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So we all age but men start to decline in the erection department as we age. I have read about ED and erection dissatisfaction and I think I fall under the latter. Although when I see a really hot video I get very turned on and no problem other times it's work getting an erection but I do get there.

3 years ago I started cardio and now I just incorporated weights, I have also changed my diet, no more sugar or wheat or flour. I started eating better, I am hoping it improves things.

What is your experience?
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In OCTOBER I turned 53... (I'm STRAIGHT, (hear them laugh...) BUT SERIOUSLY I'm mostly straight...)

I'm STILL pretty okay in THE HARD DEPARTMENT, either ALONE or with a partner... I have no problem getting or maintaining an erection and indeed my recovery time is still within 15/25 minutes...

What I DO FIND is that MY EMISSION is less copious than once it was... (NO PORN STAR SPLASHES FOR ME NOW!!!)

I'm a VERY sexual person. I orgasm SEVERAL times a day, either alone OR with a partner.

I DON'T spend a lot of time thinking about it. It's something I DO, like eating or BREATHING...

I'n STILL as interested in sex in all its facets as I was when I was younger.

(Obviously PHYSICALLY I'm not as beautiful as once I was. THAT doesn't bother me overmuch and doesn't seem to bother my now occasional lovers... Perhaps they are just being kind? I don't think so... I HOPE not!!!)


Just RAMBLING, of course... But HOPE that helps???


xx SAF
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So we all age but men start to decline in the erection department as we age. I have read about ED and erection dissatisfaction and I think I fall under the latter. Although when I see a really hot video I get very turned on and no problem other times it's work getting an erection but I do get there.

3 years ago I started cardio and now I just incorporated weights, I have also changed my diet, no more sugar or wheat or flour. I started eating better, I am hoping it improves things.

What is your experience?



There is always Viagra. Let me tell you its a wonderful thing. You can have an erection for 4 hours. Not a bad thing. Giggles.

xo
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I am not 50 or over but I thinks it is always important to take care of ourselves. I like a lot what Stephanie mentions, gives us perspective of how great every age is.

In my case never thought about my penis or how it was in my 20's, 30's now kind of worried about how it will be in some years. Luckily, I am taking care with diet, exercise and meditation. And, Mysteria tip is great. I need to learn more about experimenting with that solution.
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I do consider myself fortunate in that I can get hard easily and maintain that hardness. The volume of ejaculate is less than my younger days and the force of ejaculating is less, but the feel of cumming is always amazing.
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I am 61. In pretty good shape
No real problems getting an erection. Although sometimes doesn't stay as hard as like
I have used Viagra. And it is great. Gets the hardest and can stay hard longer. And recoup time is shorter
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In OCTOBER I turned 53... (I'm STRAIGHT, (hear them laugh...) BUT SERIOUSLY I'm mostly straight...)


xx SAF



Mostly straight is NOT all straight.
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I’m mid 50s and no what you mean doesn’t work as well as it used to. But I’m diabetic as well and if my sugar is up my dick isn’t, well at least not without good stimulation and does not stay up as well ether.
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I am 61 and a diabetic and with time, my ED has gotten worse. I can still orgasm when I want; I just don't get hard. Viagra helps, but your cock does not work as it used. to. Go to your urologist and ask for a penis shot. That is right. Using an Insulin syringe, you inject this medication directly into you cock. Now before you run off screaming at the thought. This shot is a combination of hormones and is produced at compounding pharmacy near you. It does need a prescription. It is inexpensive, about $90 a vial, but last a long time. How would you or your lady like you remain blue steel hard for one to two hours? After you have orgasmed, you stay hard for your partner to continue to ride you hard, instant superstud.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
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I am 63 and a few years back had a bifemoral bypass. I was told a side effect was ED, and sure enough I am no longer as large and long as I was, nor with maintaining an erection for as long. However my lover enjoys the penetration for as long as we can, and if we cannot orgasm together, we just play till we do. Lucky me! And Im alive so the surgery worked!
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58 here started having ed problems 10 years ago. Would get there but wouldn't stay there. Went to doc and was told I have extreme low-t. He said he was surprised I didn't have problem years sooner because my balls are so under development. He said there's a link to having small penis with small balls. Put me on a gel working for a while. Now on the little pill works fine.
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51, a bit overweight, blood pressure and glucose a bit high (pre-diabetic at least). I can get it up but the desire to do so has become less frequent and strong. I know my testosterone was a bit on the low side when we checked once in the past so I'm going to get my doc to check it again when I see him later this month for my annual.
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73 still manage it but hardly any cum, had snip and now have prostate probs. still enjoy myself!!
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ONE OF THE THINGS I like MOST about this FORUM is that people feel free to comment so honestly...

