What does it feel like???

14 Jun 2012

As a writer I want to do some work that includes things from a man's point of view.

I know how hard it is to write about the feelings I have as a woman when having sex, words are hard to find for that kind of pleasure. dontknow

So I was hoping some of you guys could gve me a in sight in to how it feels to be aroused and what it feels like during different activties?

I know its a big ask, but it would really help me with my next story.

Cheers x Lwinking

14 Jun 2012

hey Jayne...well different guys react and feel differently to different types of stimulation (duh! lol)
personally...i get aroused when i stare into her eyes...and if i can read her thoughts. My heart begins to thump faster and i feel my mind zoning out all the other worries, responsibilities and stresses in my life. My mind gets overpopulated with a million different words....i want to say them to her but i prefer staring at her and after i cross my threshold i just grab her...i do not experience any major erection up and until this point. Its all about feelings and thoughts here...i get overwhelmed by them so i just don't waste much time trying to formulate sensible sentences...just grab her and kiss her.

While kissing, and caressing each other...again my mind is in an overdrive state....eyes shut i just cant think of anything else...all senses except those feel and taste numb out. Depends on the way she moves her hands around me or the way she grabs me...my skin gets a bit goosebumoy...especially if she runs her fingers through my head and over my back...i begin to imagine her face, pleasant scenery (sometimes)...and as weird as it sounds i am at this point trying to come up with ideas to play with her and tease her...the thought of visually imagining them itself gets me excited.and i begin to harden up then lol...

during intercourse...its a million different feelings all together. Its usually said guys just feel sensation through their heads...not brains ( silly

) but its not true at all. while inside...its just a warm feeling...moist feeling...the head of the penis is quite sensitive and the friction it encounters while rubbing up against the canal...just sends shock waves throughout my body (of course this is without a condom on)....during slow strokes i i sometimes just stop all the way deep in...and i feel the throbs of my veins beat up against her...that feeling personally is the best feeling in the world to me. you know your partners heart is beating....a life force full of passion and desires for you is pulsating in for you with you....its just ecstatic. depending on the positions and placement of the hands...again the feelings and sensations vary....one of the positions where i stimulate her clitoris while me being inside her...i know she gets to experience the pleasure but just the feeling of touching the soft tissue with your finger tips just....in a weird way melts your thoughts as well as excites you...when you feel her breather against you...when your hear the sounds you know you are the cause of it and personally that's a major doze of adrenaline.

while orally pleasing her...i like to maintain eye contact with her...as mentioned before i love to gaze in her eyes...the way her body moves, the way she smiles the way she arches back in pleasure all give me not only a sense of satisfaction but gives me the energy to cope up with my aching jaws and prevents my tongue from tiring out. Its again more mental and visual. feeling her in my mouth...just excites me more, i am so busy moving the tongue around i can barely taste anything. the rubbing of her thighs on my cheeks and her grabbing my head all fire up the adrenaline within me. My heart begins to beat faster...the surroundings just fade out....i am so tuned and focused on her...my breath pretty much tells her what i want her to do...i want to speak but i cant...i want to move my hands around and touch her and feel her but i feel bound and tied down with her gasps and orgasmic moans...i personally have to break eye contact if i have to get creative with her.
i experience more excitement and emotional contact when i can see her body move, when i can see that calm, pleasured facial expression...when i can hold her and tease her.

Speaking of tease. I personally love teasing...if you consider that as an activity (lol) it gives me a sense of emotional and psychological control over her. I like to build up her levels to a point where she forces me to get on with it lol....as a guy it does give me a sesne of belonging and satisfaction that someone really desires me and that i have control over the situation....but same goes for women as well...they can be quite the tease.

Sorry for such a lengthy response...i am not sure how helpful i was...i kinda just generalized my opinions...I know i wasn't much of a help but if you had any specific queries i will be more than happy to answer them! smile

14 Jun 2012

You can probably get a fair estimation of what it feels like by putting on a strapon and then masturbating. Except for the difference of having that weight extended from the male body, the physical sensations are supposedly very similar between the genders, as near as the medical experts can determine by measuring physical response. But I'm sure that's not a satisfying answer. It feels like a very pleasant buildup of pressure, followed by a loss of control of the thrusting muscles and the pumping muscles in the groin that is even more pleasant, almost to the point of deliriously so. Then an overall feeling of well-being that lasts for up to 20 minutes. My balls feel empty and cold afterward.

My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust

16 Jun 2012

A high state of arousal is primal, powerful and exilleriating. A strong erection can give me a feeling of strength and confidence. Knowing my women wants it is an emotional rush unto itself. My desire is like a hunger, demanding to be fed. A woman's vagina grips me perfectly while conforming to my shape.
Orgasm begins in my pelvic area and spreads. My cock becomes very sensitive and the slightest touch feels divine.

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Wild at Heart- 1968. The story of Dani’s Great Aunt Evie.

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Wild Oats. Part 1&2. -2021. Dani is 16 and sets her sights on her stepfather.

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Wild Child. 2025. Dani is now 20 years old.

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16 Jun 2012

For me, my orgasm begins with what I would imagine is a similar sensation to what women describe as a tingling in their pussy. But for me, this is only just before orgasm. My cock getting hard doesn't really in and of itself "feel" different other than in the obvious ways.

As that tingling starts, what conscious thoughts I do have are dominated by things like, "Oh yes! Oh yes!" Sometimes I know that the longer I can hold off, the more intense the orgasm will be. Eventually, I will tense up. If I am inside my woman, I'll usually thrust as deep as I can. The first ejaculatory pulse is always the most intense, and if I'm not contained, it will shoot quite a ways. After the second or third pulse, the crash will start, and I'll collapse into afterglow. I will usually pulse a few more times, trailing off. My cock is actually more sensitive after I've come, but not in a particularly comfortable way.

If I've been taking care of myself, I'll reach for the tissues and clean up. I like to do this even if I am heading for a shower, as I don't want to drip anywhere.

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