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What do you like the most about..

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..your partner orgasm?

heavy breathing? eyes rolling, face expression, spasm...
One of my favorite things would be watching that chest rise and exhale so heavily as they cross the threshold of orgasm.

I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?

My wife Brandie (NOLAHotGal).

We will be married 38 years this summer. What I like most is our loving commitment to each other. We both have a very very high sex drive. I'm very much Dominant in our marriage and sex life. Brandie loves her submissiveness in our marriage and sex life. We are heavy into the Swinging and the BDSM genres of the lifestyle. She is a fantastic lover. She keeps her body in great shape and has a killer hourglass figure. Only a few women have come close to being as good a lover as Brandie. We make love a few times a week and fuck the rest of the time. She is as hot today at 57 as she was at 17. She could easily pass for 40.

In her business she is very dominant and very much in control, but in a caring way. She treats her employees very well. Most make more in annual salary than the going rate for their positions. Mainly because she has established a profit sharing plan for all her employees once that are there for a year. She pays most of their medical, dental, and eye care premiums. This was in place before obama care. They have the option to include their spouse and children at a group rate. She has 401 and IRA plans. Paid vacations, sick leave, and disability insurance. Most of her employees that started with her over 20 years ago are still with her. She has enough trust and confidence in her managers and employees to be up here in New York with me for the last 5 weeks. Other than the first couple months of the year she is more like a part time employee. She goes in daily M-F for about 3 to 5 hours.

She is an awesome cook, has two green thumbs, an award winning photographer. She was a part time college student, usually 9 to 10 hours a semester, and graduated 5th in her class with 2 majors. Then got her masters degree. We could not have children but she helped our family and close friends with their new borns, then helped raise some of them to some degree.

I am very proud of her, VERY PROUD!!!!!!!!!! BABY I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

Nawty

PS; WE believe at least part of the secret to our long marriage is that we communicated with each other. Even in her submissive roll she was up front with how she felt about issues and knew she could express her feelings, opinions, and desires, and I would listen to her and consider them. But she knew I would make the final decisions. In a lot of cases we could come up with a compromise that was acceptable to both.

Like when we bought our last house. We knew we would do some remodeling and painting. She wanted to paint all the walls a light pink with white doors and woodwork. I wanted all tan walls with a dark oak stained doors and woodwork. In the kitchen she wanted marble counter tops I wanted another type. She wanted white cabinets I wanted dark oak. The compromise was her room got bright pink walls with white doors and trim. My room got light brown walls with the dark oak stained doors and wood trim. The rest of the house including the master bedroom got cream paint for the walls with light oak stained doors and woodwork. In the kitchen she got the marble counter tops and I got the light oak cabinets. All the ceilings are white. We are both happy with the out come.

We both also believe that a couple can be more apt to last together if they are sexually compatible.

Nawty
Hubbie (NawtyGuy504)

I agree with his response to the forum question and his response is right above mine.

I really did like the way the house came out when it was finished. Hubbie really does know me. The scary thing about it is, he probably knows me better than I know my self.

I must mention that he pushed me into communicating with him what my thoughts, desires, and opinions were. He started trying to get me to open up while we were dating. He got more adamant about it after we got engaged. After we were married he was even more forceful and adamant about me expressing my thoughts on what ever discussion we were having. Even to the restaurant or movie we were going to.

Hubbie was completely different than any guy or man I dated before him. In our earlier days of dating he would kiss me but never tried to even feel me up. I thought he was gay and only dating me as a cover. I broke up with him twice because I needed and wanted to get fucked. I later found out he was only being respectful to me and that he was still a virgin. He wanted to wait until he knew he wanted to marry the girl he gave his virginity too. He also wanted her to be giving him her virginity. I lied to him about being a virgin. About a year after we were married he found out that I had lied to him and was really a slut.

He got furious and started to leave me. The only reason he did not leave me was because he got extremely turned on when he heard about me. We were at my annual alumni dance at the high school I attended. He overheard Teach talking to another man about the gang bang Teach had taken me to. The other man was the janitor at the high school I was going to where teach was my teacher. He caught Teach and I fucking in a locked teachers lounge in the balcony section of our auditorium /theater. I had to start servicing the janitor to keep him quite.

This is when Hubbie found out about me being Teach's submissive sex slave. A couple months later I accepted Hubbie's collar and became his submissive sex slave. Starting the day after he found out I had to do a lot of talking. It was then that he really got me to open up and communicate with him.

As it turned out it was probably one of the best things that could have happened to us. He found out he was way more liberal than he thought sexually. I got back into my roll as a submissive sex slave that I was missing. Hubbie was an excellent lover from the first night we made love. But it was not fulfilling the need I had for the more kinky life I had as Teach's submissive sex slave. I was dating both of them for about a year until Hubbie ask me to marry him. I never cheated on Hubbie during our engagement or the year before I became his sub. As good as our lovemaking was something was missing with out the wilder side that I had grown to love and needed.

I LOVE YOU HUBBIE. IT HAS BEEN ONE HELL OF VERY EROTIC RIDE ALONG WITH A LOT OF OTHER GOOD VANILLA TIMES TOO.

BRANDIR
for me is definitely to feel her orgasm...

with my actual gf I can really feel her contractions and spasm so clearly that i could tell how strong and how long her orgasm was smile

in the past with another woman was seeing her toes curl!
really love to be the cause of all of this!
Being with her when it happens. Feeling her body react, watching, listening. Believing I helped her get there. And looking at her after. Women are particularly beautiful immediately after, in the afterglow. Perhaps that's not a specific enough answer but it's the best I can offer.
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Being with her when it happens. Feeling her body react, watching, listening. Believing I helped her get there. And looking at her after. Women are particularly beautiful immediately after, in the afterglow. Perhaps that's not a specific enough answer but it's the best I can offer.


nice! that's ok!
At the very least this topic should be in the ask the gals section too. After all women find more pleasure in giving pleasure more so than men do--typically.
The thing I like about it is you can see their control just slip away and they're fully in the moment. Women are always trying to hold back. I once had a girl apologize for cumming on my dick. I found that odd. No that I think about it more than one girl as apologized. Why do women feel the need to have remorse for cumming?
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At the very least this topic should be in the ask the gals section too. After all women find more pleasure in giving pleasure more so than men do--typically.
The thing I like about it is you can see their control just slip away and they're fully in the moment. Women are always trying to hold back. I once had a girl apologize for cumming on my dick. I found that odd. No that I think about it more than one girl as apologized. Why do women feel the need to have remorse for cumming?


question is in "ask the Gals" too!

and luckily, I never had a woman feeling sorry for having an orgasm.. maybe some was less self confident about it, but never regret (at least I hope so!)