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Ever met a sex partner online?

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Wondering if anyone has ever met a sex partner online and later met in person? If so, what site, how old were You, how'd it work out, and do you regret anything? What kind of advice would you give to someone attempting to meet face to face?
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ive met more sex partners online than i should probly admit smile
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Yes at alt.com met 2 had sex with 1 & it was nice. However it was only A 1 night stand. I was 51, no regrets.Advice meet in A public place. Get to know each other & see what happens. Good Luck.i5gUmVyZIj0z8sv4
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Wondering if anyone has ever met a sex partner online and later met in person? If so, what site, how old were You, how'd it work out, and do you regret anything? What kind of advice would you give to someone attempting to meet face to face?

I think it's different for a guy and totally different for a gay guy. You should ask the girls.
Online hook ups have been common for gay and bi guys since the start of Gaydar, Grindr, A4A etc.
Some were good, some bad and a couple of no ways.
Advice? Be careful, be sure of what you want, buy your own drink and don't put it down.
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Yep .. well I thought I was in for damn hot sex but she just wanted me to tow her car to a local garage .. sighs .. I had showered put my Brut33 and best gladrags on and everything .. sooooooooooooooooo disappointed!.
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Yep .. well I thought I was in for damn hot sex but she just wanted me to tow her car to a local garage .. sighs .. I had showered put my Brut33 and best gladrags on and everything .. sooooooooooooooooo disappointed!.


I thought you had your bum 'manhandled' along the way?
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I thought you had your bum 'manhandled' along the way?


omg!! did she tell you that?!
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Loads, plenty of fish
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Met my husband online but it was originally just a 2 week sex vacation in Europe that turned into something more. Before that, I had met many playthings online.

I think it is very different for men and women and how they go about meeting someone from online. What I mean is, I think it tends to be more scary for women, or can be. I had so many exit strategies when I did it, and always public. I don't regret any of it, but I did learn as I went
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omg!! did she tell you that?!


Haha! I have an active mind.
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I have. Isn't that how the majority of romances/friends with benefits start these days?!
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I have. We had a FWB relationship originally. Decided that it was turning into something more and we are still together 13 years later.
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Almost all the guys that my fiance makes me fuck she found on the internet, idk where, but she gets up to date std checks and makes sure they are hung like a horse. We started off with just my good buddy Chris from HS and her taking turns with me, we decided to invite more and then there was ten. Now it has grown to 35 people and instead of passing me around one by one while maybe blowing a few, I'm dominated tied and gangfucked and love it!! If you wanna know about how it progressed to that or hear experiences message me
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One male encounter arranged with a guy I met online. Other than that, does booking escorts by email or through their website count?
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Absolutely. My favorite was a woman from Chicago (I'm in Texas) and we decided to meet in Vegas. Lots that could have gone wrong but turned out to be a great weekend.
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No
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Just once, in 2006. She was a Capital University sophomore I met through a MySpace local friends search. She only lived a few miles away from me when I lived in Columbus, so we agreed to meet at a Barnes & Noble, and hit it off immediately. We had sex the night we met, and she eventually became my younger sister's FWB too.
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Yes. Back in 1997 I met someone local on a Prodigy chat room. Remember that? Omg, it was dialup service and in order to have phone sex, we had to get offline. hahaha! Anyway, we did meet locally in a casual, public setting, but eventually met privately. We never really engaged in sex in any of our meetings, but came darn close.
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Yes... A few times and sometimes it actually worked out. Most of the women looking to meet men on the net are scammers so sorting through them can be very frustrating.

From what I understand it can be very dangerous, especially for women.

The internet can be a very dangerous place for a naive person.

You need to keep your guard up and never let your hormones rule your activities when it comes to meeting people.

All that being said... The women I've met from this site were largely sincere and although very cautious, seemed to be fairly honest and not scammers.

Craigslist is the sewer of the internet and probably the number one place to stay away from when it comes to meeting sexual partners or even selling or buying stuff.

Plenty of Fish is supposedly pretty good. A lot of the "dating" websites now require verification of who you really are so theoretically they're reasonably safe but I'd advise proceeding with caution. I have several male friends that met their spouses on the net and have had good experiences though.

I'm primarily looking for sex partners because my life is way too complicated for a significant other at this time in my life and very few women want sex and sex only. I work most of my waking hours so I don't have time for a lot of casual dating. I'm very up front with what I want (sex) and pictures I send and my avatar are really me.

Around here where I live the bar scene seems to be where most people meet for sex and casual relationships but I'm not a drinker and too well known to be seen out picking up sluts in bars.... LOL

Meeting people on the net is somewhat frustrating but my expectations aren't too high either so I just keep my guard up and proceed with caution.

Please people, especially women, be very careful but don't give up. The success stories aren't the ones that make the news. Sometimes it works out and you can filter out the people that aren't what you're looking for pretty well.

I'm rambling but this is a very tough and dangerous subject that requires a lot of thought and discretion.

I do have one question... Why do most people on Lush hide where they are and only divulge the country? What not at least the state? If someone is looking to meet someone it can be very helpful to at least know the state (in the US) you're in? Is it because most people here are interested in stories and fantasy? If so I get it but not disclosing the state you're in seems a bit over the top.
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I've met a few (okay okay, quite a few but I'm not telling you exactly how many, it's shameful) guys off different websites, the first when I was 17 and the last when I was 22. Some turned out to be okay, I had sex once with some and regularly for between 1-6 months with others. A couple turned out to be lying arseholes who looked nothing like their pictures, lied about their name, age, relationship status etc. and they didn't go anywhere. By far the most successful internet meet up was when I was 22, I met a guy off FetLife. 10 months after our first date he proposed, 6 months after that when I finished uni I moved in with him and 3 weeks after that we got married. We've been together for 2 years and 8 months and we recently started trying for our first child. Not what I was expecting when I joined FetLife but I'm not complaining smile
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No,I have never met any offline...There was one I would have met in a minute had the circumstances been right....
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I have not, mostly lovely flirting to this point
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Um...let me think....1, 2, 3, 4, 5, oh hell I've lost count....yes I have
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yes. Mixed results. One good and one not as goodl