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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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Guest
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I always read them, but some guys on here don't lol
Its just dumb when someone says how old are you, what do you do
For a living...lol it just makes them look stupid because its written on my profile you know.
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SoulToucher
Rookie Scribe
I always read profiles before I even try to chat with someone. Most of the time they don't answer back anyway lol
Loner_forever
Active Ink Slinger
I do read and I add if I think the person will be interestin in any way
jolander055
Active Ink Slinger
I always try to make sure i read their profile before i send or accept a friend request. It saves asking some of the basic questions and feeling like i dumbass.
curious3045
Active Ink Slinger
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stridepower
Advanced Wordsmith
I do read it because it gives me a sense of the person and that in turn enhances what we talk about. That being said, some folks write a damn long profile and whine a lot in it and that makes their profile depressing to look at.
Dolphinus
Active Ink Slinger
I just tend to read random profiles, just to see if I'm missing out on potential friends. I see that many people don't put much effort into theirs. I always like to chat to people before I add them. But I rarely even message people, also: I quite struggle to introduce myself, I'm often scared to make a bad impression.
SoulToucher
Rookie Scribe
I always read profiles then send a message and see if they would like to chat.
ToshLoveCC
Active Ink Slinger
I always take a look. Especially with funky shit going on online recently, I'd like to have an idea of who I am allowing to come closer to me. They need to have an account in good standing (posting, on for a few months.) They should reply to messages or at least chat with their friends. Don't just keep me on here for show.


Guest
Lurker
I look at the profile every time. I like to talk to the people I friend and how they express themselves is indicative of if there's anything we can share.
BiMarriedMomNY
Advanced Wordsmith
I definitely read all profiles to see if We have things in common
I am amazed as to what some people write and turned off immediately by some things, including, yet not limited to:
Someone who says they are married yet describes themselves as a lesbian
Someone who says they ate bi or lesbian yet posts a ton of cock pics
Turned off by a female who chooses 'slut' as their orientation
Any screen name that is offensive or derogatory
And anyone who posts net pics as their own. I mean really people, if you are going to steal someone's pics don't post pics if some porn model
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
I personally look at the profile every time. I prefer someone that takes the time to write something.
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
I personally look at the profile every time. I prefer someone that takes the time to write something.
Guest
Lurker
I'm keen on making sure I'm befriending the ' Right ' !! person , so I make it a point to read potential friend's request . Nonetheless , that does not ensure a successful friendship!! , unless there's this chemistry thing. Right ?!!!
MikeCa
Rookie Scribe
always, I love reviewing profiles and seeing what people are all about!! smile
Guest
Lurker
I always look at a persons profile
Guest
Lurker
I always look at them before talking to them or befriending them.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Always, always, always. It's one of my favorite things about Lush: discovery! I like to hear what we might have (or not have) in common.
Guest
Lurker
I do! How else will you know if you want to be friends with them?Lol
Guest
Lurker
I do. Its a great way to weed out the fakes
Dancewithme
Active Ink Slinger
I read their profiles carefully, read at least some of what they have written, and sometimes ask friends if they know the person to make sure my instincts are reasonable. Further, I know exactly what kinds of people I would like to know because I don't just want a long list of friends, but a list of good people I know I can keep at least some minimal connection with.
desertcat49
Rookie Scribe
I always look at a persons profile. There are to many weird things going on with the internet at least if someone takes the time to write a profile and especially post pictures of them self they maybe a little more legit. I realize that a profile maybe per bullshit but at least they took the time to write something. Do not want to friend a person until I know themm the profile being a good start.
Guest
Lurker
I can't imagine not looking at the profile. How they express themselves is often indicative of what, if anything, you can share with the person. Their various tastes, how open they are often is the motivation of wanting me to know that person.
Guest
Lurker
Well... some of the best folks I've met on Lush have next to nothing on their profiles!

I do take a look though most times, but the profile seldom factors in to whether or not I'd want to be Lush friends with someone. Bios are nice to read the first time, but they're pretty much static (save for minor updates) so they don't really matter. Sometimes, I go by comments on my/other stories, forum interactions or even the odd private chat... Ultimately, profiles are not the be all/end all when it comes to making Lush friends!
avrgblkgrl
In-House Sapiosexual
I always do, it's like looking through the peep hole before you open the door.
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Guest
Lurker
Profiles are totally true .... right????
Buz
The Linebacker
I've discovered many profiles read backwards reveal secret coded messages.