Active Ink Slinger
Yes, but we came from different worlds and he was still deciding on the married woman he was involved with on and and off and I lost interest and married somebody else.
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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
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Active Ink Slinger
Yes, but we came from different worlds and he was still deciding on the married woman he was involved with on and and off and I lost interest but who knows?
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, but we came from different worlds and he was still deciding on the married woman he was involved with on and and off and I lost interest but who knows?
Active Ink Slinger
Yes. I still think about her. She's married and happy though. Can't ask for more than that.
Drink. Smoke. Fuck. Live!
Active Ink Slinger
Yep, head over heels for a woman I can't have as much as she's in love with me. If we could make it happen it would be the bringing together of two people tailor-made for each other. But unfortunately, after 3 and a quarter years, I'm kind of resigned to it never happening and I'm stuck with the fantasy of the perfect world that is just beyond my reach. It sucks, but I love her and she knows it and knows I'll always be there for her no matter what. Her happiness is paramount to me and I'll sacrifice what I have to just to see her smile.
Active Ink Slinger
kinda/sorta there now...oh so close to the edge.
Active Ink Slinger
I had him but we were both married and no way to turn our love into a long term relationship. I still miss him, but have great memories of him in and out of bed
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, many times. What happened? Depends on which one you want to know about. Most of the time though I realized over time there was someone else and I was just being played. Other times, I was not good enough. There are many other outcomes. Usually I move on.
I have, twice in my life. I think it depends on how much you are around them and if they are a good friend. If you are in regular contact with them then, that in my opinion is the worst, as you are constantly reminded of what you can't have and what will never be. Yet also you don't want to stop being friends with them.
It can be maddening at times. My advice would be to let them know how you feel. Even if it goes bad and they tell you no at least you have closure and can be safe in the knowledge that you tried, no matter the outcome.
It can be maddening at times. My advice would be to let them know how you feel. Even if it goes bad and they tell you no at least you have closure and can be safe in the knowledge that you tried, no matter the outcome.
Advanced Wordsmith
+1 to the post above me -
I think it depends on how much you are around them and if they are a good friend. If you are in regular contact with them then, that in my opinion is the worst, as you are constantly reminded of what you can't have and what will never be. Yet also you don't want to stop being friends with them.
It can be maddening at times. My advice would be to let them know how you feel. Even if it goes bad and they tell you no at least you have closure and can be safe in the knowledge that you tried, no matter the outcome.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes but depends on what you mean by cannot "have" I was in love and had an affair with someone i knew i could not have any permanence with
Advanced Wordsmith
feels like falling in quick sand
yes....looks at the floor.. my nails.. my water bottle..
closes my eyes so I don't start to cry.
I feel tears coming on...oh fuck....
they never fucking end.
salty hot
they stain my cheeks permanently and everyone can see my sadness.
come back to me lover..please I miss you so.
is it really so hard to do?
closes my eyes so I don't start to cry.
I feel tears coming on...oh fuck....
they never fucking end.
salty hot
they stain my cheeks permanently and everyone can see my sadness.
come back to me lover..please I miss you so.
is it really so hard to do?
Active Ink Slinger
yes, and still love him until now...
Active Ink Slinger
what else is new? honestly.....it is so much easier to fall in love than to fall out of love with someone.....or at least that is my experience....there is someone here I am in love with but can never have right now......
Advanced Wordsmith
Many, many times. Some are forever out of reach, some are gone forever... but all are remembered longingly.
Just keep wallowing in your own chaotic insecure delusions.
Active Ink Slinger
Yeah and because i can't have them - it makes me want them more!!
Yes, I'm a child!!
Yes, I'm a child!!
Active Ink Slinger
Yes he was my best friend and he was in another state and i was married so that wasn't going to happen even though i wanted it to for a long time! That was a long time ago! He is married now and he has 2 kids and he is happy that is all i have ever wanted for him!
Believe in yourself and all things are possible