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When you're making love to a girl what really goes through your mind?

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Is she enjoying her self?Is she comfortable with me ?What would she like me to do next?
That's a tremendously unfair question, isn't it?

Men are not the same person. I'm on a bit of a rampage when it comes to this today. In MY case, it depends on what kind of sex we're having (slow, romantic, quick, rough, gentle, kinky, etc. ), who it's with (i.e. is it a girlfriend? A one night stand? An indiscretion with a friend?), is it the first time with that person?
When I'm coming, we're both focused entirely on my pleasure, because by then, we've already focused entirely on her pleasure and she's already come at least once. At our age, we have to worry about getting it done before the energy runs out.
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Some really good answers here.

Yeah something along the lines of, I hope shes enjoying this as much as I am, often i look in her eyes alot, as they hold all the secrets of how shes feeling, but facial expression and body language means alot too i guess. Then theres a little bit of concentration in my head too, trying to keep good motion and rhythm and focus on not getting too excited. Then on a more humorous side, the child in me sometimes thinks "Im having sex! I cant believe it. Hee-hee" lol When i cum, mmm i dunno what i think...."this is f**kin awesome?"
Man I can make her tits GOP in circles, sweet
Is she enjoying it?
She looks good at this angle
Her skin looks so soft
Shit, did I put the bins out???

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Quote by 1curiouscat
To be 100% honest, im usually focusing on making her cum first.


Same here buddy. Sometimes, this is a problem for me. I get most turned on when watching her get turned on. When her turn is over, sometimes, I don't feel quite as horny any longer.
Don't cum! Don't cum! Don't cum! Don't cum! ha ha ha :P
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Same here buddy. Sometimes, this is a problem for me. I get most turned on when watching her get turned on. When her turn is over, sometimes, I don't feel quite as horny any longer.



I'm there 100%
I know this is ask the guys but. ..

Oh God, why is she making that noise?
I like when people do that to me but will she like it?
Hurry up and cum already, my fingers are getting pruney.
Ouch, couldn't she have taken out that piercing before we got started.
Stop screaming and kiss me!
Noooo, keep your toes away from my butt.
Hope she likes my tornado tongue.


. . . . .I swear I'm straight . ... dammit stop laughing at me. .. I'm straight I tell you!!!
Well, in my case I always want the girl to enjoy as much as I'm enjoying myself, so in my mind there's always giving her a lot of satisfaction.
damn im getting tired i wish i would just cum already its been 2 hours shes going to tell me to get off of her soon
I'm focused entirely on my pleasure. I think about my (sports) car, what I'm going to do for the rest of the day, how big a load I'm going to unleash, you know, that sort of thing
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He's kind of a cheap date, i mean really, it wasn't that expensive and i've been all over him all night, so he knows he's getting some and yet he still makes me pay for half? and yeah, his cocks a little small but... oh, that was nice, ok, this one knows what a clits for, yeah, baby and... oh, so that's it for foreplay? i mean, there was potential.. now his sister, damn, i wonder if she's into girls, i mean, when i showed up at the door, she was flirting a little, and she's kind of cute, hmm... wait a minute, woah, dude, you are NOT trying to put it in my butt, cause... oh, ok, bad aim is all, no worries... mmm... that feels nice... she was hot too, and i loved that skirt she was wearing, very hot topic, i should go there later and see if i can find it in my size, maybe pick up a new pair of tights too, it's getting to be winter and, omg, he is so not drooling all over my face! yuck! slobbery kisses! Jessica Beal, Jessica Beal, Jessica Beal, Hugh Jackman! oh, yeah yeah, do me, Wolverine, come on, come on, come... what? that's it? ok, buddy, you owe me for dinner!


Dont know who Jessica Beal is but this whole thread is-in the words of my grandmother-'knee-slappin" funny xD.
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I know this is ask the guys but. ..

Oh God, why is she making that noise?
I like when people do that to me but will she like it?
Hurry up and cum already, my fingers are getting pruney.
Ouch, couldn't she have taken out that piercing before we got started.
Stop screaming and kiss me!
Noooo, keep your toes away from my butt.
Hope she likes my tornado tongue.


. . . . .I swear I'm straight . ... dammit stop laughing at me. .. I'm straight I tell you!!!

All of these except two things:
I wonder if she likes anal
I ain't that straight smile

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I like the diversity shown in the replies here.

For me it depends on my mood.

Yes, there are a lot of times where my focus is on making her feel as into it as possible. Mostly because that turns me of. A lot. The more into it she is the more into i am and it snowballs into the hot and heavy climax. This does not answer your question exactly though does it? I'm not sure I can put that into words in this situation because it becomes so intense that I'm not even thinking about anything except how good it feels. If i could manage a coherent thought when she orgasms for me it might sound a bit silly out of context. I suspect that's why there is a lot of grunting and groaning and screaming in sex.

There are other times when I'm not at all concerned with her pleasure to be honest. Ripping down her panties and bending her over whatever is closest is not uncommon for me and in those instances my thoughts are pretty much what you might think they are. Things like... "that's right bitch take it" or "who's a good little slut?"
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What was that noise? Is that one of the kids? You dont hear from them for HOURS and the second we start fucking theres something they need up on this floor- Dammit! I can't wait until they start school again!


Hah!
I'm so pleased I posted this question. I've laughed so hard and learned a little.
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Making sure both of us feel good.
Let's see how many times I can make her cum!
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I am really glad I got her to cum first by going down on her, now I can concentrate on coming myself. Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Sally Struthers, GOD DAMMIT! How did she slip in there? Now I have to start all over again.

You think somebody that ordered the prime rib and lobster tail for dinner would at least move around a little. There she goes, she is rubbing my back, even grabbing my ass. Holy crap! She is going to finger my asshole. Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Jessica Beal. OUCH! DAMN does she have a fish hook glued to that nail?

I am getting a little tired here too, I guess I shouldn't have had the prime rib and lobster tail or I should have waited longer after dinner. Hey! Who knew sex was like swimming? Wait a half hour after eating.

Those 32D tits of hers really feel good against my chest and I know she loves when I suck on them and use my tongue.

I am getting close again. Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Betty White (what the fuck?) too close too close can't stop Jessica Beal Jessica Beal Jessica Beaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh"

Wow, I feel really good and holding her feels wonderful. I wonder if I could get her to make a sandwich for me?
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Usually during sex I think of many things.

It goes like this... Man this girl is hot, look at me go. Her ass is bouncing of my dick so well... She really does have a good job. Im sure her parents are proud. Man... They say it take at least a million dollars to raise a kid before they hit their 18th birthday. Her Dad bought her a car and this nice house, what great parents... I mean this girl is their baby... I wonder if her mom fucks this good... I wonder if fucking prowess is hereditary? Maybe it's more nurture than nature? Anyway, those cookies her mom brought over were so good. Her dad even helped her wash her car today too. They really love her... And here I am with my dick in her ass... God they must hate me... Oh well... Fuck, Im cumming!


Ahahah forgot how funny you are! I totally believe that your thoughts wandering in this direction. Buz said that he is focused on 5 senses.
The rest I just cannot buy .
It's all about my lady. Should we start with dinner, wine, music or just a good old fashion lets screw. I concentrate on what type of day she has had. I often use some oil and massage, slowly working the muscles and rubbing all the right places. I think should i use a toy or ask what she needs. I always watch her and make sure she gets with me or at least before me. After were done i luv to clean up and make sure she knows just how special she makes me feel. When we relax afterwards i luv to push her onto the wet spot. The giggling is so funny...