Most of the time I can take care of my needs pretty well - getting myself off a few times a day is par for the course. Sex is good when we have it, though. But sometimes that's just not enough - usually when I'm really stressed out over things. And lo - I'm not the only one stressed out this week, hubbs is too. But when he's stressed he can't have sex.
So - sex addict with a partner who cannot relax enough to have sex.
I'm going fucking insane! No amount of masturbation is helping me out - no thank you very much Mother Nature.
Anyone else? Surely I am not alone in this Desperate and Absolutely Unable department.
I share your pain (sadly not your pleasure). I'm going through another rough patch in my marriage and it has been a while. There is no substitute for a good hard fuck.
Try destressing your hubby, maybe a nice sensual massage. Then jump him!
It might stress him out again but at least you got your fuck.
Failing that, pay an escort. No emotions involved, just a hard, satisfying fuck.
@Milik: Soooo sorry to read of the implosion of your relationship. Ten years?
But 'meaningless sex' (various undefined categories) can have its brighter side. The joys of masturbation, aided by Lush images, can be a partial compensation. Though - as far as I know - Lush doesn't yet supply 'love on demand'!