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What's your idea of good foreplay?
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Doing laundry together. For real. There's something moody and dark about the room with the washing machines.
It begins at the end and therefore includes everything in between.
That can be as simple as gestures of acknowledgement / connection through out the day, or everything up to and I guess including oral sex. But even then I don't really see oral as foreplay. If pleasure is in the mind and the body is merely used to complete it, then anything counts really. It probably doesn't operate that way for everyone but intellectual stimulation for example is high on my list of things that are going to keep me hot for you. Doing the laundry and actually being partners in a partnership is also good. So is general flirtatious behaviours, compliments, small incidental touches, and others that are perhaps linked more explicitly to sexual play, your hands caressing my neck, the occasional playful spank, etc. Basically I want you to stimulate my mind until I'm salivating for you.
I am also a huge fan of kissing, I think it's a massively underrated act of intimacy and it DRIVES everything else. Good kissing is important to me and not something I'd ever compromise on in any future relationships that's for sure. I've been with some terrible kissers and in my experience that usually pretty indicative of other bedroom compatibility.
That can be as simple as gestures of acknowledgement / connection through out the day, or everything up to and I guess including oral sex. But even then I don't really see oral as foreplay. If pleasure is in the mind and the body is merely used to complete it, then anything counts really. It probably doesn't operate that way for everyone but intellectual stimulation for example is high on my list of things that are going to keep me hot for you. Doing the laundry and actually being partners in a partnership is also good. So is general flirtatious behaviours, compliments, small incidental touches, and others that are perhaps linked more explicitly to sexual play, your hands caressing my neck, the occasional playful spank, etc. Basically I want you to stimulate my mind until I'm salivating for you.
I am also a huge fan of kissing, I think it's a massively underrated act of intimacy and it DRIVES everything else. Good kissing is important to me and not something I'd ever compromise on in any future relationships that's for sure. I've been with some terrible kissers and in my experience that usually pretty indicative of other bedroom compatibility.
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It begins at the end and therefore includes everything in between.
That can be as simple as gestures of acknowledgement / connection through out the day, or everything up to and I guess including oral sex. But even then I don't really see oral as foreplay. If pleasure is in the mind and the body is merely used to complete it, then anything counts really. It probably doesn't operate that way for everyone but intellectual stimulation for example is high on my list of things that are going to keep me hot for you. Doing the laundry and actually being partners in a partnership is also good. So is general flirtatious behaviours, compliments, small incidental touches, and others that are perhaps linked more explicitly to sexual play, your hands caressing my neck, the occasional playful spank, etc. Basically I want you to stimulate my mind until I'm salivating for you.
I am also a huge fan of kissing, I think it's a massively underrated act of intimacy and it DRIVES everything else. Good kissing is important to me and not something I'd ever compromise on in any future relationships that's for sure. I've been with some terrible kissers and in my experience that usually pretty indicative of other bedroom compatibility.
This is really well put.
Kissing and kindness is the bedrock on which everything else is built.
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Kissing is always a good start. There are many types of kisses, as well as places to kiss. Mix in some licking and sucking and manual stimulation in the right places. Don't get in a rut with foreplay. Keep what your partner especially likes in the back of your mind, but use a variety of techniques to keep things fresh. Explore her erogenous zones in as many ways as you can. Keep in mind that she may have some erogenous zones that she is unaware of. Ask her about areas of her body that may be off limits. Promise her at least one orgasm through foreplay every single time. Keep that promise. Whenever possible, give her more. Some things may take lots of practice before it clicks with her. If that bothers her, it may be a sign. An erotic massage is an excellent form of foreplay, but it takes time to do it right. If time is an issue, save it for another time. Learn everything you can about her G Spot. There are several techniques to stimulate it. Neither of you will regret it. Before you start on that, place a towel under her ass, just in case you strike gold. Convince her that her pleasure is the center of your universe. You care nothing about your ejaculation until her world is rocked.
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Kissing. I love kissing.
I can understand that, but what about a good, slow erotic full body massage ?? I like giving those 
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Consideration and kindness. Nestling in his lap. And, ideally, the Red Sox will have won.
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I believe foreplay is such an underrated thing. For me, foreplay is important for the stimulation of mind. It's the prelude to sex and starts pretty much after sex. It can include those naughty texts you exchange while at work, telling your partner you love him/her and what you are gonna do when you meet again. It may include simple things like cooking together, doing dishes and laundry. It may include a walk together, hand in hand, kissing each other. Watching movies together. You get so addicted to each other that it ends up in hot steamy sex. Kissing is the major part of foreplay. For a woman, kissing does wonders. I am particularly fond of neck kissing. So, without foreplay sex becomes monotonous.
