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Do people really fall in love on lush?
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Anything is possible.
I don't think there is a right or wrong answer.
Although not here on Lush I did "meet" a g/f in a chat room but it wasn't until we actually met in real life that things moved on from just a friendship. Unfortunately, things didn't work out in the long term, but that is life!
Chatting on Lush you can "fall in love" with someone's mind and enjoy their banter and chat. You can "connect" with them and have feelings for them. And that can lead to better things, either a long term friendship or even more. Certainly the time zones make things difficult but if you can over come them, then anything is possible.
It is important though that both parties are brutally honest with each other. Stating the obvious, it takes time to get to know someone and there is no such thing as "love at first sight" in a chat room.
Some of the things that go on in a chat room are mere fantasies and there are people, who for whatever reason, struggle to differentiate between real life and fantasy.
So long as you have "your head screwed on right" and don't confuse the two, then I say go for it, if the two of you are in accord.
Although not here on Lush I did "meet" a g/f in a chat room but it wasn't until we actually met in real life that things moved on from just a friendship. Unfortunately, things didn't work out in the long term, but that is life!
Chatting on Lush you can "fall in love" with someone's mind and enjoy their banter and chat. You can "connect" with them and have feelings for them. And that can lead to better things, either a long term friendship or even more. Certainly the time zones make things difficult but if you can over come them, then anything is possible.
It is important though that both parties are brutally honest with each other. Stating the obvious, it takes time to get to know someone and there is no such thing as "love at first sight" in a chat room.
Some of the things that go on in a chat room are mere fantasies and there are people, who for whatever reason, struggle to differentiate between real life and fantasy.
So long as you have "your head screwed on right" and don't confuse the two, then I say go for it, if the two of you are in accord.
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Met someone here and fell madly in love and that was not the intention when I first joined this site. What we experienced was love, lust, and desire unlike anything I've ever experienced. I have no regrets that we met and fell in love, but I regret how it ended and why it did.
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I would imagine people have and will continue to do so although its not something I could see myself doing as I prefer to hold people at arms length, its all too easy to be deceived on the internet .
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I would imagine people have and will continue to do so although its not something I could see myself doing as I prefer to hold people at arms length, its all too easy to be deceived on the internet .
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Yes, love is no respecter of persons, circumstances, locations, status nor, as I now believe, people's sex. Love is a shared emotion - sometimes strong, other times not so strong, and many times...diminishes to nil - look at divorce stats these days.
Why not on Lush sharing common interests and, many times, soul-bearing facts with others that our (supposedly) closer know nothing about? What is love but shared passion for another that is returned and don't we share passion and try to meet the needs of our playmates?? I feel I do, or try to.
Also, love has degrees and nuances so there is love on and in Lush! I am positive
Why not on Lush sharing common interests and, many times, soul-bearing facts with others that our (supposedly) closer know nothing about? What is love but shared passion for another that is returned and don't we share passion and try to meet the needs of our playmates?? I feel I do, or try to.
Also, love has degrees and nuances so there is love on and in Lush! I am positive
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YES! i honestly don't know why ppl are surprised with the prospect of falling in love here. REAL ppl are on either side of the screen. NOW, the REAL question is how authentic said "love" is. while i totally believe that you can fall in love here, i believe it is rather rare. what i've observed is a lot of infatuation. quite easy to confuse the two...
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YES! i honestly don't know why ppl are surprised with the prospect of falling in love here. REAL ppl are on either side of the screen. NOW, the REAL question is how authentic said "love" is. while i totally believe that you can fall in love here, i believe it is rather rare. what i've observed is a lot of infatuation. quite easy to confuse the two...
I like what you say about hoe we are all real people on either side of the screen. Yes, I think you can fall in love here (I have, to be truthful), but it is sort of love lite, a dress rehearsal for the real thing. Rough edges get smoothed over, so it is an edited version of reality. You never, for instance, accidentally knock your lover in the eye with your elbow during lush-based sex
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Yes..Why not..there is a real heart and soul on the other side of the screen
some people do have a hard time remembering that though..and just play with peoples feelings and emotions without realizing they are causing harm..
but I believe its VERY possible..We are all here for a reason..a journey..and for some at the end of the path is love.
some people do have a hard time remembering that though..and just play with peoples feelings and emotions without realizing they are causing harm..
but I believe its VERY possible..We are all here for a reason..a journey..and for some at the end of the path is love.
