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i have received many random friend requests and even send my own now and then....i think its a natural extension of having public profiles on here
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Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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Never randomly FRed, but often have based only on an interesting profile or Forum comment, nearly always with good results. I don't think I've ever unfriended anyone, other than inactive accounts.
Madam Carol
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I get random requests constantly. I look at their profile before okaying it.
Active Ink Slinger
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Quote by Green_Man
That's a shame. The ones I regret are the ones that disappear for no apparent reason, especially when think you've formed a special relationship.
Yes, especially those kind of 'special friends'.
WooHoo!!!! 27,000 views! Could I dare to hope for a famous story... 
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/the-runner.aspx
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/the-runner.aspx
Rainbow Warrior
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I look at their profiles to see if they're readers/commenters, or just flirts and friend collectors. If they're the latter and male, I usually ignore them. I pretty much add any female who asks for an add, and usually answer messages from everyone, unless they seem stupid/vulgar.
Primus Omnium
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Quote by Annamagique
Yes, especially those kind of 'special friends'.
You're so right. It's hard to decide if someone is special or not. Sometimes, just when you've accepted they really like you they drop you. For no reason that you're aware of. And you don't want to intrude, and ask why, because they must have had a good reason. Right? *sigh* Moving along here.
The Bee's Knees
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no, i don't accept random friend requests, nor do i send them. i send messages/private chat with people before i accept a request. if i send a request, there's nothing random about it. something about you struck me, your profile, a thread post, written piece etc. i send a private message first and spend time chatting with you before sending a request.
Say. Her. Name.
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Mysteria Dear
I accept maybe 1 in 5 requests. I always check their profile before I make a final decision.
My requirements are very clear and straight forward. Maybe some of them only speak limited English or do not read very well, in either case being friends is not easy.
If they just joined Lush, I may email them and restate my requirements.
But most of them end up in the ignore file.
My Goodness what a Butt.
I accept maybe 1 in 5 requests. I always check their profile before I make a final decision.
My requirements are very clear and straight forward. Maybe some of them only speak limited English or do not read very well, in either case being friends is not easy.
If they just joined Lush, I may email them and restate my requirements.
But most of them end up in the ignore file.
My Goodness what a Butt.
Active Ink Slinger
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Lady M, as you are well aware of I keep a very small circle of friends. I do this for a couple reasons; first off I am not online as much as I'd like to and I do not like ignoring my friends. Secondly, I find that bigger crowds bring bigger troubles - the whole "if you are friends with them then I can't be friends with you" playground games that are so rampant here. So keeping a small circle of friends prevents a lot of that.
When I do receive a FR, the first thing I do is check out the bio thoroughly. If it sounds like we may have something in common (besides "I love your stories"), then I might consider the request.
When I do receive a FR, the first thing I do is check out the bio thoroughly. If it sounds like we may have something in common (besides "I love your stories"), then I might consider the request.
Active Ink Slinger
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Quote by FirstBlush
Never a random request, no. I've sent PMs to some profiles that caught my attention, but will probably cease and desist as the batting average is even worse than the Red Sox, post All-Star break...
The Red Sox hitting is fine. The relief pitching....not so much.
Active Ink Slinger
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I haven't received a random friend request in quite some time. I'll check out their profile first and then decide. Since I don't hang out here like I did when I first joined I'm not a great friend I guess.
Advanced Wordsmith
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I am honest on my profile and so should the person wanting to friends be. A simple hi in the message won't cut it.
Lurker
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Many of the quality friends I've made here at lush were random. Agree with many other statements that a boiler plate first message likely gets ignored/deleted but something with a spark to get a conversation flowing is always appreciated. Finding some common interests happens via conversation so I see it somewhat as no different as just saying hello to someone in real life I don't know but I also realize there are some that send truly random and inappropriate openers that would never fly if in person - I know I've seen a few of those myself.