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roymunson101
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Quote by SereneProdigy


The way you didn't refute any of my assertions and took them so much at heart makes me suspect that they were in fact quite accurate. The truth hurts, doesn't it?

If you're any curious, there are plenty of people in my life who mean a whole lot to me; I've never been dumb or desperate enough to fall in love with a cyber-stranger who doesn't give a flying fuck about me, however.

Besides, what was the point of this thread if you've already moved on? Were you only awaiting well-intentioned people to invest their precious time on your past afflictions, just so that you could receive a hefty dose of cyber-attention? That's kinda fucking low, don't you think?




SereneProdigy
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All I want to know, is how does someone miss a birthday three times a day? Genuinely, I don't understand what that means. Do you have three birthdays all on the same day?


Haha, the exact same line made me struggle quite a bit too. Her sentence:

The last straw that broke all the while i known her She missed my birthday 3 times a day that is important to anyone right.


Should be read as:

The last straw that broke all the while I've known her: she missed my birthday 3 times, a day that is important to anyone right?
SereneProdigy
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One cannot receive any more attention than the attention that's deliberately offered to him, genius.

Besides, I don't recall ever exploiting my personal sorrows to bring any attention to myself, so it appears your disgruntled and blinkered mind completely missed the point.

Besides, I haven't noticed any of your bitter remarks in nearly 3 years, was there anything in particular within my previous post that hit close to home?

Besides, you should give seminars on how to embarrass yourself without even having to pronounce a single word.
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One cannot receive any more attention than the attention that's deliberately offered to him, genius.

Besides, I don't recall ever exploiting my personal sorrows to bring any attention to myself, so it appears your disgruntled and blinkered mind completely missed the point.

Besides, I haven't noticed any of your bitter remarks in nearly 3 years, was there anything in particular within my previous post that hit close to home?

Besides, you should give seminars on how to embarass yourself without even having to pronounce a single word.




I used a picture, because I knew English would confuse you. I give up.
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Haha, the exact same line made me struggle quite a bit too. Her sentence:

The last straw that broke all the while i known her She missed my birthday 3 times a day that is important to anyone right.


Should be read as:

The last straw that broke all the while I've known her: she missed my birthday 3 times, a day that is important to anyone right?




Ah... punctuation makes the world go round!
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When it comes to affairs of the heart all of the sanity and rules go out the window. You know you are a fool for being played but you cant help being there for lexi..... The day will come when your heart says enough. No more. Time to move on... but until that day comes you will be a victim to what your heart desires no matter how foolish it makes you look.
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I see this post come across the Home Page "Latest Forum Post:" ticker from time to time and get curious about the responses.
I would say you are not a fool or an idiot. The heart aches to be needed as well as to give.
I would have never thought that I could get caught up in what I've learned to be called "An Affair of the Heart".
Although I've never been married I am in love with a special guy. During that time I discovered Lush.
I met someone here (Lush) that at first was just a messing around with kind of thing.
I found myself thinking about this person all the time. Admittedly I did have a friend that warned me not to get emotionally involved.
Unfortunately this advice came after the Heart Fell in Love. It was painful as it fell apart but here's the advice.
Remember where you are and never lose the focus of reality. My experience was a valuable lesson for me. As I went through
the accusations of being a fake, I had to do a reality check and consider that I also do not really know what is on the other side of the screen.
So hold your head high here girl, you've done nothing wrong.
I have met and hope to continually meet new and exciting people here. This is not the place to find what I call "Your Real World Love".

Just my thoughts
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I used a picture, because I knew English would confuse you. I give up.


Pfft....English and pictures confuse him.
You should first read this Looky Here!!

and then this Free stuff

then say 'Hi'
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You're obsessed and there is a cure for that, it's called *MOVING THE FUCK ON*. Ain't no good in breaking your head over someone whose toying with your emotions.
roymunson101
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Quote by SereneProdigy


One cannot receive any more attention than the attention that's deliberately offered to him, genius.

Besides, I don't recall ever exploiting my personal sorrows to bring any attention to myself, so it appears your disgruntled and blinkered mind completely missed the point.

Besides, I haven't noticed any of your bitter remarks in nearly 3 years, was there anything in particular within my previous post that hit close to home?

Besides, you should give seminars on how to embarrass yourself without even having to pronounce a single word.




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Quote by Blue_Eyed_Lady
Name one time someone meant something to you.


SereneProdigy, although I do not presume to know him aside from what he has posted previously in other threads, is IMHO quite astute in his assessment of your situation. I am sure that he has had someone--a "real" someone, someone offline, not an online "friend"--mean something to him, to paraphrase your statement. To dismiss his opinion and advice, which you actively solicited, out of hand because he is male and/or because it is does not match whatever opinion/advice it is you were hoping to receive, is rather foolish in and of itself.

As to your situation, "Lexi" and your relationship with/to her may well have seemed real to you, but from what I've read, your relationship with her was solely through Lush; you never spoke on the phone with her, never spent physical time with her, never did any of the things that would, in the definition of most, fall under the umbrella of "dating" each other. I can count on one hand the number of people on Lush with whom I have forged true relationships with--all platonic--and in each case, at the very least, we talk (as in, by phone) or text or whatever on a regular, frequent basis outside of Lush.

It is an unfortunate truth, but you "met" someone here, you idealized her, and you ascribed feelings to her that she clearly did not feel and clearly did not reciprocate. SP's advice to "move...on" is sage, and you would do well to heed that advice.

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LOL.

"My friend appears to be in distress...I'd better exalt myself."


LOL. Having received an FR myself from the referenced member, his standards for choosing a "friend" seem to be fairly lax: if you are female and of fair complexion, you automatically qualify for a friend request. Bonus points and really long private messages are "awarded" for having written something he found to be arousing.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
The difficulty you're experiencing is emotional investment. You've spent (perhaps wasted) 4 years of your life on this person, only to come to a realization that you've been duped. It's always difficult to let go of anything you have so much investment in, but the ability to just let go is a trait of emotional maturity, and until you can act on this, and just cut ties, you'll be 'owned' by this investment. Look ahead, not back.


Once again ... such sage counsel!!

I think this is truly pertinent advice about cyber / virtual relationships. IMHO, friendships (on line) are good but when it tips over to the "relationship" side, you get setup for a lot of potential eventual pain. Friendship can be salvaged after the demise of the "relationship", but it takes a lot of maturity for that to happen.

Bethany has really given wise counsel here.