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When we take our time and body-worship with intent. You can feel when someone is fully 'in' the moment and that is hot as fuck.
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For the girls : do everything you enjoy yourself and she will get the message and follow the leader. We have more to share and enjoy. The result is the same.
Method: take all the ingredients and slowly combine them until the oven is hot enough and then put the meat in the oven. You know when everything is ready to serve.
For the girls : do everything you enjoy yourself and she will get the message and follow the leader. We have more to share and enjoy. The result is the same.
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Consideration and kindness. Nestling in his lap. And, ideally, the Red Sox will have won.
A lady who knows what life is truly about: Life IS Red Sox Nation!
I knew there was something ultra-sexy about you Jai, and now I know exactly what it is.
Here I thought it might be your sweet cheeks or your hands, so soft......
People not from the area don't really see what the Red Sox mean to us "Bostonians."
Tom Bradys and Bobby Orrs can come and go but the Red Sox are "sangue" or "in the blood."
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Kissing. I love kissing.
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Doing laundry together. For real. There's something moody and dark about the room with the washing machines.
True! We sometimes get so involved that it's difficult to hold off until we get home from the laundromat. The vibrations of those powerful machines can be very stimulating. (Does anyone else refer to those places as the "washateria"?)
But anyway, kissing, stroking, feather-light teasing touches in all the sensitive areas. I find I can get things heating up by making up a small story, an erotic, sexual scene involving a handsome, sexy stranger or someone in our sphere to build a fantasy for her. So softly-spoken erotic words, in that case, seem to make for worthy foreplay.
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Every woman is different in my experience. I try to tailor it to my partner. It starts long before the sex. I tend to express my love through actions. I also try to engage with them mentally and emotionally earlier in the day. Ideally, you want to spark desire in them and desirability in you.
The actual foreplay is somewhat dependent upon the type of sex one is having: leisurely and tender or urgent and immediate. Elements include passionate kissing stroking of the body (not diving immediately to the nipples and pussy), nuzzling the parts she likes (neck, ears, breasts, or...), a mix of variety and focus on one area to keep them engaged and building towards actually wanting to have sex with you. Lips, hands, fingers, tongue and skin all get involved in exploring your partner's body. Follow their lead and linger / add accordingly. My performing oral on her can be interpreted as foreplay or sex. By that time, it probably doesn't matter if you are doing your job right.
Or so I have been told...
What is a turn-off is when you get no response from your partner (even if they enjoy it). Enthusiasm matters.
The actual foreplay is somewhat dependent upon the type of sex one is having: leisurely and tender or urgent and immediate. Elements include passionate kissing stroking of the body (not diving immediately to the nipples and pussy), nuzzling the parts she likes (neck, ears, breasts, or...), a mix of variety and focus on one area to keep them engaged and building towards actually wanting to have sex with you. Lips, hands, fingers, tongue and skin all get involved in exploring your partner's body. Follow their lead and linger / add accordingly. My performing oral on her can be interpreted as foreplay or sex. By that time, it probably doesn't matter if you are doing your job right.
Or so I have been told...
What is a turn-off is when you get no response from your partner (even if they enjoy it). Enthusiasm matters.
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When we take our time and body-worship with intent. You can feel when someone is fully 'in' the moment and that is hot as fuck.
"Body-worship with intent" describes it perfectly. You give each your full attention. You are both turned on and in the moment, and you just let the sexual muses guide you.
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It all depends on the situation.
If it's one of those idyllic afternoons with the sunlight streaming through the windows and a gentle breeze ruffling the curtains, then it's all very sublime and sensuous.
If you've been apart for weeks and you meet at the airport, then to hell with the CCTV in the carpark, it can be a very rough 'Quickie' ! !
If it's one of those idyllic afternoons with the sunlight streaming through the windows and a gentle breeze ruffling the curtains, then it's all very sublime and sensuous.
If you've been apart for weeks and you meet at the airport, then to hell with the CCTV in the carpark, it can be a very rough 'Quickie' ! !
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Kisses, touches, sensuous licks
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I know this is "Ask the Gals", but I do hope that all the guys take a moment and read these well thought out answers. More importantly remember them for the next time! 
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Good foreplay leads to great sex, but it is impossible to say exactly when the foreplay ends and the sex begins.
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Last few months I've had some sessions with a woman who is interested in tantric. we are just dabbling but we make swapping full body massage the core of our playtime. Along the way we tease each others nipples, genitals, & other sweet spots. In only one session did we actually fuck, tho it was a intense round. Even if neither of us orgasms during these sessions after two hours of erotic massage & edging we are so dopey from endomorphins the rest of the day is pretty much in a fluffy glowing cloud.