My husband and I wear talking with this guy about some random thing we used to do before we became unfit. The guy responded with "When I was at this suburb I used to go to swinger parties just to watch. I didn't do anything because STDs are gross. I just watched."
From a man's perspective why was the guy telling my husband and I about his sexy experience?
I might not even look too deep into it. Many men don't have any kind of filter and just say things like that for no reason. I mean it's possible he was dangling the carrot, but quite possibly he wasn't.
Two possibilities, either he was trying to see if you guys are open to this sort of thing so that he could get you to join him or it was just random and it slipped out in the conversation!
No idea really. Maybe he was trying to impress you with his worldliness?
Bored; Lonely; horny & just wants to get a reaction maybe?