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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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Always. It's a common courtesy. However, I make it a golden rule never to check out the Profile of a person I've started a conversation with, in any of the Chat rooms. I'll read it up afterwards (to see whether my mental assessment matched their own biog), but would never break off to take a peep at their Profile in mid-chat, as I think that would be a bit sneaky.
i always look at their profile and often ask friends about them ....

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Always. It's a common courtesy. However, I make it a golden rule never to check out the Profile of a person I've started a conversation with, in any of the Chat rooms. I'll read it up afterwards (to see whether my mental assessment matched their own biog), but would never break off to take a peep at their Profile in mid-chat, as I think that would be a bit sneaky.


wow! ... that is an interesting take on things... might try that ... ty [bh]

It's an absolute must for me! I don't have a lot of friends here, (maybe more enemies); but the ones I do have are all quality people. If someone doesn't take the time to do a profile I do not befriend them. I rarely go to chat rooms but if I should, a profile check is tops. I spend most of my times posting in the forums, if I get a friend request, again checking the profile to see if there might be a connection is what I do. If I ask someone to be a friend, again gotta look at that profile. Otherwise you never know who or what you're actually getting.
I already know the member before I forward my request to them....

After receiving a request..... I always look at their profile, which helps in decision making smile
I do. Because I expect the same... My usual thing is, I like to have a conversation via email a few times. Then become friends if we hit it off.
Always
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I always check people's profiles and then need to talk to them first before taking the next step. Good friends are important to me.
I don't accept or request unless I've chatted with someone privately or in chatroom whisper. And that would mean I always look at the person's profile.
I do I think it help making a decision to accept or to ask them to be a friend.
I typically don't look at the profiles of people who add me. It's just because my computer has a long process for going to someone's profile so I just accept and then delete the ones who don't have a profile picture or are creepy towards me over messages (unwarranted dick pictures, calling me a slut, etc).

I know I'm wrong in my approach but it is what it is
always a profile can say alot
Whether I am asking a member to be a friend or accepting a friends request, I always read the profile. I also read an authors profile before reading a story. How else would you know if you have something in common or at least common proclivities?
I always read profiles when I encounter folks on Lush or read their stories - I like to know who they are, where they're coming from, what interests we share, etc. - and especially before I would friend anyone
I not only look at the profile before asking but refer to it over and over in the course of my friendship. I know it could have lots of fibs in it, like a recent lady said she was 22, when we was at a bare minimum 30, but most of it is usually little glimpses into who the person is, and you can use it as a kind of jumping off point to get to know them better. I strongly advocate reading profiles. Oh yes, I have read many more profiles than I have friends. sometimes it can help you with others in these Forums/Fora.
Always always always, and then i also chat with him or her. I'm not a friend collector. My
Rarely. If it has more than four quotes and states im nice but if you mess w/ friends, I will go to bitch mode in less than 2 seconds, etc., etc., or I don't put up w/ drama...etc., etc., or those members that share lifetime stories on accounts...wow. then I don't bother at all w/ them.

They're clearly dramatic and want you to think they're nice.
Run

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I always look first!! Before asking
Absolutely every time
I should read Tori's. Could be interesting. Smile
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I usually look towards my common sense.
Yep look before adding
I will admit that I didn't used to but have changed this time around and want to look for people that share interests and who's stories I like. I just came back and most of the names on my list are gone, this time I want to do things better.
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I will admit that I didn't used to but have changed this time around and want to look for people that share interests and who's stories I like. I just came back and most of the names on my list are gone, this time I want to do things better.


Holy fuck, is that really who i think it is? Hey, Gabriel! been forever! where've you been hiding? smile you better be here to publish more stories! :)

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Every time, although even if it's basically blank, I still accept. The plus is when we have things in common.
Absolutely. Why bother if you don't have anything in common?
not looking at someones profile before befriending...
I always click on the profile....I'm kinda nosey that way. smile