Your place or his/her place?

2 Mar 2014

Simple question :

Do you prefer to have sex at your place or at your partner's place?

Does it matter to you? Are you more comfortable at one specific place?

Feel free to discuss.

2 Mar 2014

This really had me smiling, it reminded me of the cheesiest line I ever said. The guy who I'm still in love with, had been talking with me for most of the evening at the nightclub that I worked at. As we were about to leave I said to him "Well we've got 3 choices, we go back to mine, back to your's or go home alone?"
He said "Well the last one's out!" Thank god!
Anyway, if I've just met them I always try to go to their place, if it doesn.t work out it's easy to leave. I don't enjoy the effort of getting rid of them without being rude.

2 Mar 2014

With myself, I'm situationally comfortable, meaning that I would feel most comfortable and respond well in my own space where I'm familiar.

That being said, it depends on when the urge to have sex takes place and where...if my place is ten minutes away and his is twenty five, we're going to my place! If we're already at his place, then I guess thats how the cards will fall. bates

2 Mar 2014

If I've never seen the guy's place before, then I prefer mine. At least I'm assured the sheets are clean, there will be toilet paper on the roll and the bathroom won't look like a swamp.

In a relationship, I don't care either way. Whatever works. Sometimes proximity is an issue if you don't live all that close to each other.

2 Mar 2014

Quote by Dancing_Doll
I prefer mine. At least I'm assured the sheets are clean, there will be toilet paper on the roll and the bathroom won't look like a swamp.

In a relationship, I don't care either way. Whatever works. Sometimes proximity is an issue if you don't live all that close to each other.

Well said and I agree.
Although when you go to the other persons place you can leave and not be in their presence when you want; whereas if they're at your its this awkward 'when is he/she going to leave, should i say something' situation.

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2 Mar 2014

Quote by AlexaFox

Well said and I agree.
Although when you go to the other persons place you can leave and not be in their presence when you want; whereas if they're at your its this awkward 'when is he/she going to leave, should i say something' situation.

Exactly! Do the deed and slip out while they're sleeping.
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6 Mar 2014

I prefer my place too, except if the girl/woman really prefers her own place, or if her place is closer to wherever we went out that evening.

When I'm at my place I have all the required setup/items to treat the lady as she deserves : food, drinks, condoms, accessories, etc. I feel more 'in control' too. My apartment is also like a small loft, with no clear separations between the rooms, so it's easy to switch between bed, sofa, kitchen table, etc.

Hell, if she's having lubrication issues, I even have my guitars nearby to help me. glasses8

6 Mar 2014

It's usually always a roll of the dice...

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8 Mar 2014

good question...

I actually don't mind... I think everyone likes to be at home.. comfort factor.. so I am happy to be at her place because it helps her relax ...

another thing.. I find it is easier to leave if things aren't going well.. rather than asking someone else to leave.. just me Embarassed

Your preference?