how many guys like a bigger girl

Quote by Magical_felix
I tend to be one of those that doesn't subscribe to that whole it's what's inside that counts mumbo jumbo.. If that was true no one would give a fuck what color their car was as long as the engine was tip top... But we all know thats not the case. (I know women aren't cars, put the tomatoes down ladies)

I'm not saying that bigger gals aren't attractive in their own way but when It comes to my preference a fit woman has other qualities besides being in shape. When you see women that take care of themselves they project this confidence that can be intoxicating. They are proud, they put effort into their clothing, it feels good to have her on your arm when you know every dude in the place just turned to check her out. Her personality probably is of the type that wouldn't let themselves go and it manifests in other aspects of their life. They may work just as hard to keep their man happy. This fit woman probably doesn't want a sloppy fuck as a boyfriend either so she forces her man to take care of himself too. Its a good thing, to quote Martha Stewart. (A thick woman I would make an exception for by the way....)

So really, It's not just about looks when it comes to some men, like myself that prefer a woman that is fit and the most beautiful she can be.

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As an aside & no offense, ewwwww to Martha Stewart LOL, sorry, your tastes & mine are very opposite. She's never turned me on ever & she's not even that overweight, she just has large bones I believe.

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I've mostly avoided this thread as it's "ask the guys" but in reality, more guys then girls tend to answer the ask the girls threads anyway, so why shouldn't I put my two cents in.

I'm a big girl: I stand 6', weigh between 250(winter)-230(summer) #. I'm not a stick, never will be. But, that doesn't mean I'm not active of fit. I follow a primitive diet: vegetable based, very strict grain/dairy/sugar limitations, absolutely no processed foods. Typically I eat about 10-12 salads a week. I also exercise. In the past week alone, I ran 8 miles, and biked 85 miles(my summer plans include a century ride and a half marathon). Plus, school and work. So I'm not sitting around eating Doritos. To say that fat people are lazy can be both true and a misnomer. Like all else, it depends on the individual.

That said, I prefer fit women. I get very frustrated with threads like this as I find it to be an excuse for thin bashing and for plump girls to validate themselves. Neither is okay in my book. I'm a big girl. I'll own up to that. But I don't need a bunch of online people to tell me how they prefer me. I've got my good points, and my flaws. I'm aware of them both. Luckily for me, there are plenty of men who find me their cup of tea. We are all individuals and we are attracted to different things. What a boring place this earth would be if we were all the same.

Quote by Horndogdad
I love all women all sizes and curves, it's not what a girl has it's her personality that will win my heart all the time
A sweet heart and open personality get me going all the time !!
Can never judge anyone without looking at myself first
So in my book everyone is a winner!

Quote by Dirty_D
I've mostly avoided this thread as it's "ask the guys" but in reality, more guys then girls tend to answer the ask the girls threads anyway, so why shouldn't I put my two cents in.

I'm a big girl: I stand 6', weigh between 250(winter)-230(summer) #. I'm not a stick, never will be. But, that doesn't mean I'm not active of fit. I follow a primitive diet: vegetable based, very strict grain/dairy/sugar limitations, absolutely no processed foods. Typically I eat about 10-12 salads a week. I also exercise. In the past week alone, I ran 8 miles, and biked 85 miles(my summer plans include a century ride and a half marathon). Plus, school and work. So I'm not sitting around eating Doritos. To say that fat people are lazy can be both true and a misnomer. Like all else, it depends on the individual.

That said, I prefer fit women. I get very frustrated with threads like this as I find it to be an excuse for thin bashing and for plump girls to validate themselves. Neither is okay in my book. I'm a big girl. I'll own up to that. But I don't need a bunch of online people to tell me how they prefer me. I've got my good points, and my flaws. I'm aware of them both. Luckily for me, there are plenty of men who find me their cup of tea. We are all individuals and we are attracted to different things. What a boring place this earth would be if we were all the same.

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This is by far the best post in this thread.

My sister is the exact opposite of you (she weighed below 100 lbs during her early adulthood), and she tried many times to gain weight so that others would stop calling her an anorexic. People here seem to perceive themselves as very humanist for disliking thin girls, but some of the things that's been said in this thread could be quite insulting to many frail girls.

There's no denying that there are 'some' genetic variations among the human race, but this works both ways, and it doesn't mean that people should always blame their 'genes' for having the body they have. I've met many overweight and diabetes suffering people in my life, and sorry to say, the majority of them weren't following healthy habits (or did so very sporadically). I personally have average genetics, and still closely follow my caloric intake and train almost every day for nearly 2 hours. Shouldn't people who are 'genetically disadvantaged' be the first to follow such a strict regimen, just to put the odds in their favor? Strangely enough, few of them do.

Also, there's only a certain level of 'genetic variation' I'm willing to buy. Being so fat that you have trouble moving around isn't exactly a 'natural variation' to me. Just look at the contestants of The Biggest Loser; a lot of them probably blamed their genes or told others that they had 'thick bodies' before following this regimen, yet most of them were able to achieve a healthy physique with proper habits.

I'm not usually the one to point my finger and laugh at obese people, but I'm not exactly shy to say it isn't an admirable trait either. It also seems to me that 'fuller' women in here expect that fit handsome males will bow to them and tell them how awesome their physiques are. Men with fake avatars complimenting your body type can be very charming and flattering, but in reality fit males will seek fit females, there's no denying that. You can't really impose to your partners traits that you don't even display yourself to some degree; this works for both genders.

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I've mostly avoided this thread as it's "ask the guys" but in reality, more guys then girls tend to answer the ask the girls threads anyway, so why shouldn't I put my two cents in.

I'm a big girl: I stand 6', weigh between 250(winter)-230(summer) #. I'm not a stick, never will be. But, that doesn't mean I'm not active of fit. I follow a primitive diet: vegetable based, very strict grain/dairy/sugar limitations, absolutely no processed foods. Typically I eat about 10-12 salads a week. I also exercise. In the past week alone, I ran 8 miles, and biked 85 miles(my summer plans include a century ride and a half marathon). Plus, school and work. So I'm not sitting around eating Doritos. To say that fat people are lazy can be both true and a misnomer. Like all else, it depends on the individual.

That said, I prefer fit women. I get very frustrated with threads like this as I find it to be an excuse for thin bashing and for plump girls to validate themselves. Neither is okay in my book. I'm a big girl. I'll own up to that. But I don't need a bunch of online people to tell me how they prefer me. I've got my good points, and my flaws. I'm aware of them both. Luckily for me, there are plenty of men who find me their cup of tea. We are all individuals and we are attracted to different things. What a boring place this earth would be if we were all the same.

Quote by rushman1uk
Yip, i do. I had a fling with a married bbw who's husband wasn't giving her any plesure. She was/is a size 22-24 uk with 38G tit's to die for