Im dating a girl, and we're having a kid together. Im into strapon/feminization and such but she just likes normal stuff, straight as an arrow, regular sex. Is there anyway i can get her into the mentality to fuck me like the sissy girl i am? its not a deal breaker but i just love variety in life and she doesnt, i would love to get her to open up to it.
do we get banned for self bumps?
This is a verrrry particular kink that a lot of women are not going to feel comfortable with... even the sexually adventurous types.
For one, it requires that she's either a domme or a switch personality. If she's a submissive, she's not going to be able to pull this off, nor will she have any interest in it. And even in the case of a switch... you might be out of luck.
I don't really have any good advice for you other than talking to her about it, giving her time to warm up to the idea (if she ever does) and maybe watching some of that kind of porn with her and seeing if it sparks an interest.
I think the 'feminization' bit is going to be the most difficult hurdle to overcome. Personally I'd start with trying to warm her up to the idea of strap-on sex first and as she gets comfortable with that, you can progress slowly from there. If you start telling her you want full on strap-on/humiliation/feminization, she's probably going to feel overwhelmed and/or freaked out. I know I would.
let her prepare to try new things, better you expose her into it just present a porn video that you want to do with her
shes kind of coming around a bit on trying new things in general and shes a little stern when it comes to some things like she likes to control when i get off and if theres and solo masturbation so there may be hope for her otherwise i guess ill have to stick to the solo shower idea;)