Yes.
(If you're in a relationship, and it's not an open relationship, then cheating is just that...)
I've got an ex-girlfriend who I really like, (though we weren't ever meant to be together) who recently contacted me to arrange a no-thang, sexual get together...) It seems her boyfriend of two years, while being very good to her in other ways, simply doesn't fuck her very often, we talked, it can be weeks!!!!!!
But though I'D LOVE TO FUCK HER AGAIN, I just can't..... It doesn't feel right...... We spent the night cuddling in a hotel room and talked about it..... And she can't understand why I'd fuck her twice a day and he hardly ever does, but she DOES love the guy and....... And it was both intimate and hellish...... I bathed her and we laughed and drank and fussed a lot..... And talked...... And I'm not stupid enough to think that it's just the attention she misses, (we spent the day in the city and went to an art gallery and then went to dinner before falling back into the room I had booked...) she DOES miss the sex, misses being wanted, FRANTICALLY, misses being looked at like that.......
But fucking her (and I WANT to) would be wrong for me...... And I don't know why........
Advice, please.......
(Have I just Hi-Jacked a thread?????)
xx SF
cheating is just a way out of something u dont have the guts to say it's over...
if you need more sex and they say no...u either stay and deal with fact that your sex drives does not match or leave
is sex or love more important...only u can asnwer that...and if u say sex..u are NOT a bad person
having been in a sexless realtionship it sucks...people down play sex..but to me..sex is a part .. BIG part of love...those who say it is not..are not the ones begging for the sex
so be in an open thing if u want to cheat....
to stephanie...u answered your own question...u feel it is wrong to cheat....so u will not
no matter how much u want and enjoy this person.
so the person you want... needs to fish or cut bait...stay in... and realize your vibrator is going to be your best friend... or jump in to something new
I hope they cut bait...for you....
best of luck honey
If one is married, engaged or in a committed monogamous relationship it is cheating.
It sounds like you're trying to justify your temptations to yourself, and are looking for support here, sadly i dont think you're gonna find any lol.
And i dont really see what the difference is between casual sex and an open relationship, i think they are both the same, as far as im concerned an open relationship is between two people who dont quite like each other enough.
I think I posted this on another thread, but if I didn't I should have,,and if I did, it bears repeating. ANYTHING you have to hide from your partner, be it wild, bouncing off the walls and ceiling sex, or just stopping off after work for a cold one with a co-worker, or even THINKING about doing those things, is cheating. The bottom line is, if you and your partner have not previously discussed and agreed it is okay, or if you feel any ned to cover it up or hide n any way from your partner, then it is cheating. Honesty and respect are of paramount importance in a relationshiip.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
Just had an idea on this question.....
If Your Wife had written this post, how would you reply?
xx SF
If your other half did the samething, would you regard it as cheating? Then same answer to your question.
