I’m looking for advice, scenarios, suggestions on how to seduce a straight married, friend of many years to sucking each other off. I’ve never been with a guy but fantasize about him. He’s made enough comments that Make me really think he wants to also, but when I press a little he backs off. Love to hear your ideas.
This is a scenario I could see myself in at some point. I'd say just be patient. If he's truly a friend of many years, it may take a while longer to get him. Keep dropping the hints but not pushing too hard. Maybe eventually he will be the one doing the pushing. What kinds of comments? Fake-gay locker room jokes, in a general sense? Pro-bi/gay comments, in a general sense? Commenting on how other specific guys look? Commenting on you or your body specifically? Peeing with the shower door open?
Do your shared activities lend yourself to sexual talk, or porn viewing, or locker room/gym type nudity? All these could be avenues, but he has to be willing. You are my age ... drop a hint about how things were so repressed when we were young men, and younger guys are lucky that they get to explore their sexuality more than you did ... maybe even tell him you feel like you have some catching up to do?
Hell, most of my stories are various ideas about how to "cross the line" from friendship or buddyship to sucking each other. Sex talk about your experiences with women, talking about (or better yet, viewing) porn, gym locker rooms, saunas, hot tubs, pools, camping. Again, I'd say keep exploring these scenarios. Don't push too hard, but keep giving him opportunities. He probably has multiple psychological barriers to getting cocks-out with another guy, and eventually he may overcome those once he realizes there's nothing wrong with it and that you want him too. Good luck.
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This is all great advice! Thanks, I’ll keep you updated if anything develops.
Hornhead I'm wondering how you made out? Along with Joe71's suggestion, I have a suggestion. If your married friend goes to the gym or does other sporting activities with you, maybe you should try wearing a pair of underwear that comes from a website that caters to guys...it doesn't have to be blatantly sexy or anything...the idea is to project your openness to perhaps experimenting via your under garment. If he has the same thoughts and has looked at sites online while exploring his thoughts, he may or may not recognize the underwear and it could get him thinking about you in a different light. If he also has any of these type of thoughts, he is likely to notice the under garment and you may plant a seed in his head. You can try watch for his reaction or in a best case scenario...he might ask you about them, where you got them, or he could comment on the look of them or casually tell you they look, new, nice etc. giving you an opening. Any opening like that may give you an opportunity to steer him towards where you want to go. On the other hand if he has zero interest, you probably won't get the feedback your looking for and there should be no harm done with you just wearing a different pair of underwear etc.
I too have thought about this scenario but have not acted on it because of lack of opportunity and life circumstances at this point. Would love to hear more about attempts since your original posting and for that matter, from anyone else with ideas that may have worked without leaving oneself vulnerable to losing a friend you had the thoughts about etc.