It's actually quite gorgeous.

xx SF
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With my longtime wife, I occasionally suffer the disappointment of ED... But when I am engaged in something "taboo" - like sucking another man's cock, I find that I am nearly always iron hard and, usually, even after I cum, I maintain an erection that would have pleased me when I was in my 20s!!
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I'm 61 , had a snip when I was 29 and no problems with anything. It might take a minute or two longer to get hard but my wife appreciates me not rushing. She's a bit to get wet also, so it works out fine.
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I am 70+ and had ED long time. In addition wife gave up on sex after last child born (1976). Long story short, LUSH introduced me to new world of man and man sex - my life turned around. I recently made next step and starting going to glory holes in local porn store and sucked dicks. The pleasure from those sweet cocks in my mouth and me get to rub them and feel those heavy balls. But time too short and intimacy limited. Found answer last 2 weeks - craigslist. Man-to-man, romance or casual encounters, have given me new opportunities - day and night with wife not asking who or what when I go out.

I feel so intense when getting my arms around those thighs, sucking that dick, then breaking and kissing/hugging/stroking it, then taking that hard rod and deep throating it and letting my sweet lover guide me to how, and what he wants. I am so satisfied now and lots of opportunities but my first is the best and hope we can keep this bromance going a long time. No demands, no restrictions other than pleasure for each other.BwcZ6u1VKxHm3b9N
A determined person with perseverance can overcome many obstacles. They can, many times, perform better than those who are more intelligent, stronger and with better finances by determination and perseverance
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52 and have slowed down in the erection department. Used to get them so easy that it was embarrassing at times. Now I can still get them fairly easily but maintaining is much harder without constant stimulation. Doc gave me Viagra to try and just knowing that I have it has helped, but I haven't tried it yet.
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I am 60 and started having ED problems about 6 years ago it was not unexpected.
I have some unique complex health issues, so I use 1/2 dose of Viagra or about 50 mg
This has worked well for me and keeps me hard for as long as I need, even the next day I feel it

I am on TRT and do get very hard at night while sleeping and most morning I have wood.
Sadly my wife is not a morning person any more, it is good to keep the blood flowing to you penis.
Erections are like like exercise for your penis and I am lucky it does it nightly.
Old in chronological age. But young at heart and desire.
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My man-friend is out of town for way too long. I have found playmates though at 2 local Adult Bookstores. Somedays are more active than others. Have had one day I got 6 loads at glory holes, yesterday was not a good day. Too many guys waiting not enough rooms. Stayed an hour no one wanted to feed me a dick, all wanted to suck. Left and came home to jack off to porn on websites.
A determined person with perseverance can overcome many obstacles. They can, many times, perform better than those who are more intelligent, stronger and with better finances by determination and perseverance
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Turning after 55, was hard for for me as the erections became less and also as hard as I used to. Still get a good hard on now and then but not fully hard anymore. I still do have a full ejaculation still without getting fully,hard
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I have to say I thought i was ahead of schedule in this, but it seems like I'm starting to have troubles at about the same time as everyone else. I'm turning 56 soon. I started having problems about 54. Then an injury at 55 has really caused problems. I've used Cialis, and before the injury regained size and hardness. I also still orgasm, but the emissions have lessened quite a bit.
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I'm 61, and have no problem getting rock hard boners, but what I've noticed is that, if distracted (like when putting on a condom) it tends to start deflating, but I can still get it back. When I was younger, my hardons would stay put no matter what.

This is basically why trying to have "chat/IM sex" doesn't really work for me.

I hope this pic of me is okay to post here...
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Dealing with ed for first time in life.52 in cpl months.Up till 6 months ago I could get hard hugging wife. I use to go 3 rounds with ease no recovery needed. Have performed in front of 6 or 7 women. Never had issue.

To all who do not congrads. Take my advice and if you find something you like to maintain sexual health DO IT. Im working on natural cures and getting script for meds till then. NOT being able to fuck my hot little wife is killing me.

I do still have good size loads just they are coming out of soft cock.
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63 & in good shape & eat right. With a familiar lover and slow love making its not been a problem. But, I also enjoy threesomes and groups and got tired of not being hard on short notice or with folks I'd recently met. Got a script for the generic of Viagra & low doses will do the trick. Never taken more than 60mg & some evenings as little as 20mg will do. usually morning sex does not require medication.

Oldest encounter I've had is with a man who claimed age 77. He was a little slow to become fully aroused, but was able to get stiff and squirt a full load. He had a athletic build, no spare tire at all & decent skin. A couple women were ages 59 & 60 & were in good condition as well, even if the breasts and other parts sagged. Both had a sexy attitude and we had some great fucking and other sex.
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51 mwm waiting appointment to get prescription for Viagra. rAlso doing TON of research on natural cure. LOTS of info out check "ED treatment home remidies".

There is also research that too much porn can cause issue. Guess I need to drop this site also. Everyone gripes about cost of Viagra but after trying it,who cares it gives me ablity to fuck wife 4 rounds like when we met ten years ago.She said hell she would pay for it if need be.
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....She said hell she would pay for it if need be.


Que the song 'Aint Nobody Got Gal Like Mine'.
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70+ here. Fit and (so far) no major surgery. Cum nice loads, though my 'recovery time' is now at least four hours, which can be a tad frustrating if you're having a sexy session with another guy. I've never done poppers or tried Viagra. Any advice?
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63 here. All I need is my Viagra and a lady clad in nylons,garter and heels.
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I use Cialis. Makes Viagra look like aspirin. I found a good on line pharmacy. (requires a legit prescription)