time and even better the second.


What Meg said. I actually had an orgasm, which kinda surprised me due to things I read and heard about the first time.
Guest
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Some - I have been riding since I was small so the hymen was broke.
Jocelyn00
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It was a little painful but it subsided quickly.
Nafisa
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It was a bit painful.

Nafisa
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It hurt like hell. I was young