Maybe I'm naive, maybe it's because I had no sisters, maybe it's because I had only a handful of sexual partners before I got married but I still find the whole intimate details of straight sex to be a learning experience that is often not talked about in real life to other women other than your partner. That's what I find most interesting about Lush.......the stories of real experiences, the posts about real feelings and thoughts about all things to do with sex.
My only two stories published so far have been true stories!
I can't do role play - I do have imagination & hope to write a story which is fictional (working on one at the moment) but I haven't yet found a RP that I could get into - way too much thinking & typing needed & it seems to me in my limited experience, the lead actor is expected to be the man in the scenario. Give me the opposite & I might get into RP - the woman being the one taking the lead & me reacting to the scene/action
I can't understand the EyeCandy room - yes some of the images are sexy but a constant barrage of them is aversion therapy IMO - turns me right down to zero on my heat setting.
Sorry if this upsets anyone (I know that's presumptuous to say as who gives a crap what I think or is even listening to it) but I can't get turned on in a room where two people are talking about what they are doing to one another.
I have no problem with those rooms or the people enjoying themselves - it's just not for me & I leave.
I started a thread about porn videos I liked, posting links to them & saying why I liked them, hoping that others would join in & post - very few did. In all cases, porn needs to be real not actors playing real emotions - I need to see real arousal & hopefully abandonment to pleasure. I'm sure I can be fooled by very good acting too, but the sexual flush on the skin can't be acted, the swollen clit & nipples can't be acted (I'm talking about women here - guy's erections can be acted or enhanced by Viagra, etc)
Anyway, don't know how this post turned into this confessional?