Yep. Left to my own devices would hump her mouth like a little dogie humps a leg. But I am a gentleman. Most of the time.
i'll always thrust if i'm up(fertilization reflex i guess. If i'm sitting or lying down,never. I'm such a lazy ass.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
Would love to thrust a bit toward the end, but oral is so damned rare that I don't do anything to jeopardize...OTOH, maybe that's the problem!
It is natural to want to shove it in deeper but a lot of women don't like that so show some respect and let her set the pace and be grateful she's doing it for you
I find it more of a thrill when she sets the pace, you never know how deep she takes you or how fast. and a far as where I cum I feel thats her choice, some woman like the taste and some don't. I actually sometimes like to see it happen, on her lips, neck, or breasts. don't get me wrong if she wants to swallow I won't be unhappy either.
Kimasa, I'm going to get a little technical. I don't have an emotional urge to thrust into a woman's mouth nor do I have an emotional urge to thrust into my own hand while masturbating. When my body gets taken over by orgasm, it does thrust unless I consciously override it, which I do if she is not in a position to back away. I'm not emotionally interested in causing unwanted gagging. She'll sense my thrusts and ride them to her level of comfort.
to be honest my natural urge is to pull you up from there so i can slide inside you.
nothing compares to the real thing
The closer I get to the end the less I want anything to interrupt and more apt to want to take control. I think my woman enjoys when I get that way too. Grabbing her by the hair and taking what I want and at that point need.
But I think in general men AND women feel the same way. For women there may not be as much drive to take control and take what you want but no one wants to feel like they are going to be left hanging.
I wonder how many women feel like they want to grab their man by the hair while they go down on them. Maybe some want to but don't for whatever reason?
That's a complicated question for most of us. It depends on how I'm feeling at that moment. Sometimes I like to see myself cum in her hands, and sometimes not. I don't tend to ejaculate from blowjobs anyway, so it's a little bit different a question for me. The 'fucking' motion is important to penis-bearers, but it's not the only thing that is. My impulse is often dictated by my perception of her mood, which yes, I realize isn't the best all the time- sometimes it's good to just be proactive, but that's my natural inclination.