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Yes..Why not..there is a real heart and soul on the other side of the screen
some people do have a hard time remembering that though..and just play with peoples feelings and emotions without realizing they are causing harm..
but I believe its VERY possible..We are all here for a reason..a journey..and for some at the end of the path is love.
I could not have said it better.
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Yes!
People can fall in love here but the bad part you love can be really far away from you. Or you can lost her with really easy mistake.
People can fall in love here but the bad part you love can be really far away from you. Or you can lost her with really easy mistake.
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Yep, I believe it takes a certain dynamic but yes it can happen.
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Yes..Why not..there is a real heart and soul on the other side of the screen
some people do have a hard time remembering that though..and just play with peoples feelings and emotions without realizing they are causing harm..
but I believe its VERY possible..We are all here for a reason..a journey..and for some at the end of the path is love.
Yes I truly believe you can fall In Love on Lush... I have and I am "In Love"...Nothing could be more real to me ,then what Olderguy41 and I have.
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Isn't unheard of on here
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Ahhh love on lush... Mmmmmm...
hey yes but very few are genuine mostly are players they use others as their passtime when they are bored and use as fucktoy and throw away...i saw my most beautiful friend being hurt so badly...i wish i could hurt someone but she stopped me !! right that person is not worth it
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yes but very few are genuine mostly are players they use others as their passtime when they are bored and use as fucktoy and throw away...i saw my most beautiful friend being hurt so badly...i wish i could hurt someone but she stopped me !! right that person is not worth it
I have to agree with you there sad but true.
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yes but very few are genuine mostly are players they use others as their passtime when they are bored and use as fucktoy and throw away...i saw my most beautiful friend being hurt so badly...i wish i could hurt someone but she stopped me !! right that person is not worth it
Do you have that experience only here on Lush or in real life as well. Cause to me that doesn't sound like something specific to Lush.
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yes but very few are genuine mostly are players they use others as their passtime when they are bored and use as fucktoy and throw away...i saw my most beautiful friend being hurt so badly...i wish i could hurt someone but she stopped me !! right that person is not worth it
Hey youAh she stopped you? Well, she didn't stop me. Tell me who that person is, let me do it on your behalf
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Do I think you can fall in love here on Lush.. Most diffidently.. But do I think you can get hurt just as easy.. Most diffidently.
Be careful of sheep in wolfs clothing. (Think that is how the saying goes)
I dont think people stop to realize there is a real person on the other side of the screen with a heart that hurts. I think alot of people here are players. they play with your heart till they get tired ,throw you away and move to the next person.
Lush is a fun place and I love it. But very easily to be fooled.
Be careful of sheep in wolfs clothing. (Think that is how the saying goes)
I dont think people stop to realize there is a real person on the other side of the screen with a heart that hurts. I think alot of people here are players. they play with your heart till they get tired ,throw you away and move to the next person.
Lush is a fun place and I love it. But very easily to be fooled.
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I like what you say about hoe we are all real people on either side of the screen. Yes, I think you can fall in love here (I have, to be truthful), but it is sort of love lite, a dress rehearsal for the real thing. Rough edges get smoothed over, so it is an edited version of reality. You never, for instance, accidentally knock your lover in the eye with your elbow during lush-based sex
Very well said.
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Rainbow Warrior
I've fallen in love with girls on other sites, but not on Lush. I'm sure many others have though. Even though I state clearly on my profile that I'm more into girls than guys, the lesbians and bi-sexual women here on Lush never seem to contact me - only the guys do! lol
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Umm I think we are talking about on Lush
I know we are. I just wondered whether her experience was unique to Lush or not.
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Clumeleon
Real love on Lush?
(Just kidding. I know people have found real love here. I just love a good meme.)
(Just kidding. I know people have found real love here. I just love a good meme.)
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Ah she stopped you? Well, she didn't stop me. Tell me who that person is, let me do it on your behalf
Ahem! I have a list of "bad" people on lush , you want to hurt them for me ?
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yes - and potentially hurt as well. Especially with long distances 