Ok so I have a boyfriend, and since we met I have added spice to his sex life. I bite and I scratch. I even write my stories. I asked if he has read any but he says he does not want to read my past sexual experiences? Yet he would not explain why. So fellas why would he not want to read them he wont even read my fantasy stories??
some guys just don't want to know. doesn't want to be compared to them, doesn't want to think about your exs.
It means he is immature and insecure as a man, I LOVED hearing about my GF & wife's experiences....Steve.
He is the type that plays video games and a conservative man. If I went to a nude beach he would not want to partake. I think he is self conscious. For he is unwilling to let me clone his willy. Cause glow in the dark clone a willys are awesome. Its not like people would see the dong and be like oh that's your boyfriend. He has not had a lot of girlfriends and most of them has cheated on him.
He is happy in your relationship because he doesn't want to know about your past sexual history because it may devastated him if finds out, most men prefer to be in a state of "ignorance was bliss".
Would you want to read about him having sex with somebody else?
Hi,
Neat question. Some guys like to hear about it, some guys don't like to hear about it. That's all it is. I happen to be one of the ones who doesn't like to hear. I have adored my wife for 43 plus years. I will do anything (and have) for her, but I do not want to hear about her old boyfriends.
As far as "Immature" goes, bull shit. (I think I can say that here.)
I'm 71 now, have 6 kids, 3 girls, 15 grand kids, 7 girls, and 2 great grand kids, both boys. She was 5 years older than me and already had 4 kids, 2 boys, 16 and 14 and 2 girls 13 and 9 when I married her. In my immaturity I managed to get them through most of the problems and make everyone of them my kids and managed to get them all grown up, successful and with families. They all call me dad and come to me with problems because I'm the soft touch, not mom.
Well, they used to. Now the youngest is 36 and they make their own decisions, which is exactly what I was after. 5 years ago, at Christmas, it hit me. "I'm no longer in charge." I went around to each of them and told them that and gave them a big hug and thanked them for being my kid. Every one of them was sad hearing it and spent time reassuring me that I was still "Daddy" and always would be. That is one of the all time greatest ego trips.
In all of this what I have noticed was that the immature ones talked and bragged about their conquests and what their girl/boy friend could do. Yeah, a couple of the girls did talk to me because they all trusted me. I NEVER called them anything but, "My kids" and I never repeated what I heard, not even to their mother and that used to REALLY piss her off. As I cozzied them into understanding that every one of us is different and taught them to see past the surface, they changed their attitudes and talked less and listened more. They all learned to think.
Summary:
We are all different and trying to use our own personal feelings as a filter to describe some one else's choices is wrong. It's judgemental and immature.
Paul
I am the sum of all my decisions, good and bad, as are you. They are just different.
I would tend to think he feels a little inadequate and would not match up to some of your previous partners
I think it sounds like he is insecure, and maybe he thinks he can't live up to your previous sexual encounters. You said he is a little conservative so he could be afraid that you telling him your fantasies that he would be expected to perform them.
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