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Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?

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Quote by lifeafterdeath
Yeah, I have. Fell out of it though, person wasnt what I thought they were.

Thats it..YEAH
LASARDaddy
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Yeah, I have, several times. I fall in and out of lust a lot but I recognize that. I just like women, pretty much all of them but those that match my "Filter Image", the look I'm always drawn to is very strong. It's my first real love, a cousin I've loved for 56 years and I can never have. All have resembled her and dumb things like skin color have never mattered.

A friend here has introduced me to the concept of polyamory and it's amazing. I've always thought I couldn't do that but I've discovered I always have, I just never allowed myself to. I couldn't conceive of loving 2 people at a high level. Thank you for that.

Now I have another that I can't say how I feel to or let to close because I still have a commitment I must live with. I never commit lightly.
I am always a gentleman.
CunningLinguist143
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Quote by stephanie


The key word here being "Love"......

Only twice.....

In College I fell heavily for the girlfriend of a really good friend of mine... He was studying Medicine and was frequently very busy... They married and she moved to where we lived and I ended up keeping her company while he was busy... We used to go to Art Galleries and Foreign movies and stuff... I adored her, and I know that she liked something about me.....

On one rather drunken afternoon, (why am I telling you this) we undressed and sat on the edge of the bed in my apartment...... She took off a plaid miniskirt as I remember.... And I remember... I wanted her, I seriously wanted her and I did, (I still do) love her.....

And I couldn't...... And in truth she couldn't.... It simply wasn't right..... So we hugged and we cried a bit and we didn't... And eventually we re-dressed like people in a bad play..... Awkward and innocent.....

(My GOD!!!!! Was that 20 years ago????!!!!????)

We see each other occasionally to this day..... I smoke, she doesn't...... Every time I go for a smoke at parties she follows and we talk..... She's happy and I love her still..... I'll be honest with you guys, usually I have a different girl when we share these soirees.... Usually, given my job, a younger girl....

She, (my mate's wife) always "tsk, tsks" at me like I'll never learn..... And tells me she's happy.... And I believe her..... And I love her still.....

(She's almost 50 now..... Still as beautiful as ever......)

The Second One.......

Do you know what....... ?

Let me just think about the first one for a while..... (Sigh!)

xx SF






That was lovely and poetic; a story was set in motion in my imaginary. =d>


If ever you sleep with the same one twice, you've sold your soul at the establishment price.
justalilfun
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I think the question should maybe read, 'When was the last time you fell for someone you could not have?'
Everyone does at some point in their life.
Mikeyto_96
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Yes, and it hurts that I can't be with her.
Candylips1960
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Yes haven't we all at one time or another
psychiee
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what a silly question ... is the Pope catholic?
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Sure have. But I'll try not to write a melancholic poem about it, ha ;) x
Magical_felix
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Sure have. But I'll try not to write a melancholic poem about it, ha ;) x


This is probably the most considerate thing I have ever read.
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Sure have. But I'll try not to write a melancholic poem about it, ha ;) x




I told you, as soon as you come to Florida, you can have me ;)
LikeJagger
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Yup, sadly.
Rawr, I'm a dinosaur. :3


(Check out my stories, babies xox)
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yes - twice, once with a girl from my high school, we never could get in synch between marriages, divorces, travel - and again later with a woman at work but we both had families and jobs that would have been turned upside down.
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Yes there is a woman on the fire department with me... we are great friends. .. we are both married (obviously not to each other) I am in love with her, more than my wife.
ChuckEPoo
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This hits home. I have a very loving relationship,with a girl that loves me like no other in my life. We are compatible in so many things that we can finish each other's sentences. She is the first woman that I have ever felt this strong about. But and it is a big but, we probably will not marry. There is a thirty year age gap. I could resign the woman I love to spending her peak years with an old man.
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I just blocked you.


Bad kitty.
Evie
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Many times. It's always a sort of relief to fall out of love when you can't have what you want. Then there's the memory of what could never be, a dull ache in the chest where before it was a tempest. And you move on, an extra mark on your weathered heart.
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Only a couple of times, but the desire, the feeling, the hopelessness... So difficult to get through. On one occasion, fell in love with someone who I couldn't have but saw her every day. Torture!
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Yes, quite a few years ago & due to my work I moved to another city. I then realized how much I missed him....we lost contact...in my online research it seems he passed away.
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Yes. Her name is Tiffany. I love her and I have for years. Sad
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Tens of thousands of times. Hasn't everyone? I thought it was a pretty universal experience.
xXMister_TXx
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almost exclusively that's why I'm single since 6 years
kitty40
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Yes I did. It was best that it didn't work out for us. I realized that after my heart was ripped out. But you love, learn and move on. Hugs to anyone who has dealt with it.
Dancewithme
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Quote by RavenStar
Many times. It's always a sort of relief to fall out of love when you can't have what you want. Then there's the memory of what could never be, a dull ache in the chest where before it was a tempest. And you move on, an extra mark on your weathered heart.


This somehow rang true with me. Thank you RavenStar.
SirDominic
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Yes and I'm still paying for it. Can see all the greatness with none of the risk. Truth is the wake up call no one wants.
Someone has to be the Villain
OldDog_BlackHeart
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I agree with many of those before me. It happens to all of us at one time or another. Sometimes multiple times. And yes It does suck. Like the song goes "Love hurts" & It's times like that when I find the Big head arguing with the Little one. Unfortunately the Big head wins that argument too often. However the heart wants what the heart wants. That's Life.