Active Ink Slinger
Dude... it's all part of growing up.... do it soon bud and move on..
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I need to vent my anger and sadness.
Active Ink Slinger
What can I say. Life is strange and sometimes things are just meant to happen. I think that you need to look at life like this. Life is a series of events. Each event, and decision you make involves what is known as 'opportunity costs' and 'opportunity benefits'. For example splitting up involves the feelings of loss because of the love that you had and the happiness you would had gained by being together. The opportunity benefits are that you are able to make new relationships which may, in time, prove to be better than what you had. But remember that it easy to forget that there were two people involved in your situation. Yes it may be tempting to gloat if her decisions have resulted in her being in a worse situation than yourself, and feel anger when her situation improves, but you need to move on and treat her with respect no matter how badly she has treated you. I know so many women (my friends) who have gone through really nasty break ups and it would have been better for both parties if they had just dealt with it like mature adults, rather than squabbling children. My ex left me for another man two years back. We talked for days about the reasons why and agreed that it was time for us to move on. We are still friends now. She has settled down with her new man and is truly happy (and I'm pleased for her). I myself had the freedom to enjoy my single life and have had some wonderful times that would never had happened if we had stayed together.
I wish you good luck and happiness.
K
I wish you good luck and happiness.
K
i happened to run across a thread of yours about cybering from july. it said you loved it and would do that and phone sex anytime. and the post did not sound like it was only with your girl. and im making the assumption that it was not with permission from her.
my point is that if you were here cybering and phone sexing im not really sure you can cry too much about your girl dumping you.
my point is that if you were here cybering and phone sexing im not really sure you can cry too much about your girl dumping you.