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Peter242
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Does the age of your dom matter to you? Would you feel at ease if your Dom was twenty years younger than you?
laura
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I don't like younger men anyway, so for me, nah fam, not interested in a younger dom. I'm all about the men in the age group 40+. I only fuck older men. Daddy issues for the win.
Olderfemalepredator4
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It’s not the age it’s the attitude and knowledge. Some younger guys know their shit and what to do others do not. The ones that do are incredible lol
centillini
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I have played with younger, am 50. I don't mind age difference, but I do feel that older people appreciate it more and understand body and limits.
sprite
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Quote by Olderfemalepredator4
It’s not the age it’s the attitude and knowledge. Some younger guys know their shit and what to do others do not. The ones that do are incredible lol


this. i don't really have a rule of thumb. i have had a Domme younger than me who was very good, and two apx my own age who were/are amazing. (hi Evie!)

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

HerSissyAlice
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I don't have a preference. My wife is older then I and we have an amazing relationship. I have been a sub to younger people as well. It is all about the connection that we both feel rather then our ages.
Guest
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Age isn't a big factory for me
Twoandabit
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I am 53, my Dom is 61. I think it is ideal for me. But I do have fantasies of being loaned to a young hard, cruel, tough ,hot, sexy girl 20 ish for her enjoyment.
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Quote by Olderfemalepredator4
It’s not the age it’s the attitude and knowledge. Some younger guys know their shit and what to do others do not. The ones that do are incredible lol


Yes!! I also want to mention that it also depends on how long they have been in the lifestyle. Experience is one of the best teachers. Knowing and understanding are two very different things. It's a beautiful thing when a Dom understands when to push a fantasy into reality and when to stop.
RikkiSue
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It is the ability to be master/mistress which is the most important
Sexybutt
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Age is not the issue skills are.
Jennifer50
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Quote by Peter242
Does the age of your dom matter to you? Would you feel at ease if your Dom was twenty years younger than you?
yes
elliedore1994
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I like a young dom! They are usually enthusiastic :P
theweeman
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My wife was my Domme for a short while and she is two years my junior, however my most fulfilling sub experience was a long relationship (8 years) I had with a Domme 9 years older than me. Whilst acknowledging those who say that it is skill not age that matters, with age comes skill. My preference then is for an older woman who knows how to punish naughty boys.
ToriSlutCD
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Interesting to think about. At one point in my life, I was a dom and while not seeking the age difference, my sub's were all 20-30 years younger than me. I have since transitioned to being a sub, and my Domme is 20 years younger than I, and she has the experience to make it work for us both. Maybe my preference is for younger women in general, but I don't seek to find them, each of my last few partners found me when I wasn't even looking for a partner,
ToriSlutCD
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Interesting to think about. At one point in my life, I was a dom and while not seeking the age difference, my sub's were all 20-30 years younger than me. I have since transitioned to being a sub, and my Domme is 20 years younger than I, and she has the experience to make it work for us both. Maybe my preference is for younger women in general, but I don't seek to find them, each of my last few partners found me when I wasn't even looking for a partner,
sweetsinnndy
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I was involved in the lifestyle when I was a lot younger, so my Doms were always older. For me, a Dom should be older, but I'm sure I could make exceptions
tessera
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20 years seems too much younger for me. 10 years is ok, but mostly I like older women
annamarie234
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I am submissive. It does not matter the age or experience.
Guest
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Personally, as long as they can give me what I am wanting age does not really matter. If a 20-year-old wanted to Dom me (I'm 36) I'd be flattered. That said someone aged 56 with experiences that I do not have could also prove great fun.
Smoothmin
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I don't think age has anything to really do with it. As long as the person has the ability to get into your headspace. Being a sub and a dom is about control and submission in a loving manner.
subliminalmessage
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Quote by Peter242
Does the age of your dom matter to you? Would you feel at ease if your Dom was twenty years younger than you?


As long as they're old enough that I feel like they can safely and freely consent in a relationship, I'd dig serving a younger Dom/me. There's something super hot about it actually - age is supposed to confer this natural seniority, but they're so strong/i'm such a bitch none of that matters, I serve them regardless.

20 years defo too much for me though (i'm currently 35). I guess when I'm 45-50 though, more than happy to let an angry late-twenty something work through their issues ;)
Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...
Ravyn
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Quote by Olderfemalepredator4
It’s not the age it’s the attitude and knowledge. Some younger guys know their shit and what to do others do not. The ones that do are incredible lol


Exactly, its all about the knowledge and experience.
Oli_
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Age doesn't matter as long as the Dome knows about fireworks ;)
naughtysarah28
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I don't mind if they were younger or older. It has more to do with their attitude,i don't really mind if she's inexperienced as a Domme either. It's about the journey you make together as long as you both enjoy it, that's all that matters.
varv
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what difference does it make if you're submissive?
Guest
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I find it hard to take Dominant men my age or younger anywhere close to seriously. Men in their 30s is pushing it. I tend to gravitate to Dominant men in their mid 40s to late 50s.
sprite
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Quote by varv
what difference does it make if you're submissive?


a huge difference. just because you're a sub doesn't mean you don't have any say in who you're with. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

CymroEd
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By and large I would prefer someone closer to my age (60s) but I would happily consider someone 20 years younger if his personality was right
varv
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Quote by sprite


a huge difference. just because you're a sub doesn't mean you don't have any say in who you're with. smile

With whom? I agree with you here. But what does age have to do with